If

Posted On: April 29, 2010

IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being […]

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Vaginismus – When a Woman’s Body Says ‘No’

Posted On: April 23, 2010

Recently a girlfriend admitted that until she met me, she had always thought that vaginismus was a myth – a disease that was made up, or had been eradicated in the ’80s, and most definitely did not exist in modern day. In fact, vaginismus is a very real sexual concern that women experience, and more […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Men)

Posted On: April 22, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a woman to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who has walked through her past. A lover who is aware of her historic vulnerabilities. Who takes responsibility for her own stuff. Imagine a lover who has developed […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Women)

Posted On: April 21, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a man to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who accepts himself. A lover whose capacity to love you non-judgementally deepens as he is merciful toward himself. Imagine a lover who takes care of himself. A lover […]

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Poem: Imagine Lovers

Posted On: April 20, 2010

Imagine Lovers Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine lovers… Who smile in each other’s company. They say a strong and sensual YES to each other. Their YESes meet and fill their experience. Who tell the truth about what works and what doesn’t. They co-create solutions for […]

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The elephant in the bedroom: Talking about sex

Posted On: April 17, 2010

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about. Click here to read the article I wrote for The Online Citizen. For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about. I have come across a man who, after 15 […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman II

Posted On: April 14, 2010

Imagine a woman who is interested in her own life. A woman who embraces her life as teacher, healer, and challenge. Who is grateful for the ordinary moments of beauty and grace. Imagine a woman who participates in her own life. A woman who meets each challenge with creativity. Who takes action on her own […]

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Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage

Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Two hours of erotic teaching for your hands and hearts! Anastasia and Destin are artists and sex educators learning how to be an erotic couple. In this class, they demonstrate the ways they use erotic touch to expand pleasure, to deepen intimacy and to build trust. The first massage session documents Anastasia’s remarkable sexual response […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman I

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life. Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens to her needs and desires. Who […]

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Quotable Quotes: Sex and Sexuality

Posted On: April 2, 2010

You can learn more about healthy sexuality through discovering what other therapists, writers, and sexual health advocates have said about it. Healthy Sex Quotations I found from here: Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstacy. –Anais Nin Nothing is sexier than the naked mind–nothing more seductive than the inventive imagination. […]

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