Pouring ‘Cold’ Water

Pouring ‘Cold’ Water

Posted On: September 28, 2010

This piece first appeared on The Online Citizen. Have you ever poured ‘cold water’ over somebody else’s happiness? In a literal translation from the Chinese language, ‘pouring cold water’ means dousing the flames of passion. This usually happens when the opposite party is feeling elated about a new love, promotion or business deal, and somebody […]

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I’d Rather Not Say

I’d Rather Not Say

Posted On: September 24, 2010

This piece first appeared on The Online Citizen. I was on the MRT train with a new friend the other day, and he asked me what caused my marriage to end. We were both standing, dangling from different handrail supports. I looked around. We were surrounded by a lot of other commuters. This person is […]

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Take back your marriage after baby

Take back your marriage after baby

Posted On: September 23, 2010

This piece first appeared on AsiaOne Diva. Now that two has become three with the arrival of your baby, life has changed dramatically. Your wife is not only busy with the responsibilities of a mother, she might also be sore ‘down there’, and fatigued much of the time. She is doing her best, and you […]

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Sex is Good for You

Sex is Good for You

Posted On: September 20, 2010

The article first appeared in the September issue of Ezyhealth magazine. To read, click on the image.  

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My Comfort Zone – A Poem

Posted On: September 17, 2010

I used to have a comfort zone where I knew I wouldn’t fail. The same four walls and busywork were really more like jail. I longed so much to do the things I’d never done before, But stayed inside my comfort zone and paced the same old floor. I said it didn’t matter that I […]

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Sex and the King of Fruits

Sex and the King of Fruits

Posted On: September 17, 2010

 This piece first appeared on The Online Citizen. What is the relationship between sex and durians? Is there any at all? Since I am paid for my time, I like to use metaphors and analogies to make sure that I get my intended message across in the most effective way in the shortest amount of […]

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Zydena Launch

Posted On: September 9, 2010

I spoke at the press conference launching Zydena in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia on 25 August. Zydena (Udenafil) is the newest phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) inhibitor for erectile dysfunction (ED) in Malaysia. It comes in 100 mg and 200 mg tablet strengths and must be prescribed by a medical doctor. I agree to speak at the […]

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Community Project: All the Ladies!

Posted On: September 2, 2010

Action for AIDS wants more women to know that HIV/AIDS is a real issue that affects not only men, but women in Singapore. ‘All the Ladies!’ is a campaign to start running from August to October to raise women’s awareness for HIV/AIDS, and empower women to view regular HIV screening as a right to good […]

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Getting feedback after sex (Part 2 of 2)

Getting feedback after sex (Part 2 of 2)

Posted On: September 2, 2010

This piece first appeared on The Online Citizen. I talked about the role of open- and closed-ended questions to get feedback from our partner after a sexual experience. You might begin asking for sexual feedback by using a few open-ended questions. If your partner is not forthcoming, or you wish to get clearer answers, you […]

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