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Dr Martha Lee
Episode 76: God’s Callgirl and Healing from Abuse

Episode 76: God’s Callgirl and Healing from Abuse

Episode 76: God’s Callgirl and Healing from Abuse Episode 76: God’s Callgirl and Healing from Abuse. God’s Callgirl is the name of Carla van Raay’s memoir that has now sold over half a million copies around the world. It is a colourful story of a Catholic girl born in the Netherlands, who became a nunRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with PR Practitioner Dean Shams

Passionate Person – Interview with PR Practitioner Dean Shams

I interviewed Dean Shams who runs PR agency KinetiqBuzz for May 2016. 1) Tell us more about yourself. I run a boutique PR agency, KinetiqBuzz that help businesses increase their profile in the media and online with branded contents. I have been doing this since 2005. My articles have been published in many newspapers and magazinesRead More

Episode 74: Sexuality and Spirituality – 5th Recap

Episode 74: Sexuality and Spirituality – 5th Recap

Episode 74: Sexuality and Spirituality – 5th Recap Episode 74: Sexuality and Spirituality – 5th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee. This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here http://ift.tt/25OEe6S More here http://ift.tt/1UeFrdi http://ift.tt/1WquRFM

Episode 73: Date Yourself with Tamra Mercieca

Episode 73: Date Yourself with Tamra Mercieca

Episode 73: Date Yourself with Tamra Mercieca Episode 73: Date Yourself with Tamra Mercieca from Getting Naked. Are you ready to live happily right NOW? Today’s guest Tamra Mercieca specialises in helping people clear their negative mind-chatter so they can supremely fall in love with themselves. She says when a person loves and accepts themselvesRead More

Interview @ Sex and Happiness

Interview @ Sex and Happiness

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching was interviewed by Laurie Handlers for a straight talk about what’s happening in the world of sex in Asia. They begin by talking about Singapore where Martha lives and then they branch out into the rest of Asia. Listen here. Listen here About Martha Dr. MarthaRead More

Infographic: Guide to Understanding the Introverted

Infographic: Guide to Understanding the Introverted

Opposites attract. In all likelihood, you are probably with your opposite with one being of a different personality type. This is simple guide to people who are introverted. A good book you may wish to check out is The Introvert Advantage listed as one of my Top 10 recommended books in 2013 here. Who isRead More

Watch Sexologist Martha @ FuckUp Night Singapore

Watch Sexologist Martha @ FuckUp Night Singapore

I was one of three speakers at FuckUp Night at The Hub Singapore on Wed 1 June 2016. Fuckup Nights is a global movement to share business failure stories in a candid, irreverent way — to destigmatise the tough moments… to inspire more smart risk-taking, self-awareness, and challenge-tackling. I spoke alongside: CK Vishwakarma – Internet ofRead More

“I Went On A Prolonged Sex Date… With Myself”

“I Went On A Prolonged Sex Date… With Myself”

Premise of Prolonged Sex Date I first had the idea to go on a prolonged sex date with myself from my tantra supervisor Laurie Handlers. Robyn Vogel and I had interviewed her as part of the tele-summit we were co-hosting called Make Love Week (The tele-summit is over, but you can purchase the entire seriesRead More

Episode 72: Heads Up: Beyond the Blowjob

Episode 72: Heads Up: Beyond the Blowjob

Episode 72: Heads Up: Beyond the Blowjob Episode 72: Heads Up: Beyond the Blowjob with Dr Teesha Morgan. An in-depth talk about how to increase your sexual confidence, expand your sexual repertoire, and get the real low down on oral sex with Dr Teesha Morgan, Sex Therapist and Couples Counsellor. This talk will discuss communicationRead More

Slides: Sex and the Spine

Slides: Sex and the Spine

I gave five presentations at the one-day Sex and the Spine Symposium organised by NSpine as part of Spine Week at Marina Bay Sands Convention Centre on Mon 16 May 2016. At one point the event had 120 delegates. SpineWeek happens every four years and there are 4000 delegates this year. The topics I presentedRead More

Episode 71: Orgasmic Yoga: Where Masturbation Meets Meditation

Episode 71: Orgasmic Yoga: Where Masturbation Meets Meditation

Episode 71: Orgasmic Yoga: Where Masturbation Meets Meditation Episode 71: Orgasmic Yoga: Where Masturbation Meets Meditation by Dr. Martha Tara Lee. Orgasmic Yoga is an intimate way of stretching our capacity for pleasure. The premise is that an individual engages in solo sex or self-pleasuring for 30 minutes a day (with 30 days recommended asRead More

Episode 70: How Can I Love My Partner Back to Save My Marriage?

Episode 70: How Can I Love My Partner Back to Save My Marriage?

Episode 70: How Can I Love My Partner Back to Save My Marriage? Episode 70: How Can I Love My Partner Back to Save My Marriage? by Nina Potter. Nina reveals ways to be more open-hearted both toward ourselves and others in order to improve all of our relationships. We have a 24/7 relationship withRead More

Slides: The Future of Sex and Relationships

Slides: The Future of Sex and Relationships

I spoke about The Future of Sex and Relationship at an event organised by Singapore Futurists on Sun 8 May 2016. I spoke alongside two other presenters – including Oskar Hurme who spoke about emotional intelligence, and Roy Koo, a Virtual Reality evangelist who runs the VR blog ignite-vr.com.   You can find all myRead More

Episode 69: The Science of Sex and Spirit

Episode 69: The Science of Sex and Spirit

Episode 69: The Science of Sex and Spirit Episode 69: The Science of Sex and Spirit with Caffyn Jesse on Eros Evolution. Canadian Somatic Sex Education Caffyn Jesse claims that “Through the erotic we have a technology of profound joy. Sex is an art and craft through which we can apprehend and share a numinousRead More

Interview: Orgasmic Yoga on Girl Boner

Interview: Orgasmic Yoga on Girl Boner

I was interviewed about Orgasmic Yoga by August McLaughlin for the latest episode of her podcast Girl Boner on Thurs 5 May 2016. What is Orgasmic Yoga? Orgasmic Yoga involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices that individuals, couples, and groups can do while sexually aroused. When practiced regularly over time, Orgasmic Yoga can change yourRead More

Why We Feel You Should Do A 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Journey

Why We Feel You Should Do A 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Journey

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee hosts Dr. Victoria Reuveni and Jon Gosling on a discussion on Orgasmic Yoga. What is Orgasmic Yoga? How has it changed our lives? Why do we recommend people to do it? How can people do it? You may wish to listen to August McLaughlin interview Martha for her podcastRead More

Sign up for new telesummit – Make Love Week

Sign up for new telesummit – Make Love Week

Sex and sexuality are complex.  And we are all impacted by societal messages, cultural conditioning, past relationships and childhood memories. I spend every day sorting through this complexity whether it be with couples in my office (or on Skype) or in the many workshops I run  Even in my own life… I continue to sortRead More

Infographic: Ban the Silent Treatment

Infographic: Ban the Silent Treatment

Many women talk about how their partners shut down and shut them out in their relationship. The silent treatment need not continue. Seek relationship coaching and don’t suffer in silence any further. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a DoctorateRead More

3 Common Ways People React to Difficult Conversations

3 Common Ways People React to Difficult Conversations

This week, I want to share a new video I made while in Bali. Growing up, I was often told to sit down, and shut up – afterall, children are meant to seen, not heard. Familiar? Even as a grown up, I often worry about whether what I wanted to say was going to bearRead More

Episode 68: Conscious Erotic Touch with Yella Cremer

Episode 68: Conscious Erotic Touch with Yella Cremer

Episode 68: Conscious Erotic Touch with Yella Cremer Episode 68: Conscious Erotic Touch – Creating Connection and Flow for Couples with Yella Cremer. Learning how to touch can be so much fun! From her rich background in Tantric massage Yella developed tools for couples how to touch and connect erotically through touch. Listen here http://ift.tt/26ARuK9Read More

Interview: How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Difficulties

Interview: How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Difficulties

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching talks about overcoming premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties and delayed ejaculation. She also covers the most common mistakes men make in bed and what it takes for good sex. Eros Coaching specializes in sexuality and intimacy coaching. We provide private sex coaching, and sexual education events. ForRead More

Bare For Hope – Dr Martha Tara Lee

Bare For Hope – Dr Martha Tara Lee

04 Bare For Hope Dr Martha Tara Lee Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee talks about how her mom’s breast cancer affected her in Bare for Hope organised by Her World Singapore, and Breast Cancer Foundation. This was originally published in Oct 2015.

Slides: Role of Women in Overcoming ED with their Partners

Slides: Role of Women in Overcoming ED with their Partners

I spoke about the Role of Women in Overcoming ED with their Partners at a forum organised by a group of NTU students on Sat 21 February 2016. I spoke alongside three of the top urologists in Singapore at the event. You can find all my presentation slides here. About Martha Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr.Read More

Episode 67: Five Secrets to Pleasure and Connectedness

Episode 67: Five Secrets to Pleasure and Connectedness

Episode 67: Five Secrets to Pleasure and Connectedness Episode 67: Five Secrets to Pleasure and Connectedness with Dr. Mitchell Tepper. Dr. Martha Tara Lee welcomes Dr. Mitchell Tepper, Prophet of Pleasure, as they discuss pleasure, orgasm, trust, safety, connectedness, love, and desire to achieve ultimate satisfaction in your intimate relationships. Insights to the following secretsRead More

Testimonials – An Honest Dialogue about Male Masturbation

Testimonials – An Honest Dialogue about Male Masturbation

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee facilitated Men’s Circle: An Honest Dialogue about Male Masturbation where three brave men shared their masturbation practice on Wed 19 April 2016. These are the testimonials of those present: “Thank you for conducting the Masturbation (dialogue) session yesterday and for the opportunity to meet you personally. I thoroughly enjoyedRead More

Testimonial: “… we couldn’t consummate our marriage even after 3 years”

Testimonial: “… we couldn’t consummate our marriage even after 3 years”

“My hubby and I went to see Dr Martha when we couldn’t consummate our marriage even after 3 years. As you can imagine as a woman I don’t feel great especially when I can see that my hubby can function fine in bed. Martha remained available for me in the following 2-3 years to come,Read More

Slides: Female Sexual Dysfunctions + Sexual Healing

Slides: Female Sexual Dysfunctions + Sexual Healing

I spoke on Female Sexual Dsyfunctions: Couples Who Need a Helping Hand as part of Certificate of Andrology offered by Society of Men’s Health, Singapore at Amara Hotel on Sat 9 April 2016. This was the fifth year I returned as part of the teaching faculty. I am humbled and honored to be able toRead More

What is Shadow Work?

What is Shadow Work?

Most of us are told to focus only on what we want (also known as Law of Attraction). There is great wisdom in that. Yet we also should know that what we continue to resist persists. Shadow Work is a very powerful practice which can help you reclaim all the sides of who you are.Read More

Episode 65: Orgasmic Running with Sarah Martin

Episode 65: Orgasmic Running with Sarah Martin

Episode 65: Orgasmic Running with Sarah Martin Episode 65: Orgasmic Running with Sarah Martin. Dr Martha Tara Lee welcomes Sarah Martin to discuss the practice of Orgasmic Running. Sarah is passionate about finding creative ways to use sexual energy in service of our best possible health and well being. A key ingredient to that isRead More

Episode 66: The Ritual of Play with Cleo Dubois

Episode 66: The Ritual of Play with Cleo Dubois

Episode 66: The Ritual of Play with Cleo Dubois Episode 66: The Ritual of Play with Cleo Dubois. Cleo came out into SM play 30 years ago and found community, acceptance and healing in her relationships and erotic exchanges she had those who mentored her. She was blessed to be in the heart of theRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with Fitness Instructor Anne Elizabeth Moss

Passionate Person – Interview with Fitness Instructor Anne Elizabeth Moss

I interviewed Anne Elizabeth Moss who teaches yoga, bellydance and fitness! 1) What do you do? I am a yoga, bellydance and fitness (Bellyfit®) instructor here in Singapore. Currently, I am the only Bellyfit®  instructor in Singapore, and have been appointed Official Singapore Correspondent + Master Trainer. Most classes I teach are for both sexesRead More

Book Review: Heads Up

Book Review: Heads Up

I was invited to review Heads Up by the beautiful Dr. Teesha Morgan who was my schoolmate at the Institute for Advanced Study in Human Sexuality. The book promises to increase your sexual confidence, expand your sexual repertoire, and get the real low down on oral sex. Because I know Morgan personally, I knew IRead More

Book Review: My Journey Through War and Peace

Book Review: My Journey Through War and Peace

I was approached by the author Melissa Burch to review her book “My Journey Through War and Peace: Explorations of a Young Filmmaker, Feminist and Spiritual Seeker“. She sent me an advanced print copy on my request, and I wasn’t prepared for how much I’d like it. Published on 1 March 2016, the book opensRead More

How Your Self-Talk is Connected to Positive Sexuality

How Your Self-Talk is Connected to Positive Sexuality

What to you say to yourself about sex? Your thoughts will affect your attitude which will in turn affect your behavior when it comes to your sexual expression. Watch this video where I share a little story to illustrate the link between your self-talk with your sexuality. Watch it here Let me know what youRead More

Infographic: Women in the Workplace

Infographic: Women in the Workplace

Why are there more men in roles of leadership? Is gender all about the gender pay gap? Or do women not aspire to be in such roles? This infographic may shed some light on this. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologistRead More

The Underlying Problem about Sexual Harassment is…

The Underlying Problem about Sexual Harassment is…

Following my Facebook post about being sexually harassed, a male subscriber and supporter posted this below comment. I thought there is value in resharing (and have permission to reshare) it here. “The underlying problem is this person’s objectification of you and his apparently blindness or indifference to it. He’s treating you like I treat aRead More

What is Magnetic Desire?

What is Magnetic Desire?

What is desire? When does it become magnetic desire? And do you know how to work well with your desire? Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching differentiates between small, big and magnetic desires. She emphasizes the importance of staying with your desires without judgment instead of always focusing on doing and beingRead More

Episode 64: Talking Sex and Disordered Eating with August McLaughlin

Episode 64: Talking Sex and Disordered Eating with August McLaughlin

Episode 64: Talking Sex and Disordered Eating with August McLaughlin Martha welcomes August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner®, to explore disordered eating and its impact on sexuality. August overcame decades of poor body image and a severe eating disorder, which she was diagnosed with while working as an international model. With a backRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with Entrepreneur Michaela Anchan

Passionate Person – Interview with Entrepreneur Michaela Anchan

I interviewed Michaela Anchan because she is one smart woman who cares and support other women.   1) What do you do? I’m the founder and director at Woolf Works, a coworking space and community for women here in Singapore. Woolf Works is all about giving women the space and time to reach for theirRead More

Interview with Sylvain on Masturbation

Interview with Sylvain on Masturbation

Interview with Sylvain on Masturbation Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee interviews Sylvain on masturbation. He will be sharing more at this event http://ift.tt/1V4SKj4 For more events, visit http://ift.tt/1RILWW4

Learn One Super Short and Simple Tantric Practice

Learn One Super Short and Simple Tantric Practice

Have you ever wanted to learn tantra? This is one super simple tantric practice that you can begin with. Yes, really! Watch it here and if you like this video, please reshare it!  If you are interested to learn more about sexual alchemy, attend my Awakening to Tantra workshop on 5 April. Just drop in!Read More

Sexual Harassment Story + 7 Things People Shouldn’t Do

Sexual Harassment Story + 7 Things People Shouldn’t Do

Also Posted on Facebook I am a sexologist and I am also a woman. I want to share here publicly that I do know what it is like to constantly fear being sexually assaulted and feel violated. About five months ago, I began associating with a person and by circumstances and choice, I’ve had toRead More

What is Sexual Alchemy?

What is Sexual Alchemy?

Besides one can understand what sexual alchemy is, one needs to understand what alchemy is. Once you understand this, what are the three things needed for sexual alchemy to take place? This video explains it all. Watch it here and if you like this video, please reshare it!  If you are interested to learn moreRead More

Infographic: How to Beat Stress & Boost Happiness

Infographic: How to Beat Stress & Boost Happiness

This infographic shows how to beat stress and boost happiness. Laughter being one of them. Let’s not forget masturbation and sex! Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and relationship coaching for individualsRead More

Books I read in 2016

Books I read in 2016

I had set the goal of reading 150 back in 2013, 200 in 2014 and 2015. I ended up reading 152 books in 2013, 202 in 2014 and 168 in 2015. Though I fell short of reading 200 books in 2015, I intend to aim to read at least 200 books this year! Subscribe toRead More

Testimonials – Awakening to Tantra

Testimonials – Awakening to Tantra

Awakening to Tantra are my ongoing workshop series where I introduce participants to the principles of tantra in a safe space. One does not need a partner to learn tantra. “A very enlightening & educational session. At the end of the session, you feel more energetic, relaxed & feel good!” – Collin, 17 Feb 2016Read More

Infographic: Texting

Infographic: Texting

Frst popularized around 2005, sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones. And what is the difference between dating vs. hooking up? If you like this post, please share it. Please leave your comments on Facebook and Twitter and in the meantime, keep loving, live life fully andRead More

Testimonial – Fun with Cock

Testimonial – Fun with Cock

“I attended Martha’s ‘Fun with Cock’ workshop at the Festival of Really Good Sex in Sydney. Her session was one of my favourites across the weekend! Martha mixed her knowledge, personal experience and humour together in a fun and informative presentation. She gave time to practise all of the techniques presented in a safe andRead More

This is what love looks like…

This is what love looks like…

This is a special week For the Chinese, it’s the Lunar New Year. So happy new year to all of my Chinese subscribers! Also, we have Valentine’s Day this Sunday. I wish to take this opportunity to talk about the L-word: love. To do so, I need to show you this picture. Ok. A bitRead More

Passionate People – 2016

Passionate People – 2016

In 2015, I decided to feature one passionate person every month because there are so many amazing people doing fantastic work, whose life is an inspiration to behold that I thought more people really deserve to know about them. Hence the idea for a monthly Passionate Person was born! Please click on the images belowRead More

Infographic: Kissing

Infographic: Kissing

Kissing is intimate. Kissing is fun. Kissing with the right person can feel great. Here are some information about kissing. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and relationship coaching for individuals andRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with Adventurer Grant Rawlinson

Passionate Person – Interview with Adventurer Grant Rawlinson

I interviewed Grant Rawlinson who is an adventurer. He is the closest to an Ironman I know of! 1) What do you do? I do lots of things, but my main passion is adventure, I have climbed mountains all over the world for the past 15 years. In 2011 and 2012 I took part inRead More

Infographic: The Lifespan of Your Makeup

Infographic: The Lifespan of Your Makeup

Expired product lose their effectiveness. This is an infographic of the expiry dates of our makeup. Do take care of your skin and your health. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality andRead More

Testimonials – The Art of Lovemaking 101

Testimonials – The Art of Lovemaking 101

These are the testimonials from my workshop The Art of Lovemaking 101. “The Art of Lovemaking is a very fascinating and informative workshop. I have a better understanding of my own responses and needs, as well as the differences in communication and approach between man and woman. Martha has taught/ shared much into the quality,Read More

Passionate Person – Occupational Therapist Else Strom Vistisen

Passionate Person – Occupational Therapist Else Strom Vistisen

I interviewed my friend Else Strom Vistisen who is an occupational therapists. She is dedicated to pain release! 1) Tell us more about yourself. Hello. I’m Else the founder of Else Vistisen Therapy. I specialise in providing long-lasting pain relief and have successfully treated thousands of people from all over the world, transforming their health,Read More

Testimonial – Richard DeWald

Testimonial – Richard DeWald

This email came in today and I am sharing it here with permission: “I’m one of your (mostly) silent readers wishing you a Happy New Year. Thank you so much for your enlightened advocacy and teaching. If I lived in Singapore I probably would have been at most of your men’s sessions by now.  Read More

Testimonials – Red Tent

Testimonials – Red Tent

Red Tent is our monthly circle for women every New Moon. Find out the next one here. “Red Tent offers a space for women to speak on matters close to their heart, without judgement. It is like a mini women’s support group! There is something powerful about hearing each other’s stories. It connects people, andRead More

Testimonials – Sacred Pause

Testimonials – Sacred Pause

“This short session is a great opportunity to reflect about the past year, acknowledge the good and the not so good and project our energy into the year ahead.” – Sylvain Mahe, 22 Dec 2015 “Martha led us in a wonderful “mini retreat” reflecting on the past year and looking forward to 2016 and howRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with Doula Linda van Laer

Passionate Person – Interview with Doula Linda van Laer

I interviewed Linda van Laer who is a doula. Do what? Find out what a doula is. 1. Tell us about yourself I am a doula! When I mention this to people, I’m often met with confusion, as this is not a commonly known profession. Basically, a doula is a non-medical professional who supports aRead More

Book Review: Shanghai Tango

Book Review: Shanghai Tango

This book is a memoir of how China’s foremost male ballet dancer and colonel in people’s army in China for sex change operation. She then became the Shanghai Ballet’s Prima Ballerina. Being a sexologist, I was of course interested in reading about this person’s life story. Also I am somebody who really likes dance, andRead More

Testimonial – Orgasmic Yoga

Testimonial – Orgasmic Yoga

“I have been experimenting with your book this week and I am amazed at the change I feel in my body from a simple morning practice of kegels, orgasmic yoga and journaling. I do two 15 min sessions first thing and it literally powers up my whole day afterwards. I feel a tingling and warmthRead More

Testimonial – Masturbation Month

Testimonial – Masturbation Month

“I like what you are doing because there is a need for sex education in Singapore. Growing up, the only sex education available is through pornography. Singapore is behind in comparison to our western counterpart when it comes to sex education due to our ‘Asian complex’. I was interested in psychology when I went toRead More

Fear is the air…

Fear is the air…

You might have heard of the Paris attacks where ISIS has claimed responsibility for. The gunfire and blasts has killed 128 people. More here. We feel for those affected and hope that our loved ones aren’t. Do you view the world as scary? Do you have fear when you come up against the unfamiiar? HaveRead More

Infographic: Meditation

Infographic: Meditation

Contrary to belief, meditation is not necessarily linked to religion. There are many ways to meditate and this is a good summary of the benefits. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality andRead More

Passionate Person – Interview with Comedian Scott Mitchell

Passionate Person – Interview with Comedian Scott Mitchell

I interviewed Scott Mitchell who is a comedian by night. Humor is one of the hardest things to master – probably more so than sex. Why does he do what he do? 1. Tell us more about yourself. By day I am a Husband and father of 4 wonderful children. By night I am aRead More

Have You Heard About Single’s Day?

Have You Heard About Single’s Day?

It’s every Nov 11 which coincidentially falls on a new moon. First started in China in the 1990s as a way for singletons to celebrate their status, Singles’ Day got a boost in 2009 after e-commerce giant Alibaba used it to push online sales. It has since morphed into the world’s biggest shopping event thatRead More

Infographic: Your Brain On Sex

Infographic: Your Brain On Sex

There is a saying that our brain is our most powerful sexual organ. This is a fun infographic for the geeks out there: understand more about your brain and what happens during sex. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with aRead More

Public and Private Shaming

Public and Private Shaming

Singapore (and possibly not unlike other societies) really does a good job in public shaming. Every year in the weeks leading up to March when it is time to declare our income tax, you’d read media reports of individuals or companies who were penalised for trying to evade paying taxes. Coincidence or deterrence? In school,Read More

Book Review: The Body Image Survival Guide for Parents

Book Review: The Body Image Survival Guide for Parents

Among the many books on body image I have come across, this is one specifically, as the title states, for parents. It educates parents not just about children’s body consciousness, but also gives them a great introduction about how society and the kinds of messages that children are now facing are different. This would sensitizeRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Entrepreneur Pernilla Lindgren

Passionate People – Interview with Entrepreneur Pernilla Lindgren

I interviewed my friend Pernilla Lindgren who sells menstrual cups. She inspires me with her passion to help women in more in touch with their sexuality. 1) What do you do? I run a company that import and distribute a sanitary product for women called menstrual cups. I am working to release my own brandRead More

Cancer Affects Us All

Cancer Affects Us All

It’s October and it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month. I was interviewed for a campaign “Bare for Hope” initiated by Her World and Singapore Council of Women’s Organisations a few months ago. I spoke about how it was like having a mom with breast cancer. I received the link to the video interview the same dayRead More

Infographic: Bizarre Sleep Disorders

Infographic: Bizarre Sleep Disorders

Sleep is an important part of our lives. These are some bizarre sleep disorders, and should always be treated professionally. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and relationship coaching for individuals andRead More

This One is for the Men…

This One is for the Men…

Last week, I shared my episode on Vaginismus on my weekly radio show Eros Evolution. This week, the focus shifts to the men. Show description: “Premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties, delayed ejaculation and low sex drive are some of the issues men come to Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee for. In this episode, she willRead More

Infographic: Why Your Body Loves Sleep

Infographic: Why Your Body Loves Sleep

There are three phases of non-REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. Each stage can last from 5 to 15 minutes. You go through all three phases before reaching REM. These are some reasons why your body loves and needs sleep.   Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching.Read More

Vaginismus seems to be an epidemic…

Vaginismus seems to be an epidemic…

Those of you who have been following my work will know that I often talk about Vaginismus because this is the number one reason why couples seek me out. It is a condition that happens when a woman’s vagina shuts down making penetration difficult or impossible. I made an entire episode on my weekly radioRead More

Book Review: Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guid

Book Review: Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guid

Published in 2004, this book is for people who identify as highly sensitive people (HSP) and it guides them through the ways in which they can better survive and thrive. HSP’s reportedly make up about 20 percent of the population and because they feel overwhelmed with many of the things that people become acclimated to,Read More

7 Tips From Being On The 5 Show

7 Tips From Being On The 5 Show

I manifested a return to The 5 Show! Read my blog post about my first appearance here. Unlike my first appearance, this show was pre-recorded. Therefore, I felt a lot more relaxed than before. Since I was also more familiar with the producers, crew and hosts behind the scenes, it helped calm my nerves. The episode was airedRead More

Are You Beautiful?

Are You Beautiful?

Over the weekend, I extended a birthday greeting to a friend over Facebook. He complimented me on how radiant I look. It got me thinking and shared this as a post on Facebook. It made me happier than if he said I looked beautiful. I asked myself why. “To me, radiance comes from within, andRead More

Book Review: Stitching A Revolution

Book Review: Stitching A Revolution

I purchased this book, Stitching A Revolution about six years ago because I was very inspired by the work of Cleve Jones. He spoke at my school, The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and showed us videos and gave accounts of what the AIDS Memorial Quilt was about. I hadn’t heard about the AIDSRead More

Book Review: The Bonobo Way

Book Review: The Bonobo Way

“Lana is a voluptuous brunette with a seductive smile and big, sparkling, cocoa eyes. Flirtatious and fun-loving, she has a couple of boyfriends, but enjoys her gal pals just as much, if not more…. In many ways, Lana is just like a lot of wonderful women we know. But Lana is not a woman, norRead More

I am Bleeding!

I am Bleeding!

My Period… was one week late. Last month, I decided to track my bodily changes and mood on a day-to-day basis leading to my next period. It arrived at 1:25p.m. yesterday the moment I sat down with a new client. I excused myself and true enough… my period is here. On New Moons This period isRead More

Infographic: The Science of Happiness

Infographic: The Science of Happiness

Are you happy? Really, really happy? There is a science to happiness! And it doesn’t hurt to find out more! Are you happy? Just so you know, I provide sex, life and relationship coaching. There is no need to suffer in silence. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist ofRead More

Infographic: 6 Smartest Things You Can Do

Infographic: 6 Smartest Things You Can Do

These are some of the smartest things we can all be doing in the morning and evening. Which ones are you doing? And which ones should you be? Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. SheRead More

More at What Cost?

More at What Cost?

 Last week it was announced that the US had approved Flibanserin, the drug is the so-called “female viagra”. In theory, it would make a lot of women want to have more sex… even if marginally more. Here are 7 things You Need to Know… 1) What is it? – Flibanserin (pronounciation here) will be soldRead More

Self-Help Reminder

Self-Help Reminder

I came across this on Facebook, and don’t know the original source. It’s a great one to pause on and reflect: which ones are you currently doing? via Instagram I am teaching very gentle yet profound practices of greater presence and authenticity through The Art of Feminine Presence. I like to invite you to attendRead More

Infographic: Our Endocrine System

Infographic: Our Endocrine System

The word endocrine derives from the Greek words “endo,” meaning within, and “crinis”. Our endocrine system is the collection of glands that produce hormones that regulate metabolism, growth and development, tissue function, sexual function, reproduction, sleep, and mood, among other things. The endocrine system is made up of the pituitary gland, thyroid gland, parathyroid glands,Read More

Sex Toy Review: Bamboo by Rocks-Off

Sex Toy Review: Bamboo by Rocks-Off

I’ve decided that there is a new sex toy on the market which would make an ideal first sex toy for ladies. Watch my video review of Bamboo by Rocks Off here! Product Features: Unique design with a touch of class Made from Phthalate free ABS plastic Requires 1 AAA battery (included) 10 Powerful VibrationRead More

Quote of the Day

Quote of the Day

Are you worried as your partner seems to have considerably and noticably cooled down towards you? Or perhaps both of you know something is lacking in your relationship? Do you guys desire to work at it so you have a GREAT rather than good relationship? I am a sexologist and I work with couples whoRead More

Be A Man

Be A Man

What does it mean to be a man? Produced, Directed, and Edited by Cut.com, men from 5 – 50 (and every age in between) responded to the question of what it means to “be a man.” If you identify as being a man, what does it mean to you? If you identify as being aRead More

Testimonial – Masturbation Month Video

Testimonial – Masturbation Month Video

“I wanted to thank you for sharing this story, it is very touching, personal and powerful to hear.   I found your site because I have just begun the Sexological Bodywork training, and found your website on the alumni links. I’m Taiwanese-American (born in Taiwan raised in US), but studied and worked in Singapore forRead More

Book Review: Designer Relationships

Book Review: Designer Relationships

You’ve probably heard of the saying, “We need to learn how to love ourselves before we can love another.” The real question is what is love? Once we know the real answer to that question, we can begin to understand how to truly love, and what to do when love shows up in different shapesRead More

Author Interview with Ranford Neo

Author Interview with Ranford Neo

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

Poem: Our Deepest Fear

Poem: Our Deepest Fear

Have you read the poem Our Deepest Fear by Marianne Williamson before? I love this poem so much that it has been my intention for a long time to recite this and inspire the world. I decided to do so with two other wonderful ladies. They are: Angela Ognev and Natalie Leroux. You can watchRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Artist Pamela Yee

Passionate People – Interview with Artist Pamela Yee

I interviewed Pamela Yee who is a full-time  artist. What exactly does she do? 1) What do you do? I’m a fulltime artist and I enjoy drawing whimsical portraits of people and animals with ink on paper. 2) Why do you do what you do? I enjoy getting lost in the details as the drawingsRead More

Infographic: Sex Around the World

Infographic: Sex Around the World

I often get questions around what’s normal, what’s common and what’s usual. This is an infographic about sex around the world. Let’s not get too caught up with the statistics and focus on the pleasures possible in life. About Martha Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is aRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Makeup Artist Yukiko Lim

Passionate People – Interview with Makeup Artist Yukiko Lim

I interviewed Yukiko Lim who is a makeup artist. What exactly does one do, and how can they help in beauty? 1) What do you do? I am a makeup artist. My work involves enhancing a person’s looks for the day of her event, be it for photoshoot for corporate brochure, a special themed dinnerRead More

Testimonial – Blog Post

Testimonial – Blog Post

“I clicked on this totally ready to find something to disagree with or challenge, and instead I found a great article that I really resonated with. I’m pretty skeptical of “gimmicks” and pretentious people claiming they’re something they’re not, but I think this woman is the real deal, and really has something to say. AsideRead More

Quote of the Day

Quote of the Day

I think this ends the discussion of whether it is happier to give or receive. If you have difficulties with receiving, learn how to do in a deep way with the profound practices in The Art of Feminine Presence. I like to invite you to attend one of my Art of Feminine Presence classes. IRead More

Order My Book

Order My Book

You can order my first book Love Sex and Everything In-between here http://bit.ly/1HAlTfU. Free shipping worldwide.

Infographic: Yoga Poses for Better Sex

Infographic: Yoga Poses for Better Sex

Do you do yoga? Did you know yoga helps with sex? If yes, these are the ones you are probably already doing which you could get more pleasure from! If not, there’s always time to begin. How about now? Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. SheRead More

8 Questions with Adult Shop U4Ria

8 Questions with Adult Shop U4Ria

1) Tell us about your business. Back in Year 2000, topics about bedroom activities and adult toys were still taboo in Singapore, few would openly discussed their inadequacies or fantasies! We knew that there was a genuine need for adult toys to aid couples in achieving a better sex lives and improve their relationship. So,Read More

Can Women Be Superheroes?

Can Women Be Superheroes?

“A lot has changed in terms of women warriors. In 2013, we met an all-female X-Men crew, along with an impressive Muslim-American Ms. Marvel named Kamala Khan. In 2014, a female Thor took the comic realm by storm, followed by a new and improved Batgirl costume. In 2015, we heard whispers of an all-female Avengers-esqueRead More

Reminder of the Day

Reminder of the Day

Who do you hang out with? Who would you like to hang out with? The people who you want to hang out with will also be the same people deciding if they want to hang out with you. The more we work on ourselves (inner work or play – whichever way you look at it),Read More

Gender Grammar

Get your gender grammar right #glbt #lgbt #transgender

Quote of the Day

Quote of the Day

Do you feel in your deepest inner self that something is off? Perhaps you couldn’t place your finger quite on it but you feel something is lacking. And you don’t know what it is? Listen… listen… listen to your soul’s calling. I like to invite you to attend one of my Art of Feminine PresenceRead More

Sex Toy Review: Vesper by Carve

Sex Toy Review: Vesper by Carve

What if your sex toy was so beautiful it could be worn as a necklace? There is now one product that is both elegant and functional. Watch my video review here! Features of VESPER include: • USB rechargeable with the supplied cable • Stainless steel body + tip + chain • Whisper quiet • SplashproofRead More

Infographic: Average Men’s Measure

Infographic: Average Men’s Measure

Ooh… this one would be of interest to the men out there. We have an infographic on Asean sizes… Now please don’t get all stressed out about sizes. It’s all about how you use it too! Find out more about my online program Ready, Get Sex, Go on increasing sexual performance here. Subscribe for FreeRead More

Are You Fascinated with Heroes?

Are You Fascinated with Heroes?

Our fascination with heroes may well have started with all the comic books we read, and the action hero figurines we played with growing up. Lately, I’ve been watching a lot of reality shows. I am especially fascinated with a new breed of kids who are being born who are pure love, light and joy.Read More

Quote of the Day

Quote of the Day

If you have fears around love, you can release those barriers and open yourself to love in very gentle yet profound ways with The Art of Feminine Presence. I like to invite you to attend one of my Art of Feminine Presence classes. I am running weekly, half-day and full-day classes. Testimonials here. Check outRead More

Movie Review: Serious Moonlight

Movie Review: Serious Moonlight

Directed by Cheryl Hines, Serious Moonlight is a 2009 black comedy film. It opens with the main character, the husband Ian, played by Timothy Hutton, who is just about to write his wife a note saying that he’s leaving her. Louise, the high-powered attorney played by Meg Ryan comes home one day early and findsRead More

What If You Had A Real Identity?

What If You Had A Real Identity?

Over the weekend, I came across a fascinating story of two pairs of twins, where one of each twin went home with the wrong family after birth. I found myself drawn into the story… and it was one long article! I noticed myself tearing up at this part: “… Even still, William felt that hisRead More

Infographic: Sex Toys

Infographic: Sex Toys

Do you have sex toys? How many do you have? And how much have you spent on them? This infographic tells you more! Subscribe for Free Educational Content Around Masturbation P.S. While you are here, please remember to pre-order your copy of my second book, Orgasmic Yoga where you will learn how to have evenRead More

Author Interview with Mark Jamieson

Author Interview with Mark Jamieson

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

Who Am I Wearing?

You can see one of the dresses I wore for the filming on May 25 below. Just giving a shout out to Glitter Glam. via Instagram You can see another one of the dresses from Glitter Glam here, and here. Self declaration: Glitter Glam loans me dresses for my filming/ events. I receive no benefitRead More

Book Review: Social Selling

Book Review: Social Selling

I purchased this book Social Selling: 10 Essential Strategies to Prospect, Position, and Present using Social Media by Tom Abbott because I know him personally through Asia Professional Speakers Singapore. And as I had also previously read his first book The SOHO Solution, I knew I could count on Abbott to deliver value, and indeed,Read More

Passionate People – Interview with Yoga Teacher Nithya Priyan

Passionate People – Interview with Yoga Teacher Nithya Priyan

I interviewed Nithya Priyan who is a yoga teacher. What exactly does he do, and how can he help the man-on-the-street? 1) What you do? I’m a yoga instructor conducting Hatha, Yin and flow classes for people of all walks, ages and levels of fitness. 2) Why do you do what you do? I pickedRead More

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#AdultSexEd Fact 21 – 25 of 25

#AdultSexEd Fact 21 – 25 of 25

Following Masturbation Month in May, there is another online campaign going on…. and it’s important to me personally and professionally. June is Adult Sex Ed month! My clients lament about the lack of sexuality education growing up. Just where do we get the sex ed we didn’t get? Follow #adultsexed as bloggers, sexologists and theRead More

Dr. Stanislaus D. K. Lai on the Importance of Sexuality

Dr. Stanislaus D. K. Lai on the Importance of Sexuality

I met Dr. Stanislaus D. K. Lai at the 13th Asia-Ocean Federation of Sexology conference which ran Oct 22 to 25, 2014 in Brisbane, Australia. Dr. Lai is with Department of Applied Social Sciences, City University of Hong Kong. I took the opportunity to ask about his work and the importance of our sexuality in hisRead More

What’s a She Shed?

What’s a She Shed?

Men have their caves, and now women have their sheds. In the United States, “She Sheds” are a new trend that allow women to escape to their own personal private retreats, without leaving home. More here. I am sharing this piece of news not because it is feasible to have one at home… This isRead More

#AdultSexEd Fact 16 – 20 of 25

#AdultSexEd Fact 16 – 20 of 25

Following Masturbation Month in May, there is another online campaign going on…. and it’s important to me personally and professionally. June is Adult Sex Ed month! My clients lament about the lack of sexuality education growing up. Just where do we get the sex ed we didn’t get? Follow #adultsexed as bloggers, sexologists and theRead More

Infographic:  Sexual Orientation Stats in the U.S.

Infographic: Sexual Orientation Stats in the U.S.

Sexual orientation refers to a person’s sexual identity in relation to the gender to which they are attracted; the fact of being heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. These are the organisations that take the position that same sex orientation is not a mental disorder and oppose any “reparative” or conversion therapy that seeks to “change” orRead More

Author Interview with Karen Lee

Author Interview with Karen Lee

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

Dr. Rosediani Muhamad on the Importance of Sexuality

Dr. Rosediani Muhamad on the Importance of Sexuality

I met Dr. Rosediani Muhamad from Malaysia at the 13th Asia-Ocean Federation of Sexology conference which ran Oct 22 to 25, 2014 in Brisbane, Australia. She was also attending the conference, and completing her doctorate in Melbourne. I took the opportunity to ask her about why she thought our sexuality was important. If you likedRead More

#AdultSexEd Fact 11 – 15 of 25

#AdultSexEd Fact 11 – 15 of 25

Following Masturbation Month in May, there is another online campaign going on…. and it’s important to me personally and professionally. June is Adult Sex Ed month! My clients lament about the lack of sexuality education growing up. Just where do we get the sex ed we didn’t get? Follow #adultsexed as bloggers, sexologists and theRead More

On Homosexuality

On Homosexuality

As a certified sexologist, I have stood by and not said anything for far too long. This year, I really couldn’t sit by and say nothing. You might read or heard about the increased tension around Pink Dot in Singapore (If you haven’t, you just need to google it). Occasionally I put out content thatRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Hypnocoach Nathanael Seers

Passionate People – Interview with Hypnocoach Nathanael Seers

I interviewed my friend Nathanael Seers who is a hypnocoach. He inspires me for his ongoing pursuit of personal and professional excellence. 1) Tell us more about yourself. I am a Hypnocoach. It is a unique profession and a conversational starter when I meet new people. Whenever I mention the word hypnosis, many would tellRead More

#AdultSexEd Fact 6 – 10 of 25

#AdultSexEd Fact 6 – 10 of 25

Following Masturbation Month in May, there is another online campaign going on…. and it’s important to me personally and professionally. June is Adult Sex Ed month! My clients lament about the lack of sexuality education growing up. Just where do we get the sex ed we didn’t get? Follow #adultsexed as bloggers, sexologists and theRead More

Dr. Dariusz P. Skowronski on the Importance of Sexuality

Dr. Dariusz P. Skowronski on the Importance of Sexuality

I met Dr Dariusz P. Skowronski, Adjunct Professor at Psychological Studies, Temple University Japan Campus at the 13th Asia-Ocean Federation of Sexology conference which ran Oct 22 to 25, 2014 in Brisbane, Australia. I asked Dr Dariusz about his work and why sexuality was important in his opinion. If you liked this video, subscribe to myRead More

Father’s Day Returning: Featuring 3 Daughters

Father’s Day Returning: Featuring 3 Daughters

Following my Mother’s Day campaign, I decided to interview three daughters on their relationship with their fathers. Often we celebrate on the mother and treat Father’s Day with less warmth, so it begs the question: what about the fathers? May it inspire you to appreciate even more and draw even closer to your own fatherRead More

Father’s Day 3 of 3: Pearly Phua

Father’s Day 3 of 3: Pearly Phua

I produced three videos for Father’s Day to remind and inspire us of a father’s love. I interviewed my friend Pearly Phua about her relationship with her father. Return to love…. subscribe to the other videos here. Sign up for my free videos under these other campaigns: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, and Mother’s Day!

Infographic: Kinsey Scale

Infographic: Kinsey Scale

The Kinset Scale is essentially a Heterosexual-Homosexual Rating Scale. It was developed by Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues Wardell Pomeroy and Clyde Martin in 1948, in order to account for research findings that showed people did not fit into neat and exclusive heterosexual or homosexual categories. How does one know where in the scale theyRead More

#AdultSexEd Fact 1 – 5 of 25

#AdultSexEd Fact 1 – 5 of 25

Following Masturbation Month in May, there is another online campaign going on…. and it’s important to me personally and professionally. June is Adult Sex Ed month! My clients lament about the lack of sexuality education growing up. Just where do we get the sex ed we didn’t get? Follow #adultsexed as bloggers, sexologists and theRead More

Father’s Day 2 of 3: Yasmine Khater

Father’s Day 2 of 3: Yasmine Khater

I produced three videos for Father’s Day to remind and inspire us of a father’s love. I interview my friend Yasmine Khater on her relationship with her father. Return to love…. subscribe to the other videos here. Sign up for my free videos under these other campaigns: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, and Mother’s Day!

Sex Toy Review: Zini Zook V.2

Sex Toy Review: Zini Zook V.2

It’s been a while since I released a sex toy review, and this is one which I am happy to talk about because I looove the design. Zook means Bamboo in the Korean language and as you can see, Zook does resemble the Bamboo! It comes in three different colours, and the version two IRead More

Pramote on the Importance of Sexuality

Pramote on the Importance of Sexuality

I met Pramote from Borderless Friendship Foundation, Chiang Mai, Thailand at the 13th Asia-Ocean Federation of Sexology conference which ran Oct 22 to 25, 2014 in Brisbane, Australia. I took the opportunity to ask him about his work and the importance of sexuality. Find out more about Pramote and his work here. If you likedRead More

Father’s Day 1 of 3: Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Father’s Day 1 of 3: Dr. Martha Tara Lee

I produced three videos for Father’s Day to remind and inspire us of a father’s love. I talk about my relationship with my father in this video. Return to love…. subscribe to the other videos here. Sign up for my free videos under these other campaigns: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, and Mother’s Day! WhoRead More

Unreported Trend: Cupless Bras

Unreported Trend: Cupless Bras

I thought you’d want to know this. I’ve been alerted by adult shop I partner with U4Ria that there is a growing popularity of shelf bras, cupless bras, quarter-cup bras or half-cup bras in Singapore. Rather than for day-to-day wear or for comfort, such bras (all names referring to the same) are a type ofRead More

Spoke @TTSH

Spoke @TTSH

I was faulty staff for Certificate in Andrology for Society of Men’s Health at Tan Tock Seng Hospital on Sunday 23 May 2015. I presented on 1) Let’s talk about Sex. Sexual Counselling 101. 2) Non-­‐surgical and non-­‐pharmacological treatments About Martha Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She isRead More

Masturbation Facts 22 – 30 of 30

Masturbation Facts 22 – 30 of 30

May is Masturbation Month in the U.S. Every year, Eros Coaching runs a campaign around masturbation with aims of: Educate more people about masturbation and the benefits through demystifying this aspect of sex and sexuality Help those already enjoying themselves to delve further Encourage more positive conversations about sex and sexuality Subscribe for Free EducationalRead More

Infographic: Kegels

Infographic: Kegels

There are so many benefits to doing your pelvic floor muscles. I strongly encourage you to pay attention to this one! Subscribe for Free Educational Content Around Masturbation   Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality.Read More

Book Review: From Peak to Peak

Book Review: From Peak to Peak

From Peak to Peak tells the inspirational story of mountaineers Grant ‘Axe’ Rawlinson and Alan Silva’s incredible human-powered journey and on a shoestring budget of NZ$2,000 per person. It took the duo 22 days to reach the summit of Mt. Cook, the highest peak in New Zealand. Rawlinson came up with the idea of climbingRead More

Should You Plan Lovemaking Dates? @ Mission Date Nite

Should You Plan Lovemaking Dates? @ Mission Date Nite

Should we be planning lovemaking dates? Shouldn’t sex be spontaneous? Well I beg to differ. I said yes to scheduling time. I explained why, and provided ideas how this can be done in this podcast. We schedule time for everything else that is important. Why not sex? Listen to it here!   About Drs. RobRead More

Masturbation Facts 15 – 21 of 30

Masturbation Facts 15 – 21 of 30

May is Masturbation Month in the U.S. Every year, Eros Coaching runs a campaign around masturbation with aims of: Educate more people about masturbation and the benefits through demystifying this aspect of sex and sexuality Help those already enjoying themselves to delve further Encourage more positive conversations about sex and sexuality Subscribe for Free EducationalRead More

I Neeed Some Lovin’ for My Book, Orgasmic Yoga!

I Neeed Some Lovin’ for My Book, Orgasmic Yoga!

In case you didn’t already know, I am writing a book called Orgasmic Yoga. It will be my second book, and I am crowdfunding. Orgasmic Yoga will be published if $5000 is funded by Thursday 28 May 2015 9:53 a.m. SGT. What is Orgasmic Yoga? Many of us are not aware of our extraordinary capacityRead More

What’s the Point?

What’s the Point?

When I see people walking on the streets, I wonder… How they end up doing whatever it is they do… Whether it is what they for a living.. Who they are in relationship with… The kind of food they eat… The clothes they wear… or not… The cars they drive… or not… The children theyRead More

Book Review: Ecosexuality – When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love

Book Review: Ecosexuality – When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love

Do you love Mother Earth? No really. Do you? If Mother doesn’t speak to you, how about imagining Father Earth instead? Or Earth as a lover? However you look at it, our very survival is dependent on earth being o.k. How about more than o.k.? More like thriving? It may not seem like it, butRead More

Testimonials – Ready, Get Sex, Go

Testimonials – Ready, Get Sex, Go

“Previously, I have signed up for an online workshop known as RGSG. It is a very suitable programme for men who are shy and yet they’d like to seek help on PE. Through the online workshop, I could understand better several methods on delaying ejaculation and my fiancee and I could watch the videos andRead More

Testimonials – Conscious Vagina for Men Who Love Women

Testimonials – Conscious Vagina for Men Who Love Women

As of June 2016, “Conscious Vagina” was re-named “The Art of Yoni Massage” to be better aligned to the names of my other workshops. “It was very open and frank. Presentation was very clear using illustrative notes, toys, books and hand and body demonstration. It keeps me attentive and interested during the whole workshop.” –Read More

Online Program – Sex Possible: Overcome Vaginismus for Ladies

Online Program – Sex Possible: Overcome Vaginismus for Ladies

Is Sex Impossible? Get yourself out of pain into pleasure! Dear Woman, Do you sometimes feel there is something wrong with you? You cannot feel satisfaction only pain and fear when you try to have sex and you cannot tell why! First of all, let’s evaluate your symptoms. Please answer with YES or NO onRead More

Online Program: Overcome Premature Ejaculation for Men

Online Program: Overcome Premature Ejaculation for Men

Conquer Your Premature Ejaculation and Regain Control Over Your Sexual Life Once and For All Have you reached the point where you view sex as a forever losing game? Has Premature Ejaculation been like a bully that doesn’t let you enjoy the best moments in your life? It’s time to fight back and take controlRead More

2 Offers for Masturbation Month by U4Ria

2 Offers for Masturbation Month by U4Ria

Over the years, I have been approached many times by numerous online adult shops who wish to partner with me. I have stayed firm in my partnership with local adult lifestyle shop U4Ria – Adult Healthy Lifestyle because of their quality service. I have chosen to continue working with them because I believe that aRead More

Infographic: This is How You Masturbate

Infographic: This is How You Masturbate

May is Masturbation Month! Subscribe to my online campaign here! Do you masturbate? Cosmo has some interesting statistics for you! Subscribe for Free Educational Content Around Masturbation P.S. While you are here, please remember to pre-order your copy of my second book, Orgasmic Yoga where you will learn how to have even more pleasure andRead More

Masturbation Facts 8 – 14 of 30

Masturbation Facts 8 – 14 of 30

May is Masturbation Month in the U.S. Every year, Eros Coaching runs a campaign around masturbation with aims of: Educate more people about masturbation and the benefits through demystifying this aspect of sex and sexuality Help those already enjoying themselves to delve further Encourage more positive conversations about sex and sexuality Subscribe for Free EducationalRead More

Author Interview with Otto Fong

Author Interview with Otto Fong

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

Statement about Reparative Therapy

Statement about Reparative Therapy

The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) is a not-for-profit, interdisciplinary professional organization. In addition to sexuality educators, sexuality counselors and sex therapists, AASECT members include physicians, nurses, social workers, psychologists, allied health professionals, clergy members, lawyers, sociologists, marriage and family counselors and therapists, family planning specialists and researchers, as well asRead More

Support my Book: Orgasmic Yoga!

Support my Book: Orgasmic Yoga!

Orgasmic Yoga is an intimate way of stretching our capacity for pleasure. When you engage in solo sex or self-pleasure for 30 minutes a day for 30 days, you will be transformed and your body, heart and soul will sing. Suited for people with penises and vaginas, this book is for you if you: Don’tRead More

Masturbation Facts 1 – 7 of 30

Masturbation Facts 1 – 7 of 30

May is Masturbation Month in the U.S. Every year, Eros Coaching runs a campaign around masturbation with aims of: Educate more people about masturbation and the benefits through demystifying this aspect of sex and sexuality Help those already enjoying themselves to delve further Encourage more positive conversations about sex and sexuality Subscribe for Free EducationalRead More

Are You A Morning or Night Person?

Are You A Morning or Night Person?

Online erotic brand Lovehoney found that people tend to settle down with partners who have similar sex drives to their own. In a survey of 2,300 people in Britain, almost two-thirds of women (63 per cent) and 54 per cent of men said they wanted sex as much as their current partner. However, there wereRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Trainer, Speaker, Author Nishant Kasibhatla

Passionate People – Interview with Trainer, Speaker, Author Nishant Kasibhatla

I interviewed my friend Nishant Kasibhatla who is a trainer, speaker and author of multiple books. He inspires me for his humility and humanity, as well as for willingness to uplift people through his work and words! 1) Tell us more about yourself. I am Certified Speaking Professional, corporate trainer, author, Guinness Record Holder (2011)Read More

More about my Upcoming Book: Orgasmic Yoga

More about my Upcoming Book: Orgasmic Yoga

Three years ago, when I went through a relationship breakup which triggered a year-long hives attack and plunged me into depression. A friend suggested that I return to doing Orgasmic Yoga. In my effort to stay open to love and life, I took her advice and embarked on not one but two Orgasmic Yoga cyclesRead More

Infographic: Faking Orgasms

Infographic: Faking Orgasms

It’s Masturbation Month. Let’s talk about orgasms. Faking orgasms to be precise. This is an infographic to start us with. What are your thoughts? Leave us a comment below! Sign up for my free videos under these campaigns this year: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day!

Crowdfunding: Orgasmic Yoga

Crowdfunding: Orgasmic Yoga

My book Orgasmic Yoga was originally intended to be a small e-book launched as part of my annual Masturbation Month campaign. While reviewing the 10,000 odd words, it dawned on me that the content was fantastic. Orgasmic Yoga deserved and need to be in more hands! I realised I could easily turn it into aRead More

Live @ The 5 Show on Channel 5

Live @ The 5 Show on Channel 5

I was on The 5 Show talking about the importance of scheduling time for physical intimacy on Channel 5 on Monday 27 April, 8:30 – 9p.m. Actually my segment was around 3 mins. You can watch it here. Watch it here. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of ErosRead More

What is Scissoring?

What is Scissoring?

According to Urban Dictionary, “Scissoring” is a “lesbian sex act where two partners interlock their spread legs (like two pairs of scissors) and grind their vulvae together to stimulate each other’s clitoris to orgasm. Also called tribadism, the practice has many colloquialisms. In some Central American countries it is called ‘making tortillas’, and the ChineseRead More

Which Door Would You Choose?

Which Door Would You Choose?

Have You Seen the Latest Dove Ad? If there were two doors, one marked “Beautiful” and another “Average”, which would you choose? Do you have enough self-confidence on any chosen day to choose “Beautiful”? I found this video interesting with words being words had a big effect on everybody who went through them. It remindedRead More

Passionate People – 2015

Passionate People – 2015

I decided to feature one passionate person every month because there are so many amazing people doing fantastic work, whose life is an inspiration to behold that I thought more people really deserve to know about them. Hence the idea for a monthly Passionate Person was born! Please click on the images below to readRead More

Subscribe to Mother’s Day

Subscribe to Mother’s Day

For the second year, I will be running an online campaign for Mother’s Day. I interviewed three of my friends: Maxine Teo, Ye Ruoshi and Theresa Tan. As a special bonus, my beautiful friend Maxine Teo also sang a song “Mother of Mine” for this occasion. This is a little teaser – only 27 secs!Read More

Author Interview with Theresa Tan

Author Interview with Theresa Tan

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

Testimonials – Body Love

Testimonials – Body Love

Body Love is my workshop for women who desire to have more self-acceptance, appreciation and self-love of their bodies. These are my testimonials: “It is one of the most reflective and amazing workshop I’ve ever attended! At the first segment, I need to talk about my childhood experiences with my Body. At the second segment, I needRead More

Awesome Relationship Article

Awesome Relationship Article

The One Thing You Need to Do to Save Your Marriage Read this awesome article with relationship exercises. As a sexologist, it saddens me that Women are unable to have sex because of a sexual phobia like Vaginismus, and I’ve had an online program specifically to address this for more than a year. Men takeRead More

Movie Review: Rubbers

Movie Review: Rubbers

Is sex a taboo subject? As a sexologist, everybody around me tells me so. Indeed, my clients who come in to me usually have difficulties in the bedroom. It is often linked to the lack of sexuality education, as well as challenges around sexual communication. If we can’t talk about sex, can we start byRead More

Are You Sexually Satisfied?

Are You Sexually Satisfied?

3 in 10 Singaporean women satisfied with sex lives Did you read in the news that of 800 women in Singapore aged 18 to 50 polled, three in 10 women are satisfied with their sex lives? 67 percent masturbate as it makes them feel happy and good about themselves. They masturbate thrice a month onRead More

“I’m Just Not Feeling It”

“I’m Just Not Feeling It”

This article first appeared in the April 2015 issue of Ezyhealth & Beauty magazine. Click on the image to read. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals andRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Nutritionist Vivianna Wou

Passionate People – Interview with Nutritionist Vivianna Wou

This month, I decided to interview and feature Vivianna Wou after one consultation with her about my chronic fatigue and frequent stomache bloatedness. I found her to listen deeply, care a lot about her clients and her work. I know more of us could do with professionalism with compassion! 1) Tell us about yourself. IRead More

My Top 10 Recommended Books From 2014

My Top 10 Recommended Books From 2014

In 2014, I planned to read at least 200 books and achieved it! These are my top ten books that I’m recommending to you from my 2014. 10) Ex Gay No Way In his book, Jallen Rix talks about his journey of going through conversion therapy believing that being gay is really a bad thing.Read More

Sex Fact 1: HIV & AIDS

Sex Fact 1: HIV & AIDS

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My Own Biography

My Own Biography

I am doing the exercises in the book Finding Water by Julia Cameron. This is her third book in the series under The Artist’s Way. I stumbled upon the book, and having been resuming my Morning Pages, weekly Artistic Date, as well as weekly walk. My spirits are lifted. I am inspired once more. InRead More

My Top 10 Recommended Books From 2013

My Top 10 Recommended Books From 2013

In 2013, I read more than 150 books. Of them, I like to recommend you ten books. 10) For Men Only This is for men who find women difficult and complicated to understand. It is the result of hundreds of interviews, as well as a national scientific survey that was done in the U.S. EvenRead More

Poem: Trees by Emmelin Leclerc

Poem: Trees by Emmelin Leclerc

Trees are energy. They give us gas to keep going when life gets hard. They take away all our pain and sorrow. Trees are fire. They keep us warm if ever we are cold. They give us shelter if there is rain. Trees are breath. We receive the oxygen they give us and we giveRead More

My Posts Relating to Femininity – At A Glance

My Posts Relating to Femininity – At A Glance

10 Signs You Are With A Soul Sister What’s Wrong With The Princess Who Loves Pink? Poem: The Empowered Woman by Sonny Carroll Poem: For Strong Women by Marge Piercy Sure! You Can Be A Feminist And Also Feminine 7 Protests about Femininity (Video) 7 Ways I Nurture My Femininity No. 1 Misconception about FemininityRead More

Poem: The Empowered Woman by Sonny Carroll

Poem: The Empowered Woman by Sonny Carroll

  She moves through the world with a sense of confidence and grace Her once reckless spirit now tempered by wisdom Quietly, yet firmly, she speaks truth without doubt or hesitation And the life she leads is of her own creation   She now understands what it means to live and let live How muchRead More

Do You Live In A Plastic Or Paper World?

Do You Live In A Plastic Or Paper World?

This below post is linked to “What’s Wrong With The Princess Who Loves Pink?“, You may wish to read it too. Yesterday, I was with my younger sister by a year, Hannah. I wanted to gift each of her two young children a present. She wondered aloud if it is possible to get a tiaraRead More

What’s Wrong With The Princess Who Loves Pink?

What’s Wrong With The Princess Who Loves Pink?

Not many people know this. I have many soul sisters and only one biological sister. Younger by one year, Hannah is married with two young kids. Yesterday, I was with her when I suggested she pick out one present on my behalf for each of her children. The shop we were in didn’t have whatRead More

Testimonial – On my blog post

Testimonial – On my blog post

“Clear & well written. Good supportive reference links encouraging the reader to read/check the provided references. Lastly, it does provide one with a gentle question mark of: Why does it have to be ‘A Race Thing’ … gentle enough for in my opinion any type of person to ingest the topic without getting said “grumpy”Read More

A Stitch In Time Saves…

A Stitch In Time Saves…

Nine. Needlework may well be a rare skill in my family. In a family of two daughters and one son, my dad is the seamster. You can see here the before-and-after shots of my shoe being repaired, namely the buckle of the shoe strip. Before repair – Buckle missing After repairs – As good asRead More

25 Things To Be Grateful For

25 Things To Be Grateful For

I am doing the exercises in the book Finding Water by Julia Cameron. This is her third book in the series under The Artist’s Way. I stumbled upon the book, and having been resuming my Morning Pages, weekly Artistic Date, as well as weekly walk. My spirits are lifted. I am inspired once more. InRead More

Why Does It Have to Be “A Race Thing”?

Why Does It Have to Be “A Race Thing”?

Growing up in multi-racial Singapore, where we have clearly defined racial groups and religious, the world was orderly, structured and made a whole lot of sense. Grown up now, I realise a lot of myths, misconceptions and stereotypes relating to gender, race and nationalities exist. Until a few years ago, I neither knew the termRead More

Sure! You Can Be A Feminist and Also Feminine.

Sure! You Can Be A Feminist and Also Feminine.

It’s Mon 9 March 9p.m. (Singapore time) as I write this. There has been a spate of articles that landed in my mailbox relating to feminism, femininity and Emma Watson just now. The Modern-Day Feminist When Emma Watson (the actress best remembered for her role in Harry Potter) became the UN Goodwill Ambassador for Women,Read More

Poem: For Strong Women by Marge Piercy

Poem: For Strong Women by Marge Piercy

A strong woman is a woman who is straining. A strong woman is a woman standing on tip toe and lifting a barbell while trying to sing Boris Godunov. A strong woman is a woman at work cleaning out the cesspool of the ages, and while she shovels, she talks about how she doesn’t mindRead More

Testimonial – My ebook for Ladies

Testimonial – My ebook for Ladies

“Thanks, Martha, for you super empowering ebook! It’s really powerful to recognise that each woman is unique but also not alone. We are special in our uniqueness and also find comfort in being the same as other women.” – Lady. Download your copy of “Reclaiming Your Sexuality” here!

7 Lessons from “Blowing It” at S1 Area Contest

7 Lessons from “Blowing It” at S1 Area Contest

I entered the International Speech as well as Tables Topics contests at my Toastmasters Club – Cheng San Toastmasters on Sat 28 Feb. I learned only after agreeing to enter the contest that I had to work on the day of the next round – Area contest. I realised how irresponsible it would be forRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Community Builder Gina Romero

Passionate People – Interview with Community Builder Gina Romero

This month, I decided to interview and feature Gina Romeo who is recognised as a mover and shaker in Singapore. If you haven’t heard of her, you should! 1) Tell us about yourself. I run a number of different communities and initiatives for women, focused on helping women raise their profiles as experts and getRead More

Infographic: When do Women Orgasm during a Hookup?

Infographic: When do Women Orgasm during a Hookup?

This is an interesting infographic I came across. Do you agree with this? What do you think about this? Please leave a comment below! Sign up for my free videos under these campaigns this year: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day!

My Bedtime Prayer

My Bedtime Prayer

I am doing the exercises in the book Finding Water by Julia Cameron. This is her third book in the series under The Artist’s Way. I stumbled upon the book, and having been resuming my Morning Pages, weekly Artistic Date, as well as weekly walk. My spirits are lifted. I am inspired once more. InRead More

This One is About A Piece of Green

This One is About A Piece of Green

I’m not going to beat around the bush with this: I’ve fallen in love. You’ve probably guessed from this blog title that it has to do with something green, and something small. About This Green I’ve actually blogged about this piece of green before, and it is Zhongshan Park. I moved into a little rentalRead More

A Letter of Encouragement to Myself

A Letter of Encouragement to Myself

I am doing the exercises in the book Finding Water by Julia Cameron. This is her third book in the series under The Artist’s Way. I stumbled upon the book, and having been resuming my Morning Pages, weekly Artistic Date, as well as weekly walk. My spirits are lifted. I am inspired once more. InRead More

7 Protests About Femininity and What A Sexologist Has to Say

7 Protests About Femininity and What A Sexologist Has to Say

When I started out a sexologist, I never knew that one day I would be talking about femininity and the importance of it to me as a woman. And when I talk about femininity, I get some people rolling their eyes and decrying that it is sexism, and an unnecessary conversation at this day andRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Entrepreneur Angela Ognev

Passionate People – Interview with Entrepreneur Angela Ognev

I interviewed Angela Ognev who is a tech geek and doing so many cool things! She inspires me with her joyful energy, beauty, kindness, wit and intelligence! 1) What do you do? I’ve found that I’m a much better collaborator or freelancer than employee, so I like to have a couple projects. Most of itRead More

3 Easy Ways to Activate Your Heart

3 Easy Ways to Activate Your Heart

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch my sixth video with them! This is the fourth of four videos under the series: Women Loving Themselves and TheirRead More

5 Lessons I Learned From Missing My Own Radio Show!

5 Lessons I Learned From Missing My Own Radio Show!

I have an online radio show called Eros Evolution at 5 a.m. every week. Thought not ideal, this time would be 4p.m. EST in the United States where most listeners were expected to be based. To prepare for the show at 5 a.m., I’ve been waking up at 4 a.m. At 4a.m., I am notRead More

Hair Zen – What We Can Think of When We Have a Bad Hair Day

Hair Zen – What We Can Think of When We Have a Bad Hair Day

My day started really bad. I missed not just my skype training for module 3 of my couples relationship training at 3 a.m., but also my own radio show at 5 a.m! That’s for another blog post, but this one is about my hair. I did have a 10 a.m. meeting at Novena. I gotRead More

No. 1 Way to Increase Your Presence

No. 1 Way to Increase Your Presence

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch my fifth video with them! This is the thirth of four videos under the series: Women Loving Themselves and Their Presence.Read More

Testimonial – Raving Fan

Testimonial – Raving Fan

“The very first workshop that I attended was “Conscious Vagina“. Being a matured woman who is confident of my own body, I was surprised to find out how much I didn’t know about my own vulva. I learned to recognise how my vulva was not just another body part, but an important part of yourRead More

My 5-Minute Low-Down on 50 Shades of Grey

My 5-Minute Low-Down on 50 Shades of Grey

I believe 50 Shades the film will play from 14 Feb in the cinemas in Singapore. It was passed without any cuts and given a R21 rating. All that drama mama won’t hurt ticket sales. Are you planning to watch it? I was asked by a friend what I thought about it, and this wasRead More

Testimonial – “I hope this will help your clients who have depression”

Testimonial – “I hope this will help your clients who have depression”

“My depression also took awhile to get better after I stop my medication. I decided to stop the anti-depressants was mainly because I didn’t want to keep on relying on the medicine and it really wasn’t making me less depressed, it only help me to sleep at night. Also from our sessions, you shared thatRead More

Media Policy re Eros Coaching Workshops

Media Policy re Eros Coaching Workshops

As the only certified sexuality educator by AASECT and certified sexologist by ACB in Singapore, I have been a regular contributor to many local newspapers and magazines. I am very grateful for these opportunities to share my craft and knowledge over the years. The coverage I have received has allowed more people come to knowRead More

No. 1 Misconception about Femininity

No. 1 Misconception about Femininity

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch my fourth video with them! This is the second of four videos under the series: Women Loving Themselves and Their Presence.Read More

No. 1 Mistake Reducing Your Presence

No. 1 Mistake Reducing Your Presence

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch my third video with them! This is the first of four videos under the series: Women Loving Themselves and Their Presence.Read More

Author Interview with Felicia Tan

Author Interview with Felicia Tan

I love books so much so I decided to document the books I read in 2013 and 2014. This is the list for 2015 so far. You may also wish to check out 10 books that changed my life here. I’ve decided to feature authors based in Singapore – to share of their good work.Read More

The Sexuality Talk at SMU

The Sexuality Talk at SMU

I spoke about sex and sexuality in this 40-minute lunchtime at Singapore Management University on Wed 28 Jan 2015. Titled “The Sexuality Talk”, it was attended by an audience of about 50 at Wee Kim Wee Centre at Singapore Management University. Download or view the slides here. Who is Martha? Dr Martha Tara Lee isRead More

Attained ACB with Toastmasters International

Attained ACB with Toastmasters International

Toastmasters International (TI) is a nonprofit educational organization that operates clubs worldwide for the purpose of helping members improve their communication, public speaking, and leadership skills. Through its thousands of member clubs, Toastmasters International offers a program of communication and leadership projects designed to help people learn the arts of speaking, listening, and thinking. IRead More

7 Ways I Nurture My Femininity

7 Ways I Nurture My Femininity

I’ve contributed my first piece towards Over the Moon! Over the Moon is an online magazine that celebrates women’s spiritual health. Check it out here. Click here for the article Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in HumanRead More

How Femininity Changed My Life

How Femininity Changed My Life

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch my second video for them! Watch the video here! Don’t miss the first video on Why Women Don’t Know TheirRead More

Compliments

Compliments

“I follow you on twitter and just wanted to share that I am very impressed with the work that you do and what it says about you. Your willingness to publicly broach various topics re: human sexuality in an educated and thoughtful way is unfortunately quite rare yet it can be beneficial to so manyRead More

Eros Evolution – At A Glance

I have a weekly online radio show called Eros Evolution on OMTimes Radio. It is every Thurs 4 – 5p.m. EST (Fri 4a.m. or 5a.m. Singapore time depending on whether daylight savings is in place) from Jan 15, 2015. There is also an encore on: Sunday at 7:00a.m., Monday at 10:00p.m., Wednesday at 3:00p.m., FridayRead More

10 Books That Changed My Life

10 Books That Changed My Life

Being an avid book reader and lover, I have been asked often what my favourite books are, and I have always found myself stumped. This post 10 Books That Will Change Your Life by Mind Valley triggered my thinking: “What are the books that changed my life”? 1) Love, Sex and Everything In-Between  This hasRead More

No. 1 Mistake on Why Women Don’t Know Their Genitals

No. 1 Mistake on Why Women Don’t Know Their Genitals

This is an exclusive She’s Next video that I made for them! She’s Next is a site that empowers women to create financial, social, and spiritual freedom. Go on over to their site to watch this first video! Watch the video here! Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist ofRead More

Parents Talk to Their Kids About The Birds and the Bees for the First Time

Parents Talk to Their Kids About The Birds and the Bees for the First Time

Cut Video brought in five kids and had their parents give them the sex talk. Here are their priceless reactions: Did your parents ever sit you down and have the bees and birds talk with you? If yes, what do you wish they did a better job in with the conversation? If not, do youRead More

Top 10 Watched Videos Released in 2014

Top 10 Watched Videos Released in 2014

I started putting up the odd video on my YouTube channel from 2012. In 2013, I released 28 videos (one for each day) of February for my Febulove campaign, another 30 for Masturbation Month in May, and a handful for Eco Sex in Mar – April. Last year, I released less campaign videos but addedRead More

Testimonials – All

Testimonials – All

I decided to pull together all my testimonials received over the years so you can see them as a glance. Workshops April 2016 – An Honest Dialogue about Male Masturbation Mar 2016 – Red Tent Feb 2016 – Conscious Vagina for Men Who Love Women Feb 2016 – Awakening to Tantra Feb 2016 – FunRead More

Sex In Your Ear – Eros Evolution!

Sex In Your Ear – Eros Evolution!

I am starting an online radio show called Eros Evolution on OMTimes Radio. Eros Evolution is where sexuality and spirituality meets. I decided to tackle specifically this intersection because: I know many fellow sexologists who do excellent work and podcasts around sexuality already I am personally interested in the link between sexuality and spirituality. AndRead More

My Report of my 5th Retreat

My Report of my 5th Retreat

This is my retreat report for Dec 27, 2014 to Jan 1, 2015. My fifth one, actually. I know I don’t actually have to make a “report” to anybody. I am not even sure if anybody cares, but I will just keep sharing about my personal retreats as inspired. Wink. My Day-by-day Account Fri DecRead More

Passionate People – Interview with Endocrinologist Dr. Vivien Lim

Passionate People – Interview with Endocrinologist Dr. Vivien Lim

I interviewed Dr. Vivien Lim who is an Endocrinologist in private practice on your benefit. What exactly does she do, and why can somebody like her help you in your sexual health? 1) What is an Endocrinologist? It is rather a mouthful, endocrinology, and a rare patient who actually knows the scope of the specialty.Read More

Books I read in 2015

Books I read in 2015

I had set the goal of reading 150 back in 2013, and 200 in 2014. I ended up reading 152 books in 2013 and 202 in 2014. In 2015, I set out to read at least 200 books again – and read 168 books. In the video below, you will see me recommending 10 ofRead More

My New Tip on New Year Resolutions

My New Tip on New Year Resolutions

What else is there besides S.M.A.R.T. goals? This is my new tip on setting new year resolutions, with some humbling self-disclosure. I recorded this in Melbourne, Australia in Dec 2014. Click here for video Check out my other blog posts: Books I read in 2014 My milestones in 2014 Back in Singapore from Melbourne IfRead More

My Reflections on the First Day of 2015

My Reflections on the First Day of 2015

Today is the first day of 2015. I came across a series of reflection questions shared by my friend Shirley Taylor, after she watched a blog video. I found myself being stumped, and decided to delve deeper. These are my answers: 1. What’s your most joyful moment from 2014? Many of my happiest moments inRead More

Testimonials – Ladies Who Overcame Vaginismus

Testimonials – Ladies Who Overcame Vaginismus

I have received many testimonials from clients who overcame Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs) over the years. There are also many clients who chose not to write me one. I decided to put all the testimonials on one page so you can see them at a glance. April 2016 – “… we couldn’t consummate our marriage evenRead More

My Last Video for 2014

My Last Video for 2014

This is my last blog post and video for 2014. In this video, I will be sharing 1) a mini-report of my 2014 goals. Did I achieve any, some or none of them? 2) a personal story which involves joy, friendship, love and healing. I hope it will inspire you. Click here for video. CheckRead More

Hives is My Emotional Pain Body

Hives is My Emotional Pain Body

Earlier this year when I wrote in a previous blog post of how I believed “I Broke the Hives Code”, I didn’t. Many people who read it believed that I was 100% recovered. I wasn’t. That was in Sept 2014. It is end of 2014 now. Hives didn’t leave me – not completely. My UpdateRead More

Columnist with Elephant Journal

Columnist with Elephant Journal

After having four pieces published with Elephant Journal, I’ve been promoted to columnist. You can find all my columns at a glance from this link in future! Read all my columns here! While you’re here, check out the awesome events I’m running! Please leave your comments on Facebook and Twitter and in the meantime, keepRead More

Testimonials – Powerful & Radiantly Feminine

Testimonials – Powerful & Radiantly Feminine

“I really enjoyed the preview of Martha’s Art of Feminine Presence class. Even the preview provided useful tips. I only wish I have the time to attend the full AFP classes! I can’t recommend Martha highly enough. She was honest and compassionate in her sharing and teaching.” – H, 33, 15 June 2016 “The exercisesRead More

Testimonials – Laughter Yoga

Testimonials – Laughter Yoga

“What a way to start the morning! My husband and I dragged ourselves out of bed — we don’t like to skip on commitments — not sure what to expect from this “laughter yoga.” Martha welcomed us, introduced us to the benefits of laughing without reason, and provided and comfortable, casual space for some exercises.Read More

Testimonial – Jane Oldham

Testimonial – Jane Oldham

“You are so engaging! I really love watching you on video – not just to see your lovely face and hear your voice and smile at your expressions, but it’s also inspiring to see you produce such interesting and entertaining content. That’s something for me to aspire to when I start promoting myself.” – JaneRead More

Week 52 of 52 LSE – Last Quarterly Check-In

Week 52 of 52 LSE – Last Quarterly Check-In

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am going to be playing the Discipline Mistress. This is your last quarterly check in for 2014, and welcome 2015! Just three more days! Have you taken the time to reflect on the things that youRead More

Testimonial – Overcame Delayed Ejaculation

Testimonial – Overcame Delayed Ejaculation

This is a testimonial by my client who came in as a couple. The male had delayed ejaculation without any physical ailments. “Before we first approach Martha, we don’t know what to expect except feeling lost. He is still in the process of overcoming delay ejaculation by practicing different massage techniques taught by Martha butRead More

Testimonial – Powerful and Present

Testimonial – Powerful and Present

Powerful and Present is my private workshop for men who desire to show up and have more in life. This is my first testimonial: “Thanks Martha for conducting this workshop! I t was fun and I learnt a lot from it. What was most mind-blowing for me was that just by practising some of theRead More

Testimonial for Ready, Get Sex, Go

Testimonial for Ready, Get Sex, Go

Even though Ready, Get Sex, Go is my online training program on overcoming early ejaculation, it also helps with psychological erectile difficulties. This is by a male who had inconsistent erectile difficulties and wanted to improve his sexual performance. “Please accept my apologies for this very late reply. Thanks a lot for checking in. IRead More

A Christmas Letter from a Dad

A Christmas Letter from a Dad

I came across a beautiful passage and decided that I had to share this with you. A LETTER TO TWO SONS Dear Dana and Matthew, It’s Christmas Eve, and I have retreated to the room which your mother calls Dad’s Word Factory. For the last few hours, in my own fumbling way, I have triedRead More

Milestones for 2014

Milestones for 2014

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JANRead More

Week 51 of 52 LSE – All Seeing

Week 51 of 52 LSE – All Seeing

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? All seeing – what are you choosing not to see? Who are these little people, these people that support usRead More

Week 50 of 52 LSE – Thank Your Body

Week 50 of 52 LSE – Thank Your Body

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist and I’m playing Queen of the Jungle. So what’s the message for you this week? Do you thank your body for all the ways in which it’s supporting you in your every day functioning, the multitude of things that isRead More

Testimonial – “I Overcame Vaginismus”

Testimonial – “I Overcame Vaginismus”

Testimonial by my client who had Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs): “We are finally able to have penetrative sex! Really really big big thanks to you! =D It wasn’t smooth all the time, but it’s definitely getting easier and more pleasurable =). It still hurt a bit for him whenever he tried to go in, but onceRead More

Back in Singapore!

Back in Singapore!

I am back from Level 1 and 2 teacher training of The Art of Feminine Presence in Melbourne, Australia. The training has opened my eyes to a lot of things I have been doing out of habit, especially the ways I have been communicating which were ineffective, and even hurting others and myself! I admitRead More

My Fourth Piece with Elephant Journal

My Fourth Piece with Elephant Journal

I’ve published four pieces with Elephant Journal so far, and here they are: Latest one: 5 Things About Sexual Communication We Won’t Learn from 50 Shades of Grey Click here to read. Be sure to check out our Preview to Kinky Wonderland on Fri 19 Dec! 3rd piece: 7 Things to Bear in Mind WhenRead More

Week 49 of 52 LSE – Gratitude Journal

Week 49 of 52 LSE – Gratitude Journal

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. A gratitude journal is a way of consciously calling attention to things in which you are grateful for every day.Read More

From Melbourne with Love

From Melbourne with Love

I am in Melbourne and I made this special video for you two days ago! Watch it here! Sign up for my preview for The Art of Feminine Presence on Sat 20 Dec here! Snaps Photo of those who attended The Art of Feminine Presence Level 1 teacher training Photo of those who attended TheRead More

Week 48 of 52 LSE – Year End Reflection

Week 48 of 52 LSE – Year End Reflection

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Gratitude. I’d like to invite you to do a very little visualization exercise with me. Simply close your eyes now and sit up straight, bringing your attention toRead More

Nominated for The Phoenix Award

Nominated for The Phoenix Award

I received this Facebook message from a long-time supporter and lecturer at my alma mater Ngee Ann Polytechnic Robin Yee on 17 Nov. I studied Mass Communications (MCM) there 1993 through 1996: “I’d like to nominate you for The Most Surprising Career Reinvention award to be given out during MCM25 on Nov 28.”  These are theRead More

Week 47 of 52 LSE – Mantra Meditation

Week 47 of 52 LSE – Mantra Meditation

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? What is a Mantra? A Mantra is a word or a phrase that has a special or sacred meaning toRead More

Where am I going?

Where am I going?

I will be away Nov 20 to Dec 8. This is going to the longest I have ever been away from my practice, and my clients! I am going to Melbourne because… Click here to watch I look forward to your continued support when I am back! Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and ClinicalRead More

Endocrinologists

Dr. Ho Su Chin Consultant Endocrinologist & Physician The Endocrine Clinic – Throid, Diabetes, Osteoporosis 24-Hr: (65) 6535 8833 Website: http://www.the-endo-clinic.com Email: drho@the-endo-clinic.com ### Dr. Vivien Lim Vivien Lim Endocrinology Specialist Centre Gleneagles Medical Centre 6 Napier ROad, #03-17/18 Singapore 258499 Tel: (65) 6471-1928 Email: vivienlim@endrocrinespecialist.com.sg Website: http://www.endocrinespecialist.com.sg/ ### Dr. Daniel Wai Chun Hang ConsultantRead More

Testimonial – Videos

Testimonial – Videos

“I’ve been following your videos, stories, articles that you have been sending. I really respect your work, your enthusiasm and attitude! :)” – Anonymous Lady, 17 Nov 2014

Week 46 of 52 LSE – Cord Cutting

Week 46 of 52 LSE – Cord Cutting

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. Have you ended a friendship or relationship that was harmful to you? Or perhaps, you have been in situations andRead More

Relationship Secrets

Relationship Secrets

My Second Piece With Elephant Journal

My Second Piece With Elephant Journal

My second piece with Elephant Journal has just been published. This one is about deepening your relationship with your body. My first one “7 Things to Bear in Mind When Communicating With Your Man” was published on 10 Nov, less than one week ago.It has already been read more than 15,000 times with over 300Read More

Testimonial – Conscious Vagina for Men Who Love Women

Testimonial – Conscious Vagina for Men Who Love Women

“Very knowledgeable about anatomy, physiology, and sexology. Introduced new ways of understanding female sexuality and pleasure.” – Anonymous, 14 Nov 2014 More here.

Testimonials – The Real 50 Shades

Testimonials – The Real 50 Shades

“Good seminar. Speakers open and everyone shared openly. Venue intimate. Delicious finger food & Glass wine a plus.” – Anonymous, 13 Nov 2014 “Great. Clear up some myths. Understand the important of communication & trust in relationship is even more important in a BDSM relationship.” – Anonymous, 13 Nov 2014 For more, click here.  

My First Piece With Elephant Journal!

My First Piece With Elephant Journal!

I have been following and resharing the articles on Elephant Journal for more than two years. And it was only earlier this year that it occured to me that I could contribute towards it. I finally got my act together over Sunday 9 Nov (yeah another do-it-by-the-end-of-this-year thing). I was in flow and “banged” outRead More

Week 45 of 52 LSE – Embracing Your Body

Week 45 of 52 LSE – Embracing Your Body

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? My mom has stage IV breast cancer, and the cancer has spread beyond her breast into her lungs, into her bones. When IRead More

Testimonials – Best of Eros

Best of Eros is my popular workshop where the best of my hand and blow job techniques are taught. You will have have fun learning! Release your inhibitions and ask your questions! This express, straight-to-the-point course for the busy woman who just needs to cut through the chase. “The hand job and blowjob class wasRead More

Week 44 of 52 LSE – What is Forgiveness?

Week 44 of 52 LSE – What is Forgiveness?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? There is a saying, I can forgive but I cannot forget. Can you forgive even though you cannot forget? ItRead More

Pain and Success

Pain and Success

These are three questions I found on the even site of Success 3.0: What is the larger game that you are playing in the world? What are the gifts that your unique self is committed to giving in the world? What does Success mean to you? I came across this event called Success 3.0 whichRead More

The Link Between Exercise and Happiness

The Link Between Exercise and Happiness

I meditate for 30 – 60 mins a day from 5a.m., and go to the gym for at least another 30 mins everyday or every other day. I am a strong advocate of self-care. Are you exercising? Are you happy? I like to invite you to view: Sign up for my three FREE videos onRead More

Week 43 of 52 LSE – Do You Help Others Help Themselves?

Week 43 of 52 LSE – Do You Help Others Help Themselves?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? This week’s reminder is: Do you help others help themselves? Do you help those who cannot help themselves? For instance,Read More

Infographic: 6-Phase-Meditation

Infographic: 6-Phase-Meditation

I have done many forms of meditation. This meditation called The Envision Method is one which I first learned from Mind Valley. You can check out more about it here. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in HumanRead More

Week 42 of 52 LSE – What is Integrity?

Week 42 of 52 LSE – What is Integrity?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. What is integrity? What is integrity to you? How much is your integrity as a person worth to you? JustRead More

Your Brain on Sex

Your Brain on Sex

Do You Have Relationship Maturity?

Do You Have Relationship Maturity?

Please read this quote: “To be mature you have to realize what you value most. It is extraordinary to discover that comparatively few people reach this level of maturity. They seem never to have paused to consider what has value for them. They spend great effort and sometimes make great sacrifices for values that, fundamentally,Read More

Week 41 of 52 LSE – Creating Body Waves

Week 41 of 52 LSE – Creating Body Waves

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? I like to show you some advance exercises that I do every day and I’d like to encourage that you try to doRead More

Week 40 of 52 LSE – What is Faithfulness?

Week 40 of 52 LSE – What is Faithfulness?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Faithfulness. Are you a faithful person? Today happens to be Hari Raya Haji and I just want to put the question out there: Are you a faithful person?Read More

“What’s Leaking?”

“What’s Leaking?”

I moved into my own rental unit in Feb 2014, with a one-year lease. Within days of moving in, I realised that the face basin tap was leaking. Now I’ve been brought up to not waste. Don’t waste… food… so I developed a bad habit of eating every single grain of rice and morsel ofRead More

Video: Chakra Dance – Because Dance is Healing

Video: Chakra Dance – Because Dance is Healing

I am on a personal retreat and one of the intentions was to do one dance per chakra. Movement is healing. Movement is energy. Movement is life. The intention to clear one’s chakra through movement is definitely healing as well. The Back Story Because I didn’t begin shooting the day I arrived, I knew IRead More

Video: Martha’s Rain Dance – Full Version

Video: Martha’s Rain Dance – Full Version

It’s Sept 29 as I write this, and I just made another video of me dancing in the rain. The first one was interrupted because of not just thunder, but also lightning! It was an good effort for an amateur dancer like myself. I hope you recognise it’s not about the show-womanship, but the intention.Read More

The Biggest Lesson I Learned From One Cat

The Biggest Lesson I Learned From One Cat

In a previous blog post, I listed the nine lessons about relationships I learned from cats. I missed out one! I would be so bold as to state that this is the biggest lesson ever! Read on to find out what!   This week (Sept 24 to Oct 1), I am on my fourth ofRead More

Week 39 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Week 39 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am going to be playing the Discipline Mistress. Do you realize that three quarters of the year has passed? This is your quarterly check in. If you only have three months to live, what would stayRead More

How My Book Came To Be

How My Book Came To Be

There is one thing I’ve done above all else this personal retreat, and that’s: Write! This week (Sept 24 to Oct 1), I am on my fourth of four personal retreats in Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia. The intention of my retreat was to meditate, write, read, study and do whatever I fancy – includingRead More

9 Things I Learned From Cats About Relationships

9 Things I Learned From Cats About Relationships

This week (Sept 24 to Oct 1), I am on my fourth of four personal retreats in Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia. Read my previous posts about why I am on a personal retreat, why I cried coming up from Singapore, what’s in my grocery bag and my rain dance! I am fortunate in being ableRead More

I Overcame My Fear of Cats By Cat-Sitting!

I Overcame My Fear of Cats By Cat-Sitting!

This week (Sept 24 to Oct 1), I am on my fourth of four personal retreats in Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia. Read my previous posts about why I am on a personal retreat, why I cried coming up from Singapore, what’s in my grocery bag and my rain dance! I am fortunate in being ableRead More

Video: Martha’s Rain Dance – For the Love of Rain

Video: Martha’s Rain Dance – For the Love of Rain

You’ve heard these expressions: “When life gives you lemons make lemonade.” “Make hay while the sun shines.” So what do you do when it rains? I am on a personal retreat (Sept 24 – Oct 1) in Kuala Lumpur. Read my previous posts about why I am on one, why I cried coming up fromRead More

Emma Watson’s Speech on the F Word

Emma Watson’s Speech on the F Word

Social media the world over exploded in discussion over one speech on Sept 20. It is none other than Emma Watson‘s HeForShe Speech at the United Nations. The Speech On Everyone’s Lips The newly minted UN Goodwill Ambassador for Women, Watson is best known as the actress who played Hermione Granger in the Harry PotterRead More

What’s In My Grocery Bag?

What’s In My Grocery Bag?

When a self-proclaimed Eco-sexual who is also a Sexologist goes shopping, what does she buy? Here’s 10! At the start of 2014, I set the intention to take a week-long personal retreat every three months amongst other ones made. I am on my fourth of four week-long retreats for 2014 in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia thisRead More

Why I Cried On The Bus

Why I Cried On The Bus

I am on my fourth of four week-long retreats for 2014 in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia this week (Sept 24 – Oct 1, 2014). Read an earlier post elaborating about this retreat here. On the way up from Singapore to Kuala Lumpur, I watched two movies on the bus. They were: Jobs, and Brave. The formerRead More

My Not-So-Crazy Week-long Retreat

My Not-So-Crazy Week-long Retreat

At the start of 2014, I set the intention to take a week-long personal retreat every three months amongst other ones made. I realised it was not a good-to-have, but a must-have rest so as to remain the best I can be for my clients. I am taking the fourth of four week-long retreats thisRead More

Week 38 of 52 LSE – What Cultivates Your Femininity?

Week 38 of 52 LSE – What Cultivates Your Femininity?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? What cultivates your femininity? Some of the things that cultivates femininity includes being in nature, being engaged in slower movements.Read More

Kissing: What You Probably Didn’t Know

Kissing: What You Probably Didn’t Know

Week 37 of 52 LSE – Can You Surrender?

Week 37 of 52 LSE – Can You Surrender?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. Can you surrender? So you know how it’s like when people go to a massage and they are tense andRead More

Week 36 of 52 LSE – Shake Your Body

Week 36 of 52 LSE – Shake Your Body

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? Shake your body. I’d like to show you some of the exercises that I do every day and I like to encourage thatRead More

“I Broke the Hives Code”

“I Broke the Hives Code”

I’ve been through quite an ordeal the last three months – since 12 May 2014 to be exact. I remember this date because it coincided with a location-specific discussion I had with my BFF (Best Friends Forever) Pearly Phua one week after. You see… I’ve been battling hives nightly since May 2014, with the exceptionRead More

Week 35 of 52 LSE – What is Femininity?

Week 35 of 52 LSE – What is Femininity?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Femininity. So what is femininity?  When I think of the word femininity, I like to think of a river that’s flowing through obstacles, rocks, storms, and it’s flexibleRead More

Spoke at 3rd Regional Conference of Nutrition in Obstetrics and Gynaecology

Spoke at 3rd Regional Conference of Nutrition in Obstetrics and Gynaecology

I spoke on the topic of libido and pregnancy with a presentation titled, “Raging, Pregnant, Sexual, Healthy Woman” at the 3rd Regional Conference of Nutrition in Obstetrics and Gynaecology, at Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia on Sun 24 August 2014. It was an honor to be able to share my knowledge and expertise as a sexologist withRead More

On Rock Your Life Radio

On Rock Your Life Radio

I’ve been interviewed by Dave Rogers for Rock Your Life Radio. Check out this two part series here: Part 1 and Part 2. Description: Dave Rogers talks to Singapore leading Sexologist Dr Martha Lee. Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and intimacy coaching, and runs sexuality educationRead More

Week 34 of 52 LSE – Being More Present

Week 34 of 52 LSE – Being More Present

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? Do you feel you can be more fully present in your life? Would you like to become more mindful inRead More

Five F-Words!

Five F-Words!

You know you’re a sexologist when you come across this page in a book you’re reading and wonder whether there should be another F word. On a more serious note, this book is a good quick and useful read with the main message being the need to have self-discipline! Distraction is afterall a dangerously deceptiveRead More

Week 33 of 52 LSE – You Are Your Own Best Friend

Week 33 of 52 LSE – You Are Your Own Best Friend

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. You are your own best friend. When was the last time you took to develop your relationship with yourself? WeRead More

Book Review: Inside Her Pretty Little Head

Book Review: Inside Her Pretty Little Head

You might have heard of the raise in the power of the female dollar.  Any person who has been in relationship with a woman knows that she seems to think quite differently from a man. If so, what are the difference? What would a marketer give to look into the mind and inner workings ofRead More

Spoke at Sexuality and Incontinence Forum

Spoke at Sexuality and Incontinence Forum

I spoke on “When Sex Hurts: Pelvic Floor Exercises to relief Vaginismus” at the Sexuality and Incontinence Forum organised by the Society of Continence (Singapore) at Suntec Convention Convention and Exhibition Centre on Sat 16 Aug. You can view the slides here. Follow me on SlideShare here.     This was the programme: Time (hrs) Topics SpeakersRead More

Sex Around The World

Sex Around The World

Week 32 of 52 LSE – Relaxing Breath

Week 32 of 52 LSE – Relaxing Breath

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist and I’m playing Queen of the Jungle. The theme of this month is Solitude. How do you breathe when you’re tired? When you want to let go of stress? You just need to relax. In Relaxing Breath, is the reverseRead More

Movie Review: Love a la Carte

Movie Review: Love a la Carte

You’ll typically find the French attributed expression “a la carte” used in restaurants, where hungry patrons can choose side dishes and select individual items from the menu. This freedom of choice to select exactly what they want comes at a higher cost. In the American comedy/fantasy “Love a la Carte,” the customer is Phil AndersRead More

Unpublished forum letter: Sexual Violence When Out Dancing

Unpublished forum letter: Sexual Violence When Out Dancing

I sent this forum letter to The Straits Times on 17 June 2014 and it has been remained unpublished as oh 4 Aug 2014 so I am reproducing it below. I am writing in response to the horrific story titled “Woman disfigured after rejecting man’s advances at Clarke Quay club” as reported on AsiaOne onRead More

Week 31 of 52 LSE – Introvert vs. Extrovert

Week 31 of 52 LSE – Introvert vs. Extrovert

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Solitude. This Saturday, we have National Day, and it’s a long weekend. Are you looking forward to this long weekend or are you dreading it? This might giveRead More

How To Rekindle Your Sex Drive

How To Rekindle Your Sex Drive

This article first appeared in the magazine Aesthetics & Beauty. How To Rekindle Your Sex Drive: Sex used to be fabulous so what’s going on? Truth: You are actually still in love and attracted to each other. Fact: But the sex is missing. Where did your sex drive go? These are some possible explanations: 1.Read More

Week 30 of 52 LSE – K.I.S.S.

Week 30 of 52 LSE – K.I.S.S.

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I’m a sexologist and I’m playing your Fairy Godsister. This week’s message is K.I.S.S. – Keep It Simple Silly. So today is Hari Raya Puasa. In Hari Raya Puasa what they do is they start a month of fasting until the endRead More

Week 29 of 52 LSE – Relationship Vitality

Week 29 of 52 LSE – Relationship Vitality

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. Relationship vitality – is it possible to get fit and yet strengthen your relationship at the same time? So byRead More

Date vs. Hookup

Date vs. Hookup

Week 28 of 52 LSE – Charging Breath

Week 28 of 52 LSE – Charging Breath

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist and I’m playing Queen of the Jungle. What do you do when you’re feeling tired? Did you know that your breath could make your body feel more vitalized? This is how Charging Breath might look like. What you do isRead More

Week 27 of 52 LSE – One Thing at a Time

Week 27 of 52 LSE – One Thing at a Time

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Vitality, and the suggestion is one thing at a time. Are you somebody who is consumed by technology or do you use technology to support your life, theRead More

Week 26 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Week 26 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am going to be playing the Discipline Mistress. Do you realize that half the year has almost passed? This is your quarterly check in. Over the last few months, we have explored many different themes includingRead More

15 Ways Not to Relate With A 5-Year-Old

15 Ways Not to Relate With A 5-Year-Old

As more people around me are having kids, I find myself increasingly in the company of their young. They express surprise that their kids seem to take to me easily and say so. These are 15 of my tips in relating to any young person, not necessarily just a 5-year-old. Don’t speak louder. Too manyRead More

Contest: Vote for your Favourite LSE Video!

Contest: Vote for your Favourite LSE Video!

Contest: Vote for your Favourite Video! Any of weekly videos for Love, Sex and Everything In-Between Week 24 video You’ve been receiving my weekly videos titled “Love, Sex and Everything In-Between”. Now it’s your time to give me your comments and vote! Tell me on my closed Facebook page which video you like and why,Read More

Week 25 of 52 LSE – Happiness is in the Small Things

Week 25 of 52 LSE – Happiness is in the Small Things

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? Happiness is in the small things. Do you notice that you are not noticing people and things anymore? This canRead More

My Speech on Sex & Creativity at Creative Morning Singapore

My Speech on Sex & Creativity at Creative Morning Singapore

I spoke about Sex and Creativity at Creative Mornings Singapore at The Hub on Fri 25 April 2014. You can access the link I mention in this presentation and download the slides here. I received this feedback about my Creative Mornings talk and am sharing with permission: “When I listened to you in Creative MorningsRead More

Infographic: National Kissing Day

Infographic: National Kissing Day

Faking O – Who and Why

Faking O – Who and Why

12 Things I Said to A 12-Year-Old

12 Things I Said to A 12-Year-Old

On June 17, I attended a workshop with 20 other people where we had several speakers that day. The second last speaker, Michael Podolinsky, brought his 12-year-old daughter who did an amazing job introducing her dad, and happens to also be cute as a button. I liked Anna Podolinsky immediately and spoke to her severalRead More

Week 24 of 52 LSE – Guard Your Happiness

Week 24 of 52 LSE – Guard Your Happiness

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. Guard your happiness. Are you guarding your happiness? Do you feel you have a lot of things coming your wayRead More

Father’s Day: Featuring 3 Fathers!

Father’s Day: Featuring 3 Fathers!

Following my three personal videos about my mother for Mother’s Day, I decided to interview three different fathers on what it means to be a father. Often we celebrate on the mother and treat Father’s Day with less warmth, so it begs the question: what about the fathers? Hear what these fathers have to talkRead More

Father’s Day: Nishant Kasibhatla

Father’s Day: Nishant Kasibhatla

Following my three personal videos about my mother for Mother’s Day, I decided to interview three different fathers on what it means to be a father. Often we celebrate on the mother and treat Father’s Day with less warmth, so it begs the question: what about the fathers? Hear what these fathers have to talkRead More

Week 23 of 52 LSE – Happy Dance!

Week 23 of 52 LSE – Happy Dance!

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? Happy dance! There seems to be a divide between achievement and aliveness, between ego and mind and body. What if we became moreRead More

Father’s Day: Shawn Yuen

Father’s Day: Shawn Yuen

Following my three personal videos about my mother for Mother’s Day, I decided to interview three different fathers on what it means to be a father. Often we celebrate on the mother and treat Father’s Day with less warmth, so it begs the question: what about the fathers? Hear what these fathers have to talkRead More

Week 22 of 52 LSE – What is Happiness?

Week 22 of 52 LSE – What is Happiness?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Happiness. What is happiness? So last year I read this book called The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin, and she acknowledged that she was at a point inRead More

Video: Martha’s Ecstatic Dance

Video: Martha’s Ecstatic Dance

I love dancing. There are not many places one can just dance. But why move in the first place you may ask? Movement is Healing “Everything is made of energy: molecules, pathogens, prescription medicines, and even emotions.” – Cyndi Dale, The Subtle Body For me, movement is not just an expression of who we are.Read More

Week 21 of 52 LSE – What’s Your Thing?

Week 21 of 52 LSE – What’s Your Thing?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? So the question this week is: What’s your thing? I have a routine of exercising every day for thirty minutes.Read More

“… my wife and I were very happy with this achievement. Trust with more practice and determination, everything will be even better from here.”

“… my wife and I were very happy with this achievement. Trust with more practice and determination, everything will be even better from here.”

“We are very happy to share this piece of good news with you – which comes as a surprise and it brings us absolute joy. We have successfully achieved penetration sex! Thank you so much for your guidance during the 2 sessions that we were with you! You were really patient and explained the mechanicsRead More

Week 20 of 52 LSE – Who Makes Your Heart Sing?

Week 20 of 52 LSE – Who Makes Your Heart Sing?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. Who makes your heart sing? Is it your friends or your family? So for me, I have very, very closeRead More

My Mom & Cancer: How Her Sickness Saved Our Relationship

My Mom & Cancer: How Her Sickness Saved Our Relationship

Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee comes around to accepting her mom’s breast cancer after her relapse. This article first appeared on YourTango. When my mom had her relapse of breast cancer, I was pursuing my sexuality studies in San Francisco in 2007. I sensed something was amissed when one of my relatives messaged me onRead More

Week 19 of 52 LSE – What Feels Good?

Week 19 of 52 LSE – What Feels Good?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist and I’m playing Queen of the Jungle. So what’s the message for you this week? What feels good? What feels good to you in your body? It could be in the form of the clothes you wear, the exercise youRead More

Mother’s Day: Three Personal Videos

Mother’s Day: Three Personal Videos

I made three videos talking about my own relationship with my mother for this year’s Mother’s Day. Of course, we shouldn’t just be nice to our mothers during Mother’s Day. However riding on this occasion, I am giving intend to inspire you to have better relationship with your mother. This could be your biological mother,Read More

Breast Cancer: It Happened To My Mom

Breast Cancer: It Happened To My Mom

Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee reflects on her mom and her breast cancer as part of Mother’s Day. This article was first published on YourTango here. I first found out my mom had breast cancer when I was 18. I was pursuing a Diploma in Mass Communications at Ngee Ann Polytechnic, and in my secondRead More

How Masturbation Saved My Life

How Masturbation Saved My Life

Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares how masturbation helped her through her puberty. I know it sounds like an exaggeration – masturbation saved your life, woo, you know…. But this is actually really how I saw it. This is really how I felt in my core what masturbation did for me. I didn’t always lookRead More

Week 18 of 52 LSE – What is Pleasure?

Week 18 of 52 LSE – What is Pleasure?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Pleasure. So this month, being May, is also Masturbation Month, and I have a little campaign that is happening. Also this month, we are having Mother’s Day onRead More

Product Review: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

Product Review: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

My Review Iroha Midori and Iroha Mini Uma-Anzu are both manufactured by Tenga, a sex toy manufacturer based in Japan. Representative of Japanese design, all their toys have clean lines, are thoughtfully made and entirely researched. I love how there’s a lot of love that has gone into these sex toys. Tenga is well-known forRead More

“… it’s natural and that they should not feel ashamed of it even if others tell them off. But I did tell them that they should do it in privacy….”

“… it’s natural and that they should not feel ashamed of it even if others tell them off. But I did tell them that they should do it in privacy….”

“After reading your masturbation story, I wanted to share my son’s first masturbation. He is only 3.5 but about 6 months ago in front of me and his sisters he pulled his penis from his shorts and started playing with it. He was so proud and happy doing it. I know most parents and mostRead More

My Masturbation Story: I Got It Figured When I Was Five!

My Masturbation Story: I Got It Figured When I Was Five!

Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares her masturbation story for Masturbation Month in May. Article first published on YourTango here. I first masturbated when I was four or five years old. It was definitely before I entered primary school and so this is how I remembered when it happened My sister, who is one yearRead More

Photos from Creative Mornings Singapore

Photos from Creative Mornings Singapore

I spoke about Sex and Creativity at Creative Mornings Singapore at The Hub on Fri 25 April 2014. These are some pictures. Credit Angela Ognev Credit Angela Ognev Credit Calvin Lim Creative books I love/ recommend: The Artist’s Way Style Statement The Desire Map Daily Rituals: How Artists Work (Will be checking this out soon)Read More

Week 17 of 52 LSE – Masculinity in Action

Week 17 of 52 LSE – Masculinity in Action

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I’m a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? So this week we have a reminder of masculinity in action. The first of May is Labor Day and it’s aRead More

Week 16 of 52 LSE – Uncovering the Masculine Heart

Week 16 of 52 LSE – Uncovering the Masculine Heart

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. The theme of this month is Masculinity, and today I want to talk about uncovering the masculine heart. A masculineRead More

For Creative Morning

For Creative Morning

Download my slides from Creative Morning on Fri 25 April 2014 here. Check out my milestones here: 2011, 2012, 2013. Videos from: 2013 Febulove Masturbation Month Orgasmic Yoga Eco Sex The Crying Project Jumpstart series: 1 (on public speaking), 2 (on daily routine), 3 (on affirmations + releasing statements) Nu icon contest: Indigo Princess (pivotalRead More

5 Offers Inside! Eros Coaching is 5!

5 Offers Inside! Eros Coaching is 5!

 Eros Coaching is Now A Five-Year-Old! To mark our 5th birthday, I am introducing 5 offers for 5 days only for people on my mailing list (25 to 30 April). In-person Private coaching whether individual or couple (55 minutes at S$155). More here. Couples workshop: Best Hug in the World for two persons (55 minutesRead More

Teaser:  Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

Teaser: Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga

My initial thoughts about two of the items I received in my care package from Tenga! I will be reviewing Iroha Uma-Anzu and Iroha Midori by Tenga very soon! Watch this space! For more about the sex toys Iroha Mini Ume-Anze Iroha Midori If you like this video, please share it. Please leave your commentsRead More

“But now looking back we see that if we didn’t look for you, things would fester and get worse, and we might end up being one of those couples you’ve mentioned who have truly deep-seated issues.”

“We’d both like to thank you for being our counselor and coach through this journey. During the first session, we were thinking that although things weren’t going well, it wasn’t really that bad, so perhaps we didn’t really need to go through this. But now looking back we see that if we didn’t look forRead More

Week 15 of 52 LSE – Are You Fit?

Week 15 of 52 LSE – Are You Fit?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? Are you fit? We have Good Friday this Friday, and we have a long weekend, so a lot of people tend to becomeRead More

Infographic: Cheating

Infographic: Cheating

Cheating. It happens more than we think. These are some statistics on cheating. Sign up for our free videos under these campaigns this year: Febulove, Eco Sex, Masturbation Month, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day!

“My wife felt pain and both of us were worry and a little frustrated.”

Testimonial from another client who have successfully overcome vaginismus: “Before we met you, we really know very little about sex and we have great difficulty doing it. My wife felt pain and both of us were worry and a little frustrated.   It was really helpful that you taught us about the whole process, ourRead More

Week 14 of 52 LSE – What is Masculinity?

Week 14 of 52 LSE – What is Masculinity?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In Between. My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Masculinity. So what is masculinity? When I think of the word masculine, I’d like to think of a pillar that is strong, solid, firm, and unwavering, unshakable. SoRead More

My Personal Retreat

My Personal Retreat

I am on a personal retreat 31 March – 8 April and this is my video reminder on why a personal retreat is important – just for you.  In this second video, I talk about how to plan for one. In this third and last video, I talk about how my personal retreat has beenRead More

Olivia Cries

Olivia Cries

Environmental Activist Olivia Choong cries for the communities for The Crying Project. Transcript: There are some days where I feel quite down inside. I think many activists feel that way. Where it’s not necessarily a feeling of helplessness. Sometimes we feel so much for the people who we… whose lives we want to change. AndRead More

Week 13 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Week 13 of 52 LSE – Quarterly Check-In

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am going to be playing the Discipline Mistress. Do you realize that a quarter of the year has almost passed? This is your quarterly check in. Where are you in terms of the goals that you haveRead More

Week 12 of 52 LSE – Experience the Joy of Being Alive

Week 12 of 52 LSE – Experience the Joy of Being Alive

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? So this video is about reminding you to experience the joy of being alive. In previous weeks, we talked about theRead More

Eco Sex 2014

Eco Sex 2014

Eco Sex is my annual effort to help everybody out there be more eco-conscious and take better care of their bodies. It run between 29 March to 22 April 2014.   In video 1 of 3, I define what is an eco-sexual and talk about self-love and self-care. In video 2 of 3, you willRead More

Week 11 of 52 LSE – What Does Joy Feel Like?

Week 11 of 52 LSE – What Does Joy Feel Like?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. ) What does joy feel like? When was the last time you had joy? If you were to describe joy toRead More

Beware of Cheat!

Beware of Cheat!

Please be wary! On Sun 9 March 20104 around 10:30p.m., my friend Casey Chen saw a strange Facebook exchange posted on the wall on his female friend Gwendolin Tan, and immediately alerted me. With the kind consent of Gwen, these are the three screen shots of what she posted on her Facebook wall below. ThereRead More

Week 10 of 52 LSE – When Have You Found Joy in Your Body?

Week 10 of 52 LSE – When Have You Found Joy in Your Body?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? When have you felt joy in your body? When I was a little girl, I really like running because that’s when I feel theRead More

How Coaching Changed My Life

How Coaching Changed My Life

I contributed this quote towards Relationship Coaching Institute which I am a member of: “I’m Dr. Martha Tara Lee from Singapore and coaching did not just change my life. It saved mine. After the end of my first marriage, I was reeling from a whole mixed bag of emotions and spiraling into depression. My lifeRead More

Pleasure + Joy = Ecstasy: 10 Steps to Bringing the Sizzle Back to Sex

Pleasure + Joy = Ecstasy: 10 Steps to Bringing the Sizzle Back to Sex

Do you find yourself doing the same-old – whether be it sex position, technique or order in which you do them – during sex? Have you found your mind wandering in the midst of sex because it is simply not as exciting as before? Would you admit that you are bored during sex with yourRead More

Week 9 of 52 LSE – What Do You Think Most About?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Joy. What do you spend most of your time thinking about? Do you focus on bad news because that’s what’s coming your way all the time or are youRead More

Week 8 of 52 – Are You Running on Empty?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing your Fairy Godsister.  So, what message do I have for you this week? Are you running on empty? So visualize a tank being empty – is this kind of what you are feeling? In life, we areRead More

Week 7 of 52 – How is Your Heart?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. How is your heart? Is your heart open or close? Do you feel safe to keep it open or is thereRead More

Febulove – Day 13

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from Week 1 of 4 Day 13 Day 12 DayRead More

Week 6 of 52 – Are You Comfortable with Your Body?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. So, what’s the message for you this week? Are you comfortable with your body? We have Valentine’s Day happening in four days’ time. And today, instead of talking about love and romance,Read More

More about Dr. Martha Tara Lee

More about Dr. Martha Tara Lee

This is a longer listing the presentations I have done – not all of them are listed. The ones I have listed are usually from medicial conferences I have spoken at. More Presentations Two Presentations: Sexology + Non-Pharma Approaches, Certificate Course for Practical Andrology, Society of Men’s Health, Singapore 24 May 2015 A Case forRead More

I never knew this about the hair industry in Singapore!

I never knew this about the hair industry in Singapore!

I had a hair cut (after winning a HerWorld Singapore promo voucher) with hair stylist Marcus Jiang of Kim Robinson yesterday morning (3 Feb – 4th day of Chinese New Year). The last time I had a hair cut was probably two years ago! I decided to grow out my hair because I wanted toRead More

Febulove – Day 4

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Day 4 Day 3 Day 2 Day 1 A special thanks to our sponsors

Week 5 of 52 – What is Love?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I’m playing Princess Know it All. What is love? What are your thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes when it comes to love, sex, and relationships? They are seen as if they are one and the same thing but they are reallyRead More

Books I Read In 2014

Books I Read In 2014

I read 152 books in 2013 and decided to challenge my love for books, as well as learning, development and growth by setting a higher goal for 2014. In 2014, I planned to read at least 200 books and achieved it! In the video below, you will see me recommending 10 of the 202 booksRead More

Happy Lunar New Year

I did a fun video to mark the start of the Year of the Wooden Horse for the Chinese. Be sure to watch the entire video! It’s funny, and it’s only 2 mins! Watch it here! My BFF (best friends forever) Pearly Phua was the one laughing behind the camera! We had originally wanted toRead More

Week 4 of 52 – Call to Action: Spring Cleaning

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Fairy Godsister. This is a call to action: Spring Cleaning! Chinese New Year starts on 31 Jan. The Chinese believes that it is importnat to clean out clutter so as to welcome the good int he newRead More

Syv Cries

Syv Bruzeau cries for women who have been raped for The Crying Project. For all the women who have been raped For all the women whose boundaries -be them physical or emotional- are invaded are crushed For all the women whose dignity is not respected For all the women who are insidiously made to blameRead More

Week 3 of 52 – Are You Patient with Yourself?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Goddess Goody-Two-Shoes. The theme of this month is Patience. Are you patient with yourself? Do you tend to procrastinate? Make excuses for yourself? Complain a lot? Or blame others when things don’t go your self? Or perhapsRead More

Week 2 of 52: Do You Listen to Your Body?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Queen of the Jungle. The theme of this month is Patience. Do you listen to your body? Do you listen to when it is time to sleep? Do you listen to what your body needs when youRead More

Week 1 of 52: Have you set your 2014 goals?

Week 1 of 52: Have you set your 2014 goals?

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Patience. Have you set you 2014 goals? What are your needs, wants and desires? When creating goals, there are five things that you need to be thinking about. TheRead More

I have a clothing sponsor!

I have a clothing sponsor!

I have a clothing sponsor for 2014! I will be wearing their outfits in my future videos and my own training events. Watch for pictures! This is a business run by my beautiful friend Mary Lin. I agreed because I believe in and want to support her work at the same time. I believe sheRead More

The New Age Parents: Cup Runneth Over

The article first appeared in Dec 2013/ Jan 2014 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.  

My 2014 New Year Resolutions

My 2014 New Year Resolutions

In 2014, I am setting out to: Complete 365 drawings (one everyday) to hone my creativity Read 200 books (I didn’t say how thick!) Publish 52 articles on YourTango or my own blog (averages one per week) Go on 10 overseas trips (I didn’t say if it just to J.B. and back) Take 4 weeksRead More

Happy Holidays + Fun Video Inside!

If you have not done so, please take a few minutes to complete this survey form: Eros Coaching 2013 Year-End Survey I do have a little present for everybody who takes the time to complete this survey. Eros Coaching exist to serve and help people in the area of sex and sexuality. Update your subscriptionRead More

30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Challenge – Day by Day Account

I completed my 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Journey on Tues 17 December, and I have been busy editing and putting up the remaining videos – on top of my usual workload of seeing clients, tracking news feed and what not. This is, therefore, a bit overdue. I did want to summarise how I went about myRead More

Orgasmic Yoga Week 4 of 4: I did it!

Yup I did it! I have completed all 30 days of my Orgasmic Yoga journey and lived to tell the tale! This was actually the third time I embarked on 30 days of Orgasmic Yoga, but I documented it for the first time this round. This may not be so radical in some parts ofRead More

Orgasmic Yoga Week 3 of 4

I am going into my fourth and last week of a 30-day Orgasmic Yoga journey. So how did week 3 go? What is Orgasmic Yoga? Orgasmic Yoga involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices. When practiced regularly over time, Orgasmic Yoga can change your life. The practice sessions involve breathing, savoring, sound, movement, touch, placement ofRead More

Books I Read In 2013

Books I Read In 2013

I started off setting a new year resolution of reading 52 books and watching 52 DVDs at the start of 2013. By the end of June, I realised I was going to read more than 52 books by the end of year (57 to be precise) and so decided to challenge myself by doubling theRead More

Milestones of 2013

Milestones of 2013

Day/ Date     What JAN Tues 8 Jan – Photo shoot with magazine August Woman Tues 18 Jan – Photo shoot at sex shop U4Ria for Her World Singapore Thurs 24 Jan – 3-part interview with Oak3 for Mediacorp Tues 29 Jan – New portrait shots taken with Callan Tham. Photo here. January – Joined Asia Professional Speakers Singapore asRead More

2014 Bookmark

2014 Bookmark

    This is my specially designed 2014 bookmark which I am giving out to people in the helping professional, as well as to clients. I will send it to you via postal mail if you complete my 2013 Year-End Survey here. This is just a small token of appreciation for your support and forRead More

BFM 89.9: On Sexual Intercourse and Pain

BFM 89.9: On Sexual Intercourse and Pain Uploaded on 4 Nov, I was intereviewed about sexual intercourse and pain for the programme The Bigger Picture by Meera Sivasothy on BFM Radio 89.9 in Malaysia. Unlike what Fifty Shades of Grey might want us to believe, pain during sexual intercourse is not always a desirable thing.Read More

Orgasmic Yoga Week 2 of 4

 I am into my third week of a 30-day Orgasmic Yoga journey. So how did week 2 go?   What is Orgasmic Yoga? Orgasmic Yoga involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices. When practiced regularly over time, Orgasmic Yoga can change your life. The practice sessions involve breathing, savoring, sound, movement, touch, placement of attention, andRead More

Online Program: Sex JumpStart for Couples!

Online Program: Sex JumpStart for Couples!

Have you lost interest in sex? Identify the warning signs! Touching takes place only in the bedroom Sex does not give you feelings of connection and sharing One of you is always the initiator and the other feels pressured You no longer look forward to sex Sex is mechanical and routine You almost never haveRead More

Orgasmic Yoga Week 1 of 4

I like to share that I am into my second week of a 30-day Orgasmic Yoga journey. I hesitated for a number of days before deciding to take the step of documenting it and sharing with you my experience.   What is Orgasmic Yoga? Orgasmic Yoga involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices. When practiced regularlyRead More

The Crying Project

What is The Crying Project? This video tries to explain it: Transcript: “I came across this video called Dear Woman and this group of men apologizing for other men for the pain that they have caused women. And these men, through their intention, I could feel the power behind their words. So that’s how theRead More

Downloadable 2014 Desktop Calendars

Downloadable 2014 Desktop Calendars

Downloadable 2014 Desktop Calendars. Click on image to enlarge and then alt-right click to download.                                                                                Read More

“I am” at Chaos Asia

“I am” by Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching at Chaos Asia on Sat 9 Nov 2013 in Singapore. For more, visit http://www.thechaosasia.com/.

Physiotherapist

Monica Donaldson Bachelor of Physical and Health Education (Queen’s University, Canada, 1996) 
 MSci in Physiotherapy (King’s College London, UK, 2000)
 Monica’s experience as a physiotherapist started in the British National Health Service, working across all clinical areas until eventually focussing on treating musculoskeletal dysfunctions. Since 2004, Monica has dedicated her clinical practice to women’sRead More

Book Review: Why Talking Is Not Enough

Book Review: Why Talking Is Not Enough

There is a saying that action speaks louder than words. Published in 2006, this book encourages active Spiritual Partnership by encouraging couples to shift their paradigm of it being their partner’s duty to make them happy, but their individual duty to see their relationship as part of their spiritual evolution.Note that spiritual partnership is notRead More

Coffee Morning @ Body With Soul

Book Presentation & Discussion of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between Book Presentation and Discussion “Love, Sex and Everything in Between” …What are the sexual problems faced by most Asian women? How do you choose and wear a condom? Why do I feel the urge to masturbate even though I have regular sex with my wife?Read More

Intensives: List of Workshops

Many individuals and couples want to learn but are concerned about bumping into people they know in my workshops. In Intensive Coaching, what I do is work out a one-day customised skills-based training programme for you and/ or your partner based on your learning needs. Just like all my other workshops, intensive coaching will beRead More

Personal Retreat: My Heart’s Song

What does your heart’s truly desire? What’s your heart’s song? What makes you jump out of bed in the morning with your heart bursting with joy? Don’t let another year come and go quietly. End 2013 with Purpose, Pleasure, Presence, Passion & Possibilities by attending this one-day mini retreat for your soul. Purpose – WhatRead More

Bell Tower, Perth

I had a few days off following my participation at the 22nd National Conference on Continence organised by Continence Foundation of Australia. I was part of the pre-conference workshop speaking in two segments, on the management of Vaginismus, as well as pelvic floor exercises. I was also one of the keynote speakers for day twoRead More

My book “Love, Sex and Everything In-Between”

My book “Love, Sex and Everything In-Between”

My book “Love, Sex and Everything In-Between” is a compilation of all my thoughts, insights and musings on all things related to sex and sexuality. It is available at Kinokuniya in Singapore as well as NoQ ebookshop if you are too lazy to go to a bookshop or shy about being seen buying it. If youRead More

Testimonials – Super Duper Orgasm

“Just enjoyed the rarity of speaking such taboo topics! learned many different techniques and enjoyed hearing women’s different stories.” – Anonymous, Oct 2013 “The content was excellent, clear and understandable.” – Anonymous, Oct 2013 “The final exercise. It was great to learn once before practising on my own.” – Anonymous, Oct 2013 “Energy orgasm atRead More

The New Age Parents: Overcoming The Red-Eyed Monster in You

The article first appeared in Oct/ November 2013 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.  

The New Age Parents: Sensate Focus

The article first appeared in Aug/Sept 2013 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.      

Book Review: Sex for Grown-Ups

Book Review: Sex for Grown-Ups

This is the book I wish I could have written! Dr. Gloria Brame graduated from the same school as I did – Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She holds a Ph.D in Human Sexuality and has however years more experience and accolades than I do. In SEX FOR GROWN-UPS, Dr. Gloria Brame explainedRead More

Book Review: A Clean Breast

Book Review: A Clean Breast

A Clean Breast  was a hard book for me to read, not just because my mother is currently focused on her own battle with stage 4 breast cancer, but because Theresa Tan gave us a blow-by-blow account of what happened including what went on physically, emotionally and mentally for her. She also shared candidly howRead More

What is Speed Coaching?

I believe in always living and leading my life with integrity and passion. In keeping with my intention of why I started my practice in the first place: to help as many people as I can, I have decided to offer a speed coaching service. Huh? What is Speed Coaching?  As the name suggests, itRead More

Never Forget A Date, Name Or Place Again!

How Would You Like To Not Forget Important Dates, Names and Places Again? I interrupt your weekday by recommending two public events by my friend Nishant Kasibhatla. Originally from India, Nishant came from humble beginnings to becoming recognised as a Guinness World Record Holder and a Grand Master of Memory! I was struck by his humilityRead More

The New Age Parents: Four Steps to Better Sexual Communication

The article first appeared in June/ July 2013 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.

The New Age Parents: Reignite Your Passion

The article first appeared in Feb/ Mar 2013 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.

The New Age Parents: Bringing Sexy Mummy Out

The article first appeared in April/ May 2013 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.  

My Essay in Book: A Walk In My Shoes

I contributed an essay on being bullied growing up towards this book. “A WALK IN MY SHOES” – Author: Raymond Anthony Fernando One of the biggest obstacles to people seeking treatment for mental illness is stigma. People generally fear what they do not understand, and one of the most effective ways to de-stigmatise mental illnessRead More

Now an ACC with ICF

I am honored to have earned the designation of Associate Certified Coach (ACC) from the International Coach Federation. For more about what I went through to become an ACC, click here. What this means: Besides already being a certified sexuality educator by AASECT for two years, I am now also recognised for my coaching abilities.Read More

Testimonials – Hugging Party

“I attended my first hugging party hosted by Dr Martha Lee in September. I went into the event with a curious mind not knowing what to expect. There were  8 other participants and initially there were shyness and apprehension in the air not knowing what to do. The host Martha did a great job withRead More

Testimonial – We will keep your contact number, just in case we have sexual problem in the future, we will look for you for sure.

“My husband & I were in the relationship for 4 years before getting married. Since our culture is prohibit sex before married, we didn’t engage in any penetrative sex at all during that period. Therefore, I didn’t know that I was suffer from Vaginismus. I  didn’t even know that ‘vaginismus’ existed. On our wedding night,Read More

Super Duper Orgasms

Only for Ladies Orgasms can be small… or big….. They can creep up on you… They can be peaks and valleys with a ton of build up. Could it be that you’re having them and you don’t know it? Maybe the Big O continues to delude you? Or perhaps you are just curious about havingRead More

Testimonial – With Martha’s constant encouragement, and our progressive tryings, we finally had our first penetrative sex about 8 months after our first session with Martha

“My hubby and I dated for almost seven years before we got married, we had intimate activities but we never wanted to have penetrative sex before we got married, as a traditional girl I always wanted to save my virginity till the day we got married. However we never know that being able to haveRead More

Baby

Resources – Websites and Helpful Books for Fertility Challenges Websites: resolve.org–referrals, support, advocacy asrm.org—American Society for Reproductive Medicine sart.org—Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology webmd.com—support and resources infertilityeducation.org—resources, down-loadable factsheets pcossupport.org—Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome endometriosisassn.org—Endometriosis information, resources hannah.org—Christian support for fertility challenges ONNA.org – online infertility support group MISSfoundation.org—perinatal loss support groups fertilityplus.org—miscarriage support groups miscarriagesupport.org dailystrength.orgRead More

Testimonials – Lady in Red

Lady in Red: Addressing Female Sexual Concerns This educational talk covers what any savvy women should know about common female sexual concerns. Just how would you overcome low sexual desire, pain during sex and problems with sexual communication? Taking charge of your sexual life involves preparing yourself mentally, emotionally and physically for a lifetime forRead More

My Speech at CozyCot International Women’s Day 2011

I came across this speech I wrote from two years ago and realised I should share it. I was recognised as one of Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot in 2011. I made this speech at the CozyCot International Women’s Day at t at Orchard Central on Sun 13 March 2011. More about it here.Read More

Testimonials – 50 Shades of Sensation

“It is a great workshop for couples who would like to explore BSDM in a safe and non judgmental environment. Most importantly, it is fun.” “Know how to stretch the limit, break the limit by inserting the part in spanking.” “Learning new experiences.” “Interesting, debunking.” “Awareness of D-S sensations.”

Masturbation Month – Week 1 of 4

In conjunction with National Masturbation Month in the United States in May, Eros Coaching is running the first Masturbation Month campaign in Singapore. Eros Coaching wants to promote masturbation as healthy, safe and natural way to express one’s sexuality, thereby removing much of the shame and stigma have so long colored the act masturbation. TheRead More

Masturbation Month – Week 2 of 4

In conjunction with National Masturbation Month in the United States in May, Eros Coaching is running the first Masturbation Month campaign in Singapore. Eros Coaching wants to promote masturbation as healthy, safe and natural way to express one’s sexuality, thereby removing much of the shame and stigma have so long colored the act masturbation. TheRead More

Masturbation Month – Week 3 of 4

In conjunction with National Masturbation Month in the United States in May, Eros Coaching is running the first Masturbation Month campaign in Singapore. Eros Coaching wants to promote masturbation as healthy, safe and natural way to express one’s sexuality, thereby removing much of the shame and stigma have so long colored the act masturbation. TheRead More

Masturbation Month – Week 4 of 4

In conjunction with National Masturbation Month in the United States in May, Eros Coaching is running the first Masturbation Month campaign in Singapore.  Eros Coaching wants to promote masturbation as healthy, safe and natural way to express one’s sexuality, thereby removing much of the shame and stigma have so long colored the act masturbation. TheRead More

The Top 10 Symptoms of Perimenopause

Paraphased for the sake of paraphase at some parts. Irregular bleeding. Can include many different variations, such as irregular periods, an increased or decreased flow during your period, and spotting at other times. Hot flushes. Doctors only prescribe hormone replacement thearpy (HRT) when women have severe symptoms and its benefits outweigh the risks). Breast tenderness.Read More

The Top 10 To-Dos to Keep Your Sex Life Active

Don’t allow your hormones to set the rules when it comes to your sex life. Try to discover the source of any relationship conflicts. If you can’t fix a relationship problem yourself, seek professional help. Make sex a priority. Learn how to push negative thoughts aside. Engage in sexual activity even if the urge isn’tRead More

Filming for Eco Sex

My new favourite sex toy. Seriously. Will be featuring as part of Eco Sex campaign. Filming done on Friday 8 March. Stay tuned!

Supporting Blooms of Hope

I am pleased to announce that Eros Coaching is supporting the project Blooms of Hope. This project initiated by REACH Family Service Centre has a social cause to promote financial self-reliance among low income women through the sales of flowers and gift items. Read more here. Through this support, Eros Coaching aims to raise moreRead More

The Commuter Marriage

Loosely extracted from the book The Commuter Marriage Growth Stages of a Commuter MarriageYou might be surprised to learn that the changes you are going ghtourhg usually follow predictable growth stages. If you understand what these stages are, you’ll have an easier time relaxing and being patient with the upheaval of change. Spectulation. Before youRead More

Top 10 Preconception Steps

Start taking folic acid supplements and a daily multivitamin. Have a preconception doctor’s visit. Have all the necessary vaccinations. Stop drinking alcohol. Stop your tobacco intake. Limit your coffee intake. Eat healthy food. Keep away from cat litter. Begin an exercise program. Make love once a day during yoru fertile days and regularly throughout yourRead More

Supporters of Eco Sex Singapore

These people are supporting Eco Sex Singapore! You can support Eco Sex Singapore by simply taking a photograph of yourself and/ or with your friends/ family holding fruits/ vegetables and emailing it to info@eroscoaching.com with the header “For Eco Sex”.

50 Shades of Sensation

Have you ever been curious about the darker side of sexuality and sensuality? What would it be like to submit or surrender to your partner? What might conscious giving feel like? Inspired by the bestselling book 50 Shades of Grey and a workshop I attended last year, this event will focus on the sensations possibleRead More

BFM 89.9: On Sexual Dysfunctions

I was interviewed about sexual dysfunctions for the programme The Bigger Picture by Meera Sivasothy on BFM Radio 89.9 in Malaysia. Synopsis: Nobody ever wants to talk about what is happening – or not- in the bedroom, but in fact sexual dysfunctions can come between a couple and seriously affect people psychologically, emotionally and physically.Read More

Testimonials – Eye Gazing Party

“The session was interesting where through eye-gazing, you get a chance not just to look into the soul of the other but also of yourself. Maintaining eye contact or looking at someone in the eye will become second nature. Through the session, I got to know more about myself through the feedback. Session was awkwardRead More

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Up: Love Story

Febulove – Day 28

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Sweet love story that might make your day

Febulove – Day 27

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Listen to The Wow Club

I was interviewed Eugene Loh about intimacy and women on The Wow Club, 938Live on Fri 22 Feb 2013. About it: What do men need to know about women and intimacy. She is a clinical sexologist and the founder of Eros Coaching, a “company which believes in the innate solutions we each already hold inRead More

Febulove – Day 26

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Love Language: The Original Short Film & Fundraiser There are moments in life when we feel a connection so deep words can hardly describe it. But how do we know that it’s real?

Febulove – Day 25

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Greatest Marriage Proposal EVER! Matt Still tells his girlfriend Ginny he has to work on a Saturday and gets Ginny’s brother Charlie to take her see the Movie “Fast 5”. As the trailers begin to play, Ginny hears a familiar voice on screen. Watch the proposal that has now been seen worldwide! Matt and GinnyRead More

Febulove – Day 24

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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A heart touching love letter

Febulove – Day 23

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Living & Loving With Autism | A Very Special Love Story Young adults David and Lindsey are in love — and each has autism.

Febulove – Day 22

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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What is love? Description: This is a French cartoon ,”A quoi ca sert l’amour”, I like the music in this cartoon and the story of it is really romantic. A man and a women meet each other occasionally,then they fall in love… At the time when you fall in love, what kind of super romanticRead More

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Febulove – Day 21

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Febulove – Day 20

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It’s never too late to express your love. Learn how to make your own roses for the remaining days of this year!

My Talk – Grab Life By The Balls @ SMU

I addressed about thirty fourth-year students of the department of Social Science on Tuesday 5 Feb 2013. The title: Grab Life By The Balls. Even though her first degree was in mass communication and she worked in corporate communications for many years, Dr. Martha Tara found herself on a journey of self discovery and realisationRead More

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How To Make Alphabet Friendship Bracelets (Letters & Pictures)

Febulove – Day 19

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

Febulove – Day 18

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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How to Make Edible Undies on Howcast Candy underwear is a sweet treat for that special someone in your life. No sewing required!

Febulove – Day 17

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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Children Talk About Love Description: To help us remember when it was all cupids and hearts, we enlisted the help of some children, all 5 to 8 years old. Editor Lauren Lumsden asked them about everything from whom they love (and if they have boyfriends/girlfriends) to how to mend a broken heart. One little girl,Read More

Testimonial – Finally we had successful penetrative sex after two visits and within 2 months!

“I did not know that i was suffering from Vaginismus until I was 27 years old when i was attempting to have sex with my then boyfriend who has now become my husband. Did not know what to do and we chose to delay seeking treatment due to some unfortunate and stressful things happening inRead More

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How to Be a Good Kisser on Howcast Nine out of ten people say they would refuse to date someone who is a bad kisser, while one out of five say they’d date someone unattractive if that person was a great kisser. So let’s get started.

Febulove – Day 16

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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The Long Distance Relationship – Short Film Original Sound Track: Cupid’s Fall by the Band: Once Upon A Time There Was A Sausage Named Bob

Febulove – Day 15

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from –> Week 1 of 4 | Week 2 ofRead More

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Valentine’s Day Google Doodle If you cannot view the video, it is here.

Febulove – Day 14

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Valentines Day Video – Love at First Sight

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Love Advice from Kids Description: Adults have counselors, friends, parents and books to seek for love advice. But, have you ever asked a kid? Kid’s say the darnedest things, especially when it comes to love advice. We can be sure to get a simple, blunt and hilarious answers. Stay tuned to watch 6-year-old Holland co-hostRead More

Febulove – Day 12

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from Week 1 of 4 Day 12 Day 11 DayRead More

Febulove – Day 11

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from Week 1 of 4 Day 11 Day 10 DayRead More

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Messy Mondays: I Love/Hate Valentine’s Day

Febulove – Day 10

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My Portrait Photos

This page hosts the portrait photos of Dr. Martha Tara Lee. Please click on the image to download the high resolution image. Click here to download my media kit. For enquiries, you can contact me at info@eroscoaching.com. Also kindly credit the photographer Callan Tham where possible. About the Photographer Callan Tham is a professional photographerRead More

Febulove – Day 9

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from Week 1 of 4 Day 9 Day 8 ARead More

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A short comedy about how hard it is to say “I Love You”.

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Sad Korean love story A really nice song, and the video has a romantic love story

Febulove – Day 8

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching ——————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Click here for videos from Week 1 of 4 Day 8 A special thanksRead More

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G-Male and Siri: A Love Story A story of intelligent device meets intelligent device. “G-Male and Siri: A Love Story” is the follow-up to Comediva’s viral hit “G-Male,” which imagined Google’s version of the perfect boyfriend. What happens when our two favorite intelligent devices fall in love? With appearances from Blackberry, Yahoo, AOL, and more,Read More

Febulove – Day 7

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Febulove – Day 6

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching, a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. This year, subscribers receive a recommended resource everyday for the month of February. Receive future updates from Eros Coaching Day 6 Day 5 Day 4 Day 3 Day 2 Day 1 A special thanksRead More

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Definitely Maybe – A short love story Definitely Maybe is a short film inspired from the short film “SIGNS”

Febulove – Day 5

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How to Show Your Love on Valentine’s Day

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Valentine is all about love. Don’t forget those you love and those who love you Be my Valentine

Retreat: Love Me, Me, Me

Whether you are in or out of a relationship, sometimes, we get so caught up with life that we forget to take care of ourselves. We forget our needs, wants and desires. This 3 day 2 night retreat aims to bring you back to the basics – the most important relationship of your life –Read More

Febulove – Day 3

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ABC’s of Love – A Valentine’s Day Love Song

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PostSecret – A Valentine Video www.postsecret.com Music by donoramusic.com Produced by FiremanCreative.com Edited by Jim DiSpirito

Febulove – Day 2

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How to Learn How Other People Around the World Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Febulove – Day 1

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Free LOVE Gifts

Free LOVE gifts: worth $19.90 each. For every order. From 1 – 28 Feb 2013. Customer can choose either Lust or Let’s Fool Around card games. To order, call +65 6284 4727 or email angela@drinkdings.com.  

Workshop for Ladies: Basic Intimate Gymnastics Intensive (2 x 2 hours)

Basic Intimate Gymnastics Intensive (2 x 2 hours) Natural pelvic floor rejuvenation and vagina tightening program for protecting and strengthening pelvic floor muscles. Intimate Gymnastics is much more complex and effective than Kegel exercises!! Related topics are also discussed about health and love life – which are still taboos, but extremely important issues in theRead More

Don’t miss the start of Febulove tomorrow!

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching. Eros Coaching is a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. Subscribers receive e-lessons everyday for the month of February. So join now on www.FebuLove.com. FebuLove.com is a project by ErosCoaching.com. Video production by http://seopromovideo.com

Hugging Party

There is vast literature of the benefits of hugging to the prematurely born or healthy infants and toddlers but not much research is available for the same for adolescents, adults or seniors. We are a touch-deprived society. We are afraid to touch, afraid to ask for touch and yet afraid to ask or reach outRead More

Making of New Portrait Photos

New year, new photos? I had new portrait photos taken by Callan Tham on Tues 29 Jan. These are some “making of” photos taken by the make-up artist Michelle – taken with my handphone. The two below of Michelle and me are taken using Callan’s camera. Hope you enjoy them. I recommend Callan for hisRead More

Event: Love Is In The Air!

Lacey Potpourri It is the time of the Year – Valentine’s Day! Have you planned on what to do, what to get for your Valentine? We have INTERESTING things lined up for you! Love is in the Air! Can you sniff it? Join us if you have some ROMANTIC time creating some DIY Projects togetherRead More

Sat 16 Feb: The Balancing Act

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About Eco Sex Singapore

Attend the Launch of Eco Sex Singapore Campaign! – Free event Eco Sex Singapore is an online campaign which will run 23 March (Earth Hour) to 22 April (International Mother Earth Day) 2013. Earth Day originally celebrated at Spring Equinox around March 20, is an annual day on which events are held worldwide to increaseRead More

Book Review: One Mom’s Journey To Motherhood

Book Review: One Mom’s Journey To Motherhood

The title One Mom’s Journey to Motherhood: Infertility, Childbirth Complications, and Postpartum Depression, Oh My! should be pretty self-explanatory about what this book is about. However it is not just a memoir and also a thoughtfully written and thoroughly researched self-help guide by somebody determined to make a difference. It is a thick book – 428Read More

Book Review: I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced

Book Review: I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced

The title is attention grabbing. It is hard to imagine that there have been many younger divorcées — or braver ones — than a pint-size third grader named Nujood Ali. When I first picked up this book from the children’s section at the library, I thought this was the kid’s version as it was suchRead More

Book Review: The Marriage Sabbatical

Book Review: The Marriage Sabbatical

In The Marriage Sabbatical, Cheryl Jarvis makes a case for women who take the time away from her family and/ or spouse to find themselves. A marriage sabbatical is a “personal time-out from daily routines for creative, professional or spiritual growth, reflection or renewal.” It allows women to get away from the noises of caretakingRead More

Book Review: Marriage Shock

Book Review: Marriage Shock

Relationship expert Dalma Heyn asks not what is good for marriage but what is good for women in marriage—a question, she finds, that promises a much different answer and more fulfilling lives. You complete me. Happily ever after. Many of us buy into the pinnacle of what the ultimate commitment is about – marriage. IfRead More

What is Febulove?

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching. Eros Coaching is a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. Subscribers receive exclusive e-lessons everyday for the month of February. So join now on www.FebuLove.com. FebuLove.com is a project by ErosCoaching.com. Video production by http://seopromovideo.com

Every woman should know about Intimate Gymnastics

Every woman should know this!   Intimate Gymnastics® is a natural pelvic floor rejuvenation and vagina tightening program for protecting and strengthening pelvic floor muscles. Intimate Gymnastics® is much more than exercises: related topics are discussed about health and love life – which are still taboos, but extremely important issues in the daily life. ImproveRead More

What is Vaginismus?

Just uploaded this video on Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs) last night. This is the number one reason why ladies or couples come to see me. More here Sign up to receive three FREE informational videos about Vaginismus I created here.

Sexual Position Videos for Differently Abled People

I absolutely love these high quality and professionally produced videos that is undoubtedly the result of a lot of heart and thought by sexologist Dr Mitchell Tepper. Please take the time to watch them even if you think they are not relevant to you. We need to start realising that people who are differently abledRead More

Let’s Get Naked: Sheila Kelley

So I was at a social activism event last week and one of the fellow participants asked if we were in the third or 3.5 wave of feminism right now. Apparently she missed out on what is already known as the fourth wave of feminism. In it, the movement includes all of us and itRead More

Sweat Your Prayers

“We long to be moved, to connect with our souls. Surfers find that connection in the ocean. Skiers on the mountain. Monks in the chant. Actors on the stage. Drummers in the beat. I find it in the dance.” – Gabrielle Roth, Sweat Your Prayers Find out more about what 5 Rhythms is at Inside-Out!Read More

Reflecting on 2012

Reflecting on 2012

The year 2012 is coming to a close. I feel it is a good time to to reflect on what we have learned this year. That will help us prepare ourselves better for 2013. So I’d like to ask you: What lessons have you learned in 2012? How can you apply them in 2013? WhatRead More

Dance On Us – Carpenter Street

38 Carpenter Street #03-01 Hui Seng Building Singapore 059917 Nearest MRT: Clarke Quay (NE5 Exit) Off New Bridge Road. Just 150m (2 min walk) from the Clarke Quay MRT, Central Mall. Street parking and public carparking lot right across from the building.

Parody of Gangnam Stype – Open Condom Style

I love this parody video of the Gangnam Style video! Perfect for sexuality educator. This is the original Gangnam Style video that took the world by storm and has received one billion hits.

Quarterly Educational Talks

They Say Opposites Attract   Do opposites really attract? Is it good if they do? Are the differences that attracted you in the first place driving you away from your partner? We try to find someone who is complementary to us and can help us learn, heal, and grow. Relationships are often about getting ourRead More

India

Located in India Dr. Deepak K. Jumani, Phone: 91-22-28760212, www.med-guru.com (GP and certified sex therapist) D. Narayana Reddy, MD. Phone: 91-44-24354242, www.degainstitute.net, deganr@gmail.com

My Speech at SlutWalk Singapore

My speech at the second SlutWalk Singapore held at Hong Lim Park on Saturday 15 Dec 2012. Two days ago, I went dancing with two of my friends at Clarke Quay. Now there are people who go dancing for different reasons: some of them to make new friends, some of them, they’re just looking forRead More

Christmas Ideas

Still wondering what to get for Christmas? Here are some gift ideas: For parents of young children We know babies don’t come from swallowing any seeds accidentially, and aren’t delivered by storks. However children believe all sorts of equally silly stories unless given accurate information. I recommend this lovely new book by Cory Silverberg whichRead More

The New Age Parents: Having a Quickie

The article first appeared in the Dec 2012/ Jan 2013 2012 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. Visit their website here.

Support SlutWalk Singapore 2012

*BECAUSE WE’VE HAD ENOUGH* from SlutWalkSG on Vimeo. SlutWalk Singapore 2012 Main Event! We are proudly taking a stand against sexual violence and the bully tactics of victim-blaming, as we are tired of being oppressed by slut-shaming; of being judged by our sexuality and feeling unsafe as a result. We recognize that we need toRead More

2013 Schedule of Events

2013 Schedule of Events

I am sharing here a list of scheduled events for 2013 – from planned campaigns, talks to workshops. Download the schedule here (updated 21 Dec 2012) and log the dates down on your 2013 calendar early so you don’t become double-booked. Please note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannotRead More

Love Grows With Age

To register call OCZ Senior Activity Centre at 6684-4831 or email your name and contact number to sac@onecarezone.com.sg.

The New Age Parents: Your Hubby Matters Too

The article first appeared in the Oct/ Nov 2012 issue of The New Age Parents. Visit their website here.

Movie: Young Goethe in Love

I watched this movie on Sun 18 Nov. Love inspires some of the greatest poetry. It should be pointed out that the real-life story of Johann Wolfgang von Goethe and Lotte is more complex than that presented in the film. Goethe’s life story can be found here. Read love quotes by Goethe. Article about the movie.Read More

Milestones of 2012

Milestones of 2012

Day/ Date     What JAN Sat 21 Jan – First article published with YourTango as their only Asia-based expert FEB Fri 3 Feb – Interviewed by Janice Teo on Need To Know, 938Live Thurs 9 Feb – Facilitated video screening and sharing: Petals Sat 11 Feb – Conducted full-day Yin and Yang conference. Testimonials here. Wed 15Read More

Movie: Music Within

I watched Music Within on Sunday. The movie is based on the life of Richard Pimentel (acted by Ron Livingston). Richard survived a rough childhood, a suicide mission, a rocket attack and traumatic hearing loss to become a disability management expert, writer, and comedian. One of the things the movie highlights through Richard’s friend ArtRead More

GoldieBlox: Engineering toys for girls

Why do we need engineering toys for girls? One woman has put her life savings behind this project. Video  description Engineers are solving some of the biggest challenges our society faces. They are critical to the world economy, earn higher salaries and have greater job security. And they are 89% male. We believe engineers can’tRead More

Book Review: Unbearable Lightness

Book Review: Unbearable Lightness

I had enjoyed watching ice-cold Nelle Porter in the television series Ally McBeal. This character was played by Portia Lee James DeGeneres (born Amanda Lee Rogers; 31 January 1973), known professionally as Portia de Rossi. I thought her extraordinarily beautiful with her shiny blond hair (which she admitted in this book contributed to her careerRead More

2nd Singaporean to Come Out as HIV Positive: Mr Avin Tan

The 8th Singapore AIDS Conference 2012 was yesterday Sat 17 November. I was not there but this below video is already making the rounds on the internet. Don’t judge. Be kind and compassionate to one and all. And above and beyond that, practice safer sex if you are in a committed and monogamous relationship. VideoRead More

Sluts and SlutWalk

As SlutWalk Singapore gears up this December, find out more about how the word “slut” can affect women and how the SlutWalk campaign started. Besides the below two videos, you may wish to read this article. Kathryn Stamoulis, PhD explores the psychological effects of the word slut. TEDxToronto 2012 Talk – Heather Jarvis & SonyaRead More

Quotable Dr. Martha Lee

“I am tired of being asked if I am tired of Asians being conservative when it comes to sex and sexuality. Through my limited interactions with all types of clients spanning all over the world, I actually don’t think Asians are any less of more conservative sexually than any other race or nationality. What weRead More

Anti Assault Campaigns

Differences in how men and women answer the question ‘What do you do on a daily basis to avoid rape, sexual assault or harassment?’ Project Unspoken was created as a summer intern project at Emory University’s Office of Health Promotion’s Respect Program (http://www.bewellexcel.org/respect). It was a reaction to the prominent silence surrounding the issues ofRead More

Hipster Disney Princesses

Just a fun video about Disney Princesses Snow White, Belle, Cinderella and Ariel reveal their inner Hipsters! They’re so unique, that they’re all the same! Starring: Elizabeth Oldak (Belle), Tiger Darrow (Snow White), Molly Gallagher (Ariel) and Tanja Nagler (Cinderella) See more of Tiger (Snow White): http://www.youtube.com/TigerDarrowMusic Original Music and Lyrics by Antonius Nazareth DirectedRead More

The X: Christopher Maloney’s Audition – Bette Midler’s The Rose

When Christopher took to the stage, he was shaking like a leaf and suffering from a serious case of stage-fright. Watch as the shy singer overcomes his nerves to give a show-stopping performance that’ll induce more goosebumps than you can shake a stick at. We cry when we witness magnificance because it reminds us ofRead More

Last 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 4 of 4

What exactly is “normal,” “correct,” and “acceptable” when it comes to sex and sexuality? One does not set out to be a sexuality educator, not one coming from a typical Chinese family anyway. I became one to help people because I was tired to sex always talked about in negative ways. Here are the lastRead More

The Art of Holding Space

Are you able to listen, to hold space, and not feel you need to be doing, or be “done” to by your partner during sex? If we can just hold space, if we can just allow what happens to happen, then sex can be bliss, then it can be ecstastic without the element of performance.Read More

Gynaes

RECOMMENDED AS BEING NATURAL BIRTH FRIENDLY Dr. Paul Tseng, TLC Gynaecology. Contact details here. Dr. Lai Fon Min, A Company For Women. More here. Prof Chong Yap Seng, NUH. More here. RECOMMENDED BY CLIENT Gynae Dr Lee Wai Hong Tan the LWH clinic 6836 1223 thelwhclinic@gmail.com 290 Orchard Road 18-10 Paragon Singapore‎ 238859 Singapore MYRead More

Book Review: Mistresses

Book Review: Mistresses

I have just finished this fascinating book, Mistresses: A History of the Other Woman by Elizabeth Abbott. First published in 2003, this book provides carefully researched and well-thought through accounts of the other woman through history. There are thirteen chapters excluding the introduction and conclusion by the author. Abbott was mindful to remind us thatRead More

Four One-Minute Meditation Videos

I have created four different videos with elements of nature: Water, Earth, Fire, Wind (to come). You can view each video and attempt to still your mind as you focus on the images and sounds of each video for one-minute. May you find peace and may you learn how to still your mind over time.Read More

Sexual Attitude Restructuring (4th Run)

As featured in HerWorldPlus in 2012! SAR is a process-oriented, structured group experience to promote participants’ awareness of their values, beliefs and attitudes on various issues in sexuality and to assist them in understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally and personally. The SAR experience involves viewing a series of videos and discussingRead More

Mitch Fatel and His Favorite Pal

Mitch Fatel does it again with garter belts, balls and his favourite pal.

Video on Female Genital Mutilation

What do you think of women who mutilate their genitals? What if it was out of force? Watch this video and think about the issue of Female Genital Mutilation vs. modern day Labiaplasty highlighted here. Everything Was Life by Ellie Land This award winning animated documentary explores the practice of Female Genital Mutilation. Everything WasRead More

Stand Up Comedy

Stand Up Comedy on breasts, casual sex and orange juice! This is a funny one!

A Goddess

I found this as well as picture from this site on Facebook. “A goddess is a woman who emerges from deep within herself. She is a woman who has honestly explored her darkness and learned to celebrate her light. She is a woman who is able to fall in love with the magnificent possibilities withinRead More

Phytobiophysics® Private Consultation

Phytobiophysics is a science that follows the principles of vibrational medicine, Chinese acupuncture, the chakra system, colour and the philosophy of emotional trauma. This unique philosophy offers a comprehensive and holistic approach to healing. The stress of modern society such as family disunity, social breakdown and toxic overload can often contribute to ill health. ARead More

Joke: Morning Sex

She was standing in the kitchen, preparing our usual soft-boiled eggs and toast for breakfast, wearing only The ‘T’ shirt that she normally slept in. As I walked in, almost awake, she turned to me and said softly, “You’ve got to make love to me this very moment!” My eyes lit up and I thought,Read More

Would You Cut Up Your Privates?

Apparently lots of women would. When one can argue that it’s YOUR body. One questions if women making informed decisions about their bodies when they go under the knife? Video description When documentary filmmaker Ellie Land saw reports in the national press about an increasing trend in women undergoing labia surgery to neaten the appearanceRead More

Testimonial – 22-Year-Old Who Overcame Vaginismus

“Dr Martha is very professional in her way of dealing which make me feel very comfortable about in sharing with her. At first I was quite worried that things will be very awkward as this is my first time attending but Dr Martha made me feel very welcome when I met her personally. She isRead More

Man and His Dog

Fifty Shades…. in Stick Figures

This is a fun video I like to share with you. The kinky novel Fifty Shades of Grey in a shortened stick figure form, by a real life kinkster.

Vaginismus as see on Canadian TV

As seen on the Canadian TV channel SexTV, vaginismus is a common, albeit deeply hidden, female condition that makes it impossible for women to have vaginal penetration of any sort. Vaginismus causes physical pain, emotional anguish and feelings of sexual inadequacy.. “It’s not just about sex,” says Dr. Ross Tabisel who along with Dr. DitzaRead More

For Ladies Who Cannot Have Sex

About Vaginismus Women who frequently experience vaginal discomfort during intercourse, such as pain and burning sensations, are probably suffering from the condition known as Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs). Vaginismus is the result of involuntary tightening of the vaginal walls, making penetration during intercourse difficult or even impossible. This is usually manifested by the following symptoms:  PainRead More

Love Unconditionally

“Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.” – Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929-1968)  

The 20 – 80% Rule to Relationships

I contributed this article “The 20 – 80% Rule to Relationships” to online parenting magazine, The New Age Parent in June/ July 2012. For more, click here.  

Time Out For Parents

I contributed this article “Time Out for Parents:  Making Most Out of your Time” to online parenting magazine, The New Age Parent in April/ May 2012. For more, click here.

Your Life

Half of 2012 is cover. What have you done this year which you are proud of? What are you planning to focus on for the rest of 2012?

Back to Innocence (Short Film on Sex Trafficking)

The Jubilee Project produced this film to give voice to the millions of children who are forced and manipulated into sex trafficking every year. This film was inspired by the real injustices that children have to face, even in the United States. The goal of this film is to empower viewers to learn more aboutRead More

“Shit Tantra People Say” by Tantra Theater

Tantra Theater is having fun laughing at themselves.This is a playful spoof at how people in our tantra community speak. For tickets and Showtimes go to http://tantratheaterdoespolyamory-es2.eventbrite.com/?srnk=1 Performers: Kamala Devi, Shawn Roop, Michael McClure, Roxanne DePalma, Jennifer Gold, Tahl Gruer, Viraja Prema Adam, Akasha, Cheri, Videography by: Steve Bickel Directed by: Kamala Devi For moreRead More

Reserve 30 June for Pink Dot 2012

Pink Dot 2012 is here! And for the first time, we will be lighting up Pink Dot at night! Official site: http://pinkdot.sg Everyone should have the freedom to love, regardless of sexual orientation. But fear, ignorance and prejudice often stand in the way. At Pink Dot, we believe the first step to overcoming these barriersRead More

Inside-Out: A Celebration of Body & Spirit Through Movement

This special two-day event brings together four teachers specializing in different movement-based practices that offer a variety of ways of connecting to our bodies as a gateway to our inner world. All the sessions are suitable for beginners, and provide an opportunity to try out each different practice. Attendees can choose from a one dayRead More

Testimonial – Sexy Siren

“Interactive, open, many different exercises.” – May 2012 “The sharing of ideas was fun.” – May 2012 “Openness, talk without judgment, and ladies were allowed to be ladies.” – May 2012 “Playing with my energy, talking about masturbation and masturbation yoga.” – May 2012 For more about Sexy Siren, please click here.

June – Whose Your Daddy?

JUNE – WHOSE YOUR DADDY? SPECIAL WORKSHOPS       Conscious Connecting – Fri 1 June (7:30 – 9:30p.m.) This clothes-on workshop explores the four different types of touch: Giving, Receiving, Absorbing, Allowing. Understanding and practising these distinctions will change the way you experience touch and shift your personal, and even professional life fundamentally. ThisRead More

Inside-Out: A Celebration of Body & Spirit Through Movement

This special two-day event brings together four teachers specializing in different movement-based practices that offer a variety of ways of connecting to our bodies as a gateway to our inner world. All the sessions are suitable for beginners, and provide an opportunity to try out each different practice. Attendees can choose from a one dayRead More

Intimacy With Consent

Do you find it difficult to talk about sex? Just how do you obtain consent during lovemaking if at all? Would you like to be a more conscious lover? Attend our Conscious Connecting workshop which is part of our Whose Your Daddy lineup in June with your partner, and learn lots in a safe andRead More

The Most Common Question Ever

This still remains a mystery to most of us!

Diana- Award wining short film about an Indian pre-op transsexual

Original Background score composed by Kiran Thakrar http://www.kiranthakrar.com Screen Academy Wales, Best UK Short Film – Iris Film Festival 2009 Jury Award, Best Short Film – Seattle Lesbian & Gay Film Festival 2009 ‘Diana’ takes place the day after the Princess of Wales’ death and follows Mohit, an Indian pre-op transsexual on an emotional journeyRead More

Poem: Plane Crash

Published with permission by the poet Stephanie Chan.  She read this poem at the Opening Reception of Portraits of Defacement at Your Mother Gallery 91A Hindoo Road, Singapore. Organised by SlutWalk Singapore and Eros Coaching. Portraits of Dfacement runs till May 12. You can request for a private viewing by contacting Vanessa at +65 91254467.  Read More

Poem: This one goes out to all the girls who like to wear mustaches

Published with permission by the poet Stephanie Chan.  She read this poem at the Opening Reception of Portraits of Defacement at Your Mother Gallery 91A Hindoo Road, Singapore. Organised by SlutWalk Singapore and Eros Coaching. Portraits of Dfacement runs till May 12. You can request for a private viewing by contacting Vanessa at +65 91254467. ThisRead More

Love Is Trust

Even Spongebob Squarepants inspires the rest of us….

Associate Sex Coach

Current technology allows us to work with health care professionals regardless of where we are located. It also offers the advantage of having a coach or therapist support you from the privacy of your home, if you do not feel ready for face-to-face work. Deej Juventin, the founder of Sex Coaching and Therapy in Brisbane,Read More

Not Tonight, I Have a Headache

This article on low sexual desire for females first appeared on EzyHealth & Beauty in October 2011. Click on image to read.

Cited in Programme of Spring Awakening

My forum letter to The Straits Times was cited in the programme of musical Spring Awakening. Put up by Pangdemonium!, the musical ran 3 – 24 February 2012 at The Drama Centre. Click image below to read:

HANDSOME: IVSG

Handsome: IVSG presents 10 male artists exploring various representations of gender and masculinity in a group exhibition curated by Marla Bendini. The exhibition is inspired by the work and legacy of Robert Mapplethorpe and acknowledges the controversy it carries up till today. The featured works aim to show how each artist negotiates the constraints inRead More

Two Weeks to SAR! Sign up!

“I have to say I knew not what to expect when I first attended SAR. I knew I was going to experience discomfort; but having known Martha for some time, I knew she made a wonderful facilitator; and I was correct. Martha made sure that the whole situation was as comfortable and guided as possible.Read More

CozyCot Gets Sensual

I spoke at the event CozyCot Gets Sensual on female sexuality on 11 June 2011. This event was featured in CozyCot’s magazine (Oct – Dec 2011).

50 Plus Expo by C3A

This is the programme of the 50Plus Expo by C3A (Council of Third Age) on 23 and 25 March 2012. I was given one slot per day and spoke on: Friday 23 March 2012: Sex and Aging Saturday 24 March 2012: Sex After Cancer Sunday 25 March 2012: Sexercises

Enjoying My Body, Moving Without Agenda

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Last September, I attended a ten-day residential program, which is part of the Sexological Bodywork certification in Australia. Though this was the second time I was going through this program, I was returning as one of four assistant coaches. I felt it was important to connect with my communityRead More

Go Ahead, Laugh

Experience Laughter Yoga on Sunday 6 May which is also World Laughter Day! More details here!  

Life Is Beautiful

Slow down and look around you. You will then realise all the little and big things that make like beautiful.

Ban Ki-moon: The Time Has Come

http://www.allout.org/thetimehascome. On March 7, 2012, U.N. Secretary General Ban Ki-moon delivered a historic speech asking countries around the world to decriminalize same sex relationships, and end discrimination of LGBT people. The response at the UN? A handful of delegates stormed out of the meeting in protest. Watch this remixed version of Ban Ki-moon’s speech, andRead More

Sensual Kiss

Video of what a sensual kiss might look like. Get inspired! For more practical learnings, attend our very own kissing workshop – Pucker Up! Email info@eroscoaching.com to enquire.

Funny Songs by Rachel Bloom

You Can Touch My Boobies A sexy music video that takes place inside the mind of a 12 year-old boy. PURCHASE SONG ON ITUNES: http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/you-can-touch-my-boobies-feat./id514184297 Starring Rachel Bloom Written by Rachel Bloom and Jack Dolgen Directed by Paul Briganti Edited by Paul Briganti Additional Direction by David Sidorov Cinematography by Paul Rondeau Video Produced byRead More

Laughter Yoga

Laughter Yoga for Beginners This is a special session for people who are new to laughter yoga. There will be an easy and gentle introduction into the laughter yoga practice. Laughter is a great catalyst to get to know people, relax and have fun. Laughter comes easily and effortlessly through various playful exercises. There isRead More

Kama Sutra of the 21st Century

A funny image on how much we “love” technology in the 21st Century.

Snuggle Bed!

Finally! Snuggle without the cramps! A bed designed with snuggling in mind.

May – Red Hot Mama!

SPECIAL WORKSHOPS Sexy Siren – Wed 16 May (7:30 – 9:30p.m.) For Ladies: Just what makes a woman sexy? How can a woman allow her inner sexy to emerge? Can this be taught? This workshop covers what any savvy and sexy woman should know about being comfortable with her body, as well as with herRead More

Trailer: Diagnosing Difference

Diagnosing Difference is a documentary film featuring 13 transgender and genderqueer scholars, artists, and activists exploring the impact and implications of the Gender Identity Disorder diagnosis on their lives and communities. For more information, visit http://www.diagnosingdifference.com

Dr. David McKenzie: “Sex Work Research”

Dr David McKenzie dispelling the myths associated with sex work and doing a good job about it!

Still Doing It – The Intimate Lives of Women Over 60

Flying in the face of this society’s extreme ageism, STILL DOING IT, the groundbreaking documentary, explores the lives of older women. Partnered, single, straight, gay, black and white, nine women express with startling honesty and humor how they feel about sex and love in later life. Outspoken for their generation, these women mark a seaRead More

Full Woman

Over the past 45 years photographer Linda Wolf has lived and traveled world-wide collecting portraits of women. Her work celebrates the inherent dignity of all women—inclusive of culture, race, color, shape, size, age, religious affiliation, spiritual belief, sexual orientation, abilities, and life experience. Her images celebrate the strengths that make each woman a full woman—toRead More

Reserve 30 June for Pink Dot 2012

Pink Dot 2012 is here! And for the first time, we will be lighting up Pink Dot at night! Official site: http://pinkdot.sg Everyone should have the freedom to love, regardless of sexual orientation. But fear, ignorance and prejudice often stand in the way. At Pink Dot, we believe the first step to overcoming these barriersRead More

Inside-Out: A Celebration of Body & Spirit Through Movement

This special two-day event brings together four teachers specializing in different movement-based practices that offer a variety of ways of connecting to our bodies as a gateway to our inner world. All the sessions are suitable for beginners, and provide an opportunity to try out each different practice. Attendees can choose from a one dayRead More

SEDUCE ME (Season 2)

Noah’s Ark DEER

The Difference Between Women and Men

Hilarious but true! Would you agree?

SEDUCE ME (Season 1) – More

Directed, written by and starring Isabella Rossellini, these five two-minute portraits explore the unconventional seduction rituals of creatures ranging from bugs to cuttlefish. SEDUCE ME offers an entertaining yet informative look into the bizarre seduction rituals that often precede the mating process. SALMON CUTTLEFISH SNAKE

SEDUCE ME (Season 1)

Directed, written by and starring Isabella Rossellini, these five two-minute portraits explore the unconventional seduction rituals of creatures ranging from bugs to cuttlefish. SEDUCE ME offers an entertaining yet informative look into the bizarre seduction rituals that often precede the mating process. DUCK BEDBUG

Isabella Rosellini SEDUCE ME (Season 1) (Behind the scenes)

Directed, written by and starring Isabella Rossellini, these five two-minute portraits explore the unconventional seduction rituals of creatures ranging from bugs to cuttlefish. SEDUCE ME offers an entertaining yet informative look into the bizarre seduction rituals that often precede the mating process. Get all hot and bothered with the all-new SEDUCE ME — http://www.sundancechannel.com/seduceme/ IsabellaRead More

How is Your Sexual Attitude?

“I have to say I knew not what to expect when I first attended SAR. I knew I was going to experience discomfort; but having known Martha for some time, I knew she made a wonderful facilitator; and I was correct. Martha made sure that the whole situation was as comfortable and guided as possible.Read More

Grandma’s Rendition of “Go the F***to Sleep”

This grandmother cannot help herself from reading this naughty book!

Voice Piece for Soprano – Ono

Ono “sang” her conceptual artwork “Voice Piece for Soprano” at the Museum of Modern Art, and now it’s on YouTube, so you can watch it as many times as you like! In case you are not sure, she was vocalising an orgasm. Cracks me up every time I see it!

Dad gets “Born This Way” tattoo

This video made me tear up. The tattoo meant a lot to the son. View the video to realise why.

One-Moment Meditation: How to Meditate in a Moment

This is a sweet video about how to meditate. Suitable for beginners.

Marine in Gay Kiss Photo

This photograph has become famous throughout the world in the last few weeks. See why it is breaking stereotypes. Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy

Away – Three Weeks in April

Please note that I will be away March 30 to April 10 April 15 to 22 I will have limited slots for private sessions between April 11 to 14 as they are already starting to fill up. Please make your appointments early. You may also wish to note that I plan to be away onRead More

A look into the work of a sex surrogate

CLIT-ICAL THINKING!

A fun video about the clitoris. Video description: In this video, I run through some basics on the clitoris. I begin with clitoral anatomy, followed by basics on pleasuring the clitoris, and I close by reaffirming the various physical natures of the almighty clitori!

Trailer – Welcoming Schools Film: What Do You Know?

Meet The Old Lady Behind The Sounds In Porno Flicks!

Testimonials – Sex and Consciousness Conference

The first ever Sex and Consciousness conference ran on Sat 17 March 2012. These are some testimonials: “It’s my first time attending sexual related conference, and its something totally new to me. The speakers are very open and helpful in sharing their knowledge professionally. Worth the time and effort in coming.” – Hwee Mei “ThereRead More

Dove celebrates International Women’s Day

What is SAR? Attend It!

“I have to say I knew not what to expect when I first attended SAR. I knew I was going to experience discomfort; but having known Martha for some time, I knew she made a wonderful facilitator; and I was correct. Martha made sure that the whole situation was as comfortable and guided as possible.Read More

ESP: Enjoyable Safe Pleasure

Check out their website here  

Certified Laughter Yoga Leader

This article first appeared in Good Vibrations Magazine. I attained a two-day Laughter Yoga Leader training last weekend. The brainchild of Dr. Madan Kataria, a Physician from Mumbai, India, launched the first Laughter Club at a Park on March 13, 1995, with merely a handful of persons. Today, it has become a worldwide phenomenon withRead More

Shit People Say to Sexologists

What do people say to sexologists? This is too funny because it is so true!

Tearful Yoko Ono Still Haunted by Lennon’s Death

At the opening of the ‘John Lennon: The New York Years’ exhibition, Yoko Ono shares her private memories of her late husband. (May 12)

The Importance of Condoms!

Video description: This public service announcement was produced entirely by teens for teens by Community Healthcare Network’s Teens P.A.C.T. program in New York City. It is just one in a series of public service announcements collectively titled, MORE THAN JUST SEX! MORE THAN JUST SEX aims to empower young people to make positive decisions, createRead More

Bedroom Commandments

Video description: The Bedroom Commandments is a compelling series of conversations which seek to promote discussion and raise awareness of the complexities of faith and sexuality.

Betty’s Talk – NOW’s Sexuality Conference in 1973

I love the work of Betty Dodson! Watch this video if you don’t already know why!

Obedient Wives Club

Video description: Having up to four obedient wives is the key to happy marriage, according to a Malaysian club, which is gaining popularity and concern.

The Dominatrix: A BDSM History

Video description: An all-vintage visual odyssey through BDSM history, documenting enchantingly sexy dominant women and professional dominatrices from the 1860s to the 1930s. (special appearance by Freud’s couch)

Prview: Right To Love “An American Family”

Video description: When the majority is allowed to vote on minorities’ civil rights, Americans must step back from the voting booths and take a real look inside the lives of those they’re affecting. Jay is a police officer and Gulf War veteran. His husband, Bryan, is a stay-at-home dad to their two adopted kids, DanielRead More

TEDxRainier – Alyssa Royse – Your Sexuality: Ask & Tell

In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independentlyRead More

Busting G-Spot Myths!

A response to the recent publication of a study from The Journal of Sexual Medicine that claims that there is still no evidence that the G-spot exists. I have written about the G-spot previously. You can read it here.

Profiles of two women with AIS

What is AIS? Androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) is a condition that results in the partial or complete inability of the cell to respond to androgens. Watch this video to find out more.

Shit Single Girls Say

Do you agree that single girls obsess about boys? It seems as if we always want what we don’t have! Written and Directed by Jenn Hovick, Brittany Ludwig and Derrick Cole. Starring Derrick Cole. Director of Photography by Todd Schoonover. Produced and Edited by Jenn Hovick, Brittany Ludwig, Kelly Hovick and Derrick Cole. Wardrobe &Read More

‘Think Before You Speak,’ Anti-Gay Bullying Campaign

Video description: Almost 90% of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) students report being verbally harassed at school because of their sexual orientation. LGBT teens experience homophobic remarks and harassment throughout the school day, creating an atmosphere where they feel disrespected, unwanted and unsafe. Homophobic remarks such as thats so gay are the most commonlyRead More

Do More

Do More By William Arthur Ward Do more than belong: participate. Do more than care: help. Do more than believe: practice. Do more than be fair: be kind. Do more than forgive: forget. Do more than dream: work.

Legacy Of Wisdom – Intimacy and Sexuality for Active Agers

When I mention sex and aging, I inadvertently get a frown or some form of negative reaction. In reality, there is no reason why sex should stop when one gets older. With some knowledge of the changes to one’s body and some minor adjustment, sex can continue. There is not enough meaning dialogue about sexRead More

John Lennon – Woman

Watch the music video Woman by John Lennon. His wife and love Yoko appears in it.

One-minute Meditation: Heart on a String

This is a one-minute meditation where you can bring your attention back to your breath and reconnect with your heart as you watch this video of a heart fluttering on a string in the wind. Filiming by www.eroscoaching.com Video by www.seopromovideo.com

Sexy Santa

Christmas is over but who doesn’t like Santa?

FREE Workshops for Those Above 50s

Council for Third Age and Eros Coaching are proud to present three workshops designed for senior males, females and couples above 50s. Singaporeans, permanent residents and expatriates are welcomed. Date:  Tuesday 6 March 2012 Sessions/ Time:   9:30 – 11:30a.m. – Sexually Healthy Woman Beyond 50s 1 – 3p.m. – Sexuality Healthy Men Beyond 50s 3:30 – 5:30p.m. – Conscious ConnectingRead More

Testimonials – Pucker Up

What did you like most about the program? “The kissing workshop I attended covered a lot of different techniques that I didn’t even know existed. It was interesting and a wonderful opportunity for me to learn how to become a better kisser by being aware of what women prefer and also learn new techniques toRead More

Tit for Tat

This is a fun video on what happenes when a man stares at a woman’s breasts. Could you make such a speech? Description: The Kloons investigate the deep chasm between men and women. Featuring Lauren Ashley Zakrin and music by Andy Parsegian and Max Haymer.

Sexology: The Hymen – Myths and Misconceptions

A good video talking about the female hymen and why we should stop focusing on it. You may wish to check out my micro sites: Virginity.com.sg and Vaginismus.com.sg. The Archive for Sexology – http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/ Course 1: Sexual Anatomy

Discourse on Nudity

Sam the Eagle’s discourse on nudity on the Muppet Show.

Trying To Buy Condom In India

Have you ever bought a condom? Were you embarrassed? Watch this funny video of how this guy tries to buy condoms in India. Hot tip: Sign up for our Sexual Attitude Restructuring workshop to develop a more positive attitude about sex and sexuality!

Last Two Febulove Workshops – Don’t Miss!

As part of our Febulove campaign in February, these are our remaining workshops which you can sign up for: Fri 24 Feb – Pucker Up: Kissing (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.) For singles/ couples: “What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick Ever heardRead More

Sticky – a Documentary on Masturbation

Watch this trailer of a documentary on masturbation. The title is aptly titled Sticky. 🙂

Pick up your toys

If you need persuasion picking up your toys, watch this video!

Where is Your Spiritual Family?

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. As the only sexologist in Singapore, my work is incredibly isolating. I have joined several virtual communities for sexologists including those on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Yahoo, as well as the listserv managed by American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). I wonder if you have a communityRead More

Testimonials – Conscious Connecting

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” – Jalal ad-Din Rumi “That (the above quote) pretty much summed up my experience at the Conscious Connecting workshop. Through the practices and sharing within the group, I had theRead More

TEDxDesMoines – Angela Maiers – You Matter

Angela Maiers is an education and technology consultant from Des Moines, Iowa who shares with us how two words can change a life.

Married to the Eiffel Tower

Would you marry an object of beauty? How about to the Eiffel Tower? An object doesn’t talk back to you, is always there, and you can love it unconditionally? Watch this series of videos to understand more. Develop an understanding of different types of sexuality and sexual expression by attending our Sexual Attitude Restructuring workshopRead More

Yoko Ono on forgiving Chapman

Would you forgive the man who took the life of your one true love? “Our society is run by insane people for insane objectives. I think we’re being run by maniacs for maniacal ends and I think I’m liable to be put away as insane for expressing that. That’s what’s insane about it.” – JohnRead More

Febulove Workshop – Few Seats Left!

As part of our Febulove campaign in February, these are our remaining workshops which you can sign up for: Fri 17 Feb – Conscious Connecting (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.) For singles/ couples – Do you have difficulty asking for what you want in bed? Do you have a desire to be a better lover for yourRead More

Testimonials – Yin and Yang Conference

The Yin and Yang conference took place at Toa Payoh Hub on Sat 11 Feb. Watch for future conferences by Eros Coaching! The next one is the Sex and Consciousness conference on Sat 17 March. “Presenter displayed vast knowledge in a very professional way yet easily to be understood by laymen.” “Trainer is very knowledgeableRead More

Another 9 Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 3 of 4

This article first appeared on YourTango. Other than sex ed from The Silent Scream, what else is there to learn about sex and sexuality? I was probably 11 or 12 when I watched a video called “The Silent Scream” in primary school (or grade school in the U.S.). It is a documentary video which depictsRead More

Happy Valentine’s Day

Hope you have a great day today! Be sure to sign up for our remaining Febulove workshops the Sex and Consciousness conference Ecstatic breath workshops Sexual Attitude Restructururing workshop!

Silence is Golden

This article first appeared on PubicHouse.sg. Have you heard of the saying, “Speech is Silver, Silence is Golden?” This phrase can be traced back to early Egyptiansand it essentially means that while speaking is good, saying nothing is better. Discretion can be worth more than even eloquent words. Have you ever felt glad, relieved even,Read More

Turn Me On ~ Norah Jones

Who are you turning on this Valentine’s Day? LYRICS: Like a flower waiting to bloom Like a lightbulb in a dark room I’m just sitting here waiting for you To come home and turn me on Like the desert waiting for the rain Like a school kid waiting for the spring I’m just sitting hereRead More

A 6 year old’s vision of a Gift Community

Description: A short clip of a 6 year old sharing her concept of a community she will have when she grows up, based on Gift Economy. Unstaged, unprepared, just straight from the heart… Listen to her, it is her generation that will see the world operate this way, after all! It is from the childrenRead More

Rather than lament life, YOU go make a difference.

This video had me in near tears. It reminds me to never, ever give up on the work I do. We are changemakers and each one of us can and are making a difference. What does this video remind you of?

Testimonial – Vaginismus Client

“Martha is someone whom you can share your darkest bedroom secrets with. She is always approachable, encouraging and positive. Martha has her own way of making any task less daunting and hence more achievable. Taking the first step is always not easy and may be difficult for some. I was glad that I took theRead More

9 More Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed – Part 2 of 4

The only sexuality education I received in secondary school (or high school in the U.S.) was in the form of annual school talks presented by pharmaceutical companies promoting sanitary pads or tampons (depending where they were from). The boys got to first jeer at us, as they went out to play in the sun. We,Read More

Heiko and Selina’s Workshops

Closing The Gaps in Relationships Sun 11 March 2012 1pm – 6pm $80/person Play a series of simple fun games and exercises through which you can see how you think, feel and act in your romantic relationships. Be surprised during the detailed debriefing when you see how you had been running on automatic for yearsRead More

Vulvagraphics

What is your relationship with yor vulva? Have you ever looked “down there”? Sign up for our Genital Drawing workshop and be part of our Down There exhibition! Description: Footage from the New View campaign’s Vulvagraphics: An Intervention in Honor of Female Genital Diversity – an activist-exhibition held during October 2009 in Brooklyn, NYC, toRead More

Conscious Connecting

This article first appeared in the Feb/ March 2012 issue of The New Age Parents. Click image to read. It’s February, the romantic month. Rather than getting caught up in buying lavish presents, which actually mean little in the long run, how about going within yourselves and reconnecting with each other consciously? Dr Martha LeeRead More

Launch of Liberate E-book!

Marcus Mok’s beautiful photobook Liberate is now available as an e-book to download online.  Have the seductive pictures on your screen as well as in hard copy on your coffee table. The E-book can be purchased at www.marcusart.net for the introductory price of SG$25 rather than the usual SG$30. Or get an even better deal by combining theRead More

Vajayjay’s! Privatize Those Privates!

What is your relationship with yor vulva? Have you ever looked “down there”? Sign up for our Genital Drawing workshop and be part of our Down There exhibition! A fun video is below. Description: Dr Vajayjay will show all you enterprising doctors out there how to succeed in the business of medicine by Privatizing ThoseRead More

For Counselling Services

While I have a certificate in practical counselling, I am not a counsellor and often refer my clients to other practitioners who are better suited to need the specific needs of those who come my way. I highly recommend: PRIVATE PRACTICE 1) Vera Handojo, Counsellor of Counselling Matters MA (Counseling), BSc (Magna cum Laude) ChemistryRead More

Where did my libido go?

This article first appeared on CozyCot. Your partner is complaining that the two of you are not having sex often enough. Or perhaps he is not interested in sex anymore? This begs the question – how often is enough? Is there such a thing as a normal level of sexual frequency? Here are some factsRead More

Natural Water Birth

If you are a woman, how would you like your delivery to be? Have you given it any thought? Description: This is the natural water birth of our son, Theo. I’m sharing it here because I wanted as many people as possible to see how beautiful birth can be. There is nothing more empowering thanRead More

Eye-Gazing Party for Singles

Do you believe that your eyes are the windows to your soul? Do you think your eyes can speak volumes? Would you agree that eye contact is essential to connecting intimately with another person?  At this event, we will ensure an even number of singles will meet and split into pairs, each of whom willRead More

Don’t miss the Yin and Yang conference on Sat 11 Feb!

An event that approaches a couple’s sexual relationship in a whole new light. From knowing and appreciating the yin and the yang of each other’s sexual anatomies and overcoming obstacles to sexual fulfillment to learning skills to improve your adventures in the bedroom, this one-day encounter aims to impart sexual information, knowledge, and skills forRead More

Portraits of Defacement Exhibition

The image of The Perfect Genitalia has been omnipresent with the ascendance of cosmetic surgery (and its profits), marketing (and its effectiveness), and the visibility of mainstream porn (and its quest for knowledge). With this exhibition, we aim to question: is there a “perfect vulva?”, a “perfect penis”? Who owns it? What about when it comesRead More

9 Things I Wish I Learned in Sex Ed – Part 1 of 4

This piece first appeared on YourTango where I am the only expert in Asia. What does a sexologist wish she learned about sex and sexuality growing up? There are nine! Growing up in a relatively typical Chinese family in Singapore, I received very little sexuality education. Let me give you the context: I did notRead More

June – Who’s Your Daddy?

JUNE – WHO’S YOUR DADDY? SPECIAL WORKSHOPS         Down Under – Wed 27 June (7:30 – 9:30p.m.) Singles/ Couples. New workshop: How exactly do you perform oral sex on a woman? How can one become orally skilled? This workshop will demystify the nether region of a woman, teach you techniques that willRead More

Inside-Out: A Celebration of Body & Spirit Through Movement

This special two-day event brings together four teachers specializing in different movement-based practices that offer a variety of ways of connecting to our bodies as a gateway to our inner world. All the sessions are suitable for beginners, and provide an opportunity to try out each different practice. Attendees can choose from a one dayRead More

Don’t miss the start of Febulove tomorrow!

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching. Eros Coaching is a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. Subscribers receive exclusive promotions and e-lessons everyday for the month of February. So join now on www.FebuLove.com. FebuLove.com is a project by ErosCoaching.com. Video production by http://seopromovideo.com

Ten Things Men Would Never Say

Just a fun video on 10 things that you would never hear a man say. Any truth in them?

How to run your own Self-Retreat

This article first appeared on YourTango where I am the only expert in Asia. Run your own self-retreat and rediscover what you need in order to feel fulfilled. Have you ever gone on a holiday then wished you could go on another one? Perhaps you returned exhausted because you had organized too much to doRead More

Chinese New Year – it is all about intent

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. We are most definitely now into the year of the Water Dragon! How was your Chinese New Year? Did you use the occasion to catch up with family and friends, take a well-deserved break, or “escape” the contrived pleasantries by travelling overseas? After reading the piece, “My Secret Grief.Read More

Don’t say gay

If kids can know what is appropriate, why can’t us adults? Have a good holiday. Be kind to others. Description: In 8th grade we had a PSA project. ( Public Service Announcement) Don’t Say Gay. I chose a funny way to present it. Subscribe! And thanks to my little brother for being the star! ThisRead More

John Stamos’ Guide To Cuddling

Really fun and instructional video on cuddling techniques. It is funny to see the men hugging where in a homophobic society, men rarely touch each other. I like it for normalising touch between men. Description: John reunites with Bob Saget for a manly look at tenderness.

Gender Obsolescence

You have to watch the entire video to know how I love it! Human Installation I “Gender Obsolescence” Performance art by Kyrahm + Julius Kaiser Human Installation I “Gender Obsolescence” Performance art by Kyrahm + Julius Kaiser from KYRAHM on Vimeo. Obsolescenza del Genere – Installazione Umana #1 Gender Obsolescence – Human Installation #1 byRead More

Sexology is my calling. What’s yours?

This piece first appeared on PublicHouse.sg I facilitated a session which defined sex, sexuality and intimacy during SlutTalk, a fringe event under SlutWalk Singapore. It was the inspiration for an earlier piece on publichouse.sg with the same title here. After my session, I thought I was off-work, resumed my civilian status, and was easing intoRead More

Success

Success is speaking words of praise, In cheering other people’s ways. In doing just the best you can, With every task and every plan. It’s silence when your speech would hurt, Politeness when your neighbor’s curt. It’s deafness when the scandal flows, And sympathy with others’ woes. It’s loyalty when duty calls, It’s courage whenRead More

Video: End Discrimination

Whats goin on.. Jonah is a young guy that happens to be gay – and has been harassed at school. He’s scared and sad. But he teaches us a lot in this video. Jonah’s post on YouTube: To all my friends and supporters, I made this video 4 months ago just before school was aboutRead More

What is the Yin and Yang conference?

An event that approaches a couple’s sexual relationship in a whole new light. From knowing and appreciating the yin and the yang of each other’s sexual anatomies and overcoming obstacles to sexual fulfillment to learning skills to improve your adventures in the bedroom, this one-day encounter aims to impart sexual information, knowledge, and skills forRead More

FurTV – Do Condoms Reduce Sensitivity ?

This is really a fun video using puppets. Spot from MTV EMA 08

Testimonials – Sexual Attitude Restructuring

“I attended Martha’s SAR workshop in 2012. It was very good and refreshing. Watching the different videos made me more accepting of myself and others by the end of the workshop. & from the workshop, I actually gained comfort that there were other people who felt the same way, and supported people with different sexualRead More

What happened?

What Happened? You changed your mind about purchasing 28 Days of Eros FAQ? Drop us an email and let us know if you have any concerns!

Nicole Daedone – Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman

How important is your orgasm to you? This woman dares talk about it, and make it her life’s work. Don’t talk about saving the world. What are you willing to do for your orgasm? Do you own your sexuality? Description: Nicole Daedone is a sought-after speaker, author, and educator focusing on the intersection between orgasm,Read More

Oral Sex is not always safe sex

This article first appeared on CozyCot. I run a blow job workshop for ladies – 41 times to date, actually. During the workshop Funtastic Fellatio, whenever I state that oral sex is not safe sex, I inadvertently get raised eyebrows or questioning looks from the female participants. A few honest ones would admit that theyRead More

The Power of Play

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. I have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is ofRead More

My Vagina is 8 miles wide

Obviously, nobody’s vagina is 8 miles wide, but this song is fun. Funny comment by TheLedgerLover under the YouTube: I had this song stuck in my head at the dinner table during a very mundane conversation between my parents. They were discussing how we had gotten our broken microwave fixed, and I absently blurted outRead More

A Touchy Subject: Causes of Intimacy Problems

This article first appeared in the November 2011 issue of Health & Beauty magazine published in Malaysia. Click image to enlarge/ read. Dr Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certifiedRead More

Condom, No Condom? – Start

Condom, No Condom? is an interactive video by the NHS about condoms and safer sex that allows you to choose your own ending. http://www.nhs.uk/sexualhealth http://www.4ypbristol.co.uk/

extraordinaire instrument de musique

Just some music to brighten your day today. When was the last time you listened or watched something for pure enjoyment?

What is Febulove?

Febulove is a month-long campaign on love, eros and romance by Eros Coaching. Eros Coaching is a sexuality and intimacy coaching company in Singapore. Subscribers receive exclusive promotions and e-lessons everyday for the month of February. So join now on www.FebuLove.com. FebuLove.com is a project by ErosCoaching.com. Video production by http://seopromovideo.com

Febulove Workshops

As part of our Febulove campaign in February, these are our workshops which you can sign up for: Tues 21 Feb – Sizzling Strokes (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.) Only for the ladies – Previously titled “Different Strokes” and conducted  70 times as of September 2011, this proven workshop on tips and techniques for giving guys aRead More

Yin and Yang Conference: Making Love for a Lifetime

As part of Febulove, we are pleased to introduce our one-day conference: Yin and Yang: Making Love for a Lifetime Date: Sat 11 February 2012 Time: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Venue: HDB Hub, Punggol Room An event that approaches a couple’s sexual relationship in a whole new light. From knowing and  appreciating the yinRead More

Ecstatic Breath

Date: Thurs 17 May (7:30 – 8:30p.m.) Venue: The Substation Dance Studio, 45 Armenian Street  179936 Fee: $20 per class Recommended: Comfortable clothes as there will be movement; Yoga may for lying on Admission: Register by emailing register@eroscoaching.com or calling 6100-0851 Your breath is your most intimate companion. Health, vitality, abundance, and love are within yourRead More

The Shocking Truth About Your Health

TEDxFiDiWomen – Lissa Rankin The Shocking Truth About Your Health about the REAL reason you’re sick Lissa Rankin, MD is an OB/GYN physician, author, keynote speaker, consultant to health care visionaries, professional artist, and founder of the women’s health and wellness community OwningPink.com. Discouraged by the broken, patriarchal health care system, she left her medicalRead More

Condom a Cappella – TV ad

This is a fun condom video. Description: This ‘condom a cappella’ ringtone is featured in a new “Jo Samjha Wohi Sikander” campaign produced by the BBC World Service Trust and funded by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.

Social-Sex Attitudes in Adolescence: 1950s Educational Film (1953)

What kind of sex ed are we getting in Singapore? How relevant is it? How does it prepare them to be sexual beings and to navigate in a complex world? Description: Almost all U.S. students receive some form of sex education at least once between grades 7 and 12; many schools begin addressing some topicsRead More

Defining sex, sexuality and intimacy

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. What are sex, sexuality, and intimacy to you? What do those words actually signify in your mind? Is sex just about the physical act of sexual intercourse? The meaning of ‘sex’ can be problematic when the way you define it is different from the way other people around youRead More

Chin up!

What songs do you listen to when you are down? Here are two that I like: Description: Bette sings her biggest hit “My Heart Will… I mean “Wind Beneath My Wings” direct from the Colliseum at Caesars Palace. The final song from her smash hit extravaganza “The Showgirl Must Go On” shown HBO on NewRead More

Unplanned Pregnancy Prevention

What contraception are you using? Unplanned Pregnancy Prevention – Funny Fails :30 Unplanned Pregnancy Prevention – Awkward Times :30

Videos: Can you believe this?

Amazing LGBT rights campaign ad from Obs.Salta in Salta, Argentina. Amazing LGBT rights campaign ad from Obs.Salta in Salta, Argentina.

Jill Bolte Taylor’s Stroke of Insight

What happens when you get a stroke? Jill Bolte Taylor got a research opportunity few brain scientists would wish for: She had a massive stroke, and watched as her brain functions — motion, speech, self-awareness — shut down one by one. An astonishing story.

Sex Without Orgasm: What’s the point?

This article first appeared in the September 2011 issue of Health and Beauty magazine, Malaysia. Dr Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists).Read More

Alice Dreger: Is anatomy destiny?

Alice Dreger works with people at the edge of anatomy, such as conjoined twins and intersexed people. In her observation, it’s often a fuzzy line between male and female, among other anatomical distinctions. Which brings up a huge question: Why do we let our anatomy determine our fate? Let me know your thoughts?

Forum letter on MOE’s Revised Sexuality Education Program

The following is my letter to the Straits Times Forum page and the Today newspaper. On 27 December 2011, Yahoo Singapore reported how the New Paper had reported that the Ministry of Education “has drafted a revised Sexuality Education Programme (SEP) to boost emphasis on abstinence over contraception.” I read with great dismay that theRead More

Sexual Consent: Women who don’t know how to say no

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. This is part four of a four-part series on sexual consent. The other pieces can be found here: Sexual consent: When no is no; Sexually Confused: When No is a Game; and No Go: Too Drunk to Consent. In early December, paparazzi pictures of 19-year-old Hong Kong starlet, RoseRead More

Sex kills?

This is a clip from an abstinence-only instructional video in the United States. It was shown on an episode of NOVA that dealt with teenage sexuality. I can only imagine what they are showing in schools here in Singapore.

5 Minute Vaginal Birth

This video will give you new meaning and appreciation of your mother, the woman who gave you life. 5 Minute Vaginal Birth Of An Actual Live Human Fetus Baby ~The Circle Of Life

Testimonial – Male Client

“I was rather nervous when I was about to have our first session. I did not know what to expect. But I must say I was really surprise to see a very gentle and demure lady. I felt awkward and thought would she be able to talk about sexual issues? As we started the discussion,Read More

Why he strays: Is he unhappy with you or with the sex?

This article first appeared in the October 2011 issue of Health & Beauty magazine published in Malaysia. Click image to enlarge/ read. Dr Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certifiedRead More

How a Girl Should Put a Man’s Shirt

A video showing creative ways to wear a man’s shirt. You never know when you might need to pull a trick or two!

All I want for Christmas is…

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. It started as a post on my Facebook: “Please comment: What I want for Christmas is…” The answers came fast and furious ranging from: More positive sexuality: “Comprehensive Sex Education Programs in Public Schools!” for Dorian Gomez, Art Director & Resident Curator at Erotic Heritage Museum of Las Vegas.Read More

Legal and Ethical Issues in Medical Treatment of Children with Variations of Sex Anatomy

What would you do if this was your child? What would you like happen? Speaker: Anne Tamar-Mattis Description: An estimated 1 in 2,000 babies is born with a Difference of Sex Development (DSD or intersex condition). Currently, there is much controversy regarding the best course of treatment for those children with DSD born with atypicalRead More

PSA: Sexual Health

Video Public Service Announcements (PSAs) from a Sociology of Gender class at Penn State University.

I think Mom is Santa

Nice one!

Kermit The Frog – The Christmas Wish

Kermit and John Denver sing a beautiful Christmas song from their 1979 special What do you wish for Christmas? Have you taken the time to think of other people as one? What could you do for others?

No go – too drunk to consent

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. During the presentation “Promoting Consent, Preventing Coercion” by AWARE as part of SlutTalk on Saturday 3 December, I shared for the first time, how years ago, a male friend rebuffed me when I suggested we went clubbing. Me: “Hey, we should go clubbing together one of these days!” HisRead More

Milestones of 2011

Day/ Date     What JAN Sat 9, 15 Jan – Conducted With a Bang workshops, a project for Health Promotion Board FEB Tues 1 Feb – Launch of 1st Febulove Campaign www.febulove.com. It returns 1 Feb 2012. Tues 9, 16, Fri 25 Feb – Completed 1st Manifest the Love of your Life workshop Fri 11 andRead More

Your First Love: Your Parents

These videos have nothing to do with sex but your relationship with the first people in your life: your parents. We have been so busy growing up, we sometimes forget that they are getting old. When was the last time you expressed your love to your parents? After all these years, it is still hardRead More

Video: Silent Night

Merry Christmas. Bing Crosby – Silent Night Video Produced by Bigwallypants.

Testimonial – Condom Factory Visit

“This was a very enlightening day trip as I witnessed first-hand the painstaking process that goes behind making a condom – from the creation of those thin rubber sheaths to how they’re finally packaged. You won’t believe the amount of work that goes into ensuring sure your rubbers are safe-to-use! Props to the factory staffRead More

Medical benefits from Orgasm

Sara Gottfried, MD, is a a Harvard trained gynecologist and sought-after speaker in the realm of female hormones and the biochemistry of vitality. She runs the Gottfried Center for Integrative Medicine in Oakland, CA. (http://www.saragottfriedmd.com/) Dr. Gottfried shares the three medical issues that orgasm addresses in women. Learn that orgasm is vital by lowering highRead More

Slow Sex with Nicole Daedone

Nicole Daedone is the author of “Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm”, and the founder of OneTaste , an urban retreat center offering live and online courses and coaching in orgasm, relationships, and desire. Here she sits down with three friends—Susan, Kelly & Kim—to ask the surprisingly difficult question, “So….What DoRead More

Spiritual Sexuality

This video talks about sex and the beauty of sacred sexuality. thePussyTalks from CHESWORTH films™ on Vimeo.

Aunt Vi and her ukulele “A bicycle built for two”

KORAKOR presents another great cover by Aunt Vi and her ukulele. Stay tuned for more on KORAKOR

How to make a vulva costume

A GeniTales production by: Debby Herbenick & Vanessa Schick Would you walk down Orchard Road in a vulva costume to solicit reaction? Read the blog entry here.

Sexually confused – when no is a game

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. As a follow up to an earlier piece “Sexual Consent: When no is really no“, I would like to discuss when the act of saying no is actually a game women play; or, when no is actually a heavily coded yes. When I first read this piece “No” MeansRead More

Sexual consent – When no is really no

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Recently, there has been a lot of discussion about what sexual consent means. As part of SlutWalk Singapore, a fringe event entitled, “Silence Does Not Mean Consent”, was held on Sunday 27 November. AWARE, Singapore’s only gender-equality advocacy group, released two information leaflets: “What is consent?”, as well asRead More

Video: Anonymous Testing Site

The Anonymous Testing Site by Action for Aids is manned by friendly volunteers, counselors and coordinators who are all here to help you, not to judge you. Counseling is provided before and after testing. You http://www.blogger.com/img/blank.gifcan choose from the two options: the fingertip prick and an oral swab test. No names are required and nothingRead More

Videos: Let’s Be Positive About HIV

Adrian Pang – Let’s Be Positive About HIV People living with HIV/AIDS often hide their status due to fear of discrimination. Adrian Pang steps forward as a voice for people living with HIV/AIDS. Join Adrian Pang in becoming a voice that cares, and give people living with HIV/AIDS the strength to face their loved ones.Read More

SlutWalk is not about Sluts

This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. As a sexologist in Singapore, I am interested in all news related to sex and sexuality; I’m also subscribed to the news feeds of fellow sexuality educators around the world. When I first read about the outrage of Canadian activists following the suggestion of Constable MichaelRead More

Video: Anniversary

To commemorate World AIDS Day Full credits goes to Royston Tan and Alfian Sa’at.

Paul’s Talk at the Oregon Adolescent Sexuality Conference

Paul Joannides is a really good sexuality educator in the United States. This is a video about why sex education needs to include discussions about porn. To hear “90 Seconds on Sex” by Dr. Paul, please visit http://www.90SecondsOnSex.com His website is http://www.PaulJoannides.com

Practising sex and mindfulness

This piece first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Have you heard the saying that sex can be a form of meditation? Annie Sprinkle, a performance artist and sexuality educator in the United States, combined the words masturbation and meditation to coin the word medabation. You, too, can practise mindful sex if you so desire. You may needRead More

Safe Sex with Eco-Vegan Gal: Review of Sir Richard’s vegan condoms

I like this review of Sir Richard’s condoms. They are vegan, ethical, and semi-eco-friendly. Not available in Singapore, but you can always order them from overseas.

The Insightful Heart: A Recipe of Care

When was the last time you paused, reflected and connected with your heart? Description: Welcome to the second video in the Insightful Heart series, “A Recipe of Care.” This series of short videos from the Institute of HeartMath is designed to encourage you to pause, reflect and connect with your heart. We hope these simpleRead More

Why Men don’t talk to Women

A fun video on why men don’t talk to women. What do you think? Any truth in this?

Download: Dr Martha Tara Lee’s Media Kit

Please download my media kit which attempts to answer most of the commonly asked questions about me: Who is Dr Martha Tara Lee? What is she about? Where has she spoken at? What are the workshops she has conducted? What is Eros Coaching about? Where has she been featured? How do I get in touchRead More

The Vagina Police!

Who is the Vagina Police? View the video to find out more and see if you know anybody who is guilty of being one! <object width=”450″ height=”315″><param name=”movie” value=”http://www.youtube.com/v/ruhOpGP1mKw?version=3&amp;hl=en_US”></param><param name=”allowFullScreen” value=”true”></param><param name=”allowscriptaccess” value=”always”></param><embed src=”http://www.youtube.com/v/ruhOpGP1mKw?version=3&amp;hl=en_US” type=”application/x-shockwave-flash” width=”450″ height=”315″ allowscriptaccess=”always” allowfullscreen=”true”></embed></object>

Australia: It’s time

Same-sex marriage is not yet legal in Australia. Delegates at the ALP National Conference will be voting on whether to make it their policy to end marriage discrimination. An independent movement to build a progressive Australia and bring participation back into democracy has produced the below video. This beautiful ad produced by GetUp! Australia hasRead More

Want anything?

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. In this day and age, are we really suffering for want of… anything? Long before budget airlines, it was a very big deal when people would travel to other countries. So much so that friends and family would go to great lengths to show up at the airport justRead More

Vaginismus on Discovery TLC

Vaginismus is an involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina in women with no abnormalities identified during examination. The tight muscle contraction makes sexual intercourse painful or impossible. I have worked with many couples with unconsummated marriage over the last year. I use a combination of teaching exercises on helping the womanRead More

Download Dec 2011 Calendar

Download your FREE December 2011 calendar by Eros Coaching here! You can see in one cool page all the events by Eros Coaching you should not miss out next month! Check it out here!

Xmas Promotion – Beauty

Are you tired of sub-standard service? Do you have difficulties finding a professional beauty salon? I would like to recommend Annabelle Studio: RF Anti-Wrinkle Eye Treatment         u.p. $75  (Promotion rate: $38) Radio Frequency excels in “ironing” out wrinkles and fine lines, giving a firmer and smoother eye contours that enhances your charming glaze. Expiry: 31Read More

On Yahoo Singapore

In case you missed it, this is the link to my interview “Straight talk with Singapore’s sex doctor” with Yahoo Singapore.

Sex – a job or a joy?

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Is sex a job or a joy to you? Sex means many things to different people, often depending on where they are emotionally, or even the time of their life. For some, it is a chore, a duty, an obligation, simply a way to keep the harmony in aRead More

Where She Wants To Be Touched

AskMen interviews certified sexologist Dr. Christine Milrod to ask her a few in depth questions about sex. What are some places women like to be touched? Dr. Christine Milrod is my schoolmate from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, United States

Love is Energy… Pass it forward!

Just a nice catchy video on love. What kind of energy are you radiating from within? Have a great day!

Blow His Mind Away – for Ladies

One day, four sessions; 9a.m. – 5p.m.; Only for ladies   “I attended Martha’s 1 day course out of curiosity (what on earth goes on in her hand job & blow job classroom) and to also show support to my new friend. Martha is a real professional, who combines humour, facts, passion and personal experiences intoRead More

Female readers ask about masturbation

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. In a previous column Masturbation is Self Love, I tackled men’s most commonly asked questions about masturbation. Female readers wrote in with their questions, and my answers are below: 1. I’m married and am a mother to a nine-year-old. I discovered self-loving in my early thirties and have been secretlyRead More

Street Smart or Sex Smart?

This article first appeared on the CozyCot website. So, how did you select your secondary school after your PSLE (Primary School Leaving Examinations)? How did you decide what career to pursue? Before any major purchase, what would you do before making the final choice? Of course, you must have conducted some form of research intoRead More

Attend SlutTalk Singapore

SLUT TEASE from SlutWalkSG on Vimeo. In a bid to contextualize SlutWalk Singapore, the official programme kicks off with a full first day of workshops, talks and discussions, touching on issues surrounding sexual assault, victim-blaming/slut-shaming, sexuality and consent. [Find SlutWalk SG Part Two here ] The first of six presenters for SlutTalk, I will beRead More

Cazwell – Ice Cream Truck

Fun video about ice cream and what else is yummy down under.

Do Good: Le Flea Boutique

Le Flea Boutique – Part Deux The Pre-loved Fashion Fair that had everyone talking is back again and this time it’s bigger, better and even more stylish. 100% of proceeds from the sale and the $5 entry donation will go towards Action for AIDS Singapore. Being the weekend before World AIDS Day, shopaholics can rejoiceRead More

Clearing the air on G-spot and female ejaculation

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. As the only certified sexologist and certified sexuality educator in Singapore, there is a wide array of sexuality questions I am asked. However, there are three questions that I continue to be asked, usually worded slightly differently, but the same ones again and again. They involve a mysterious spotRead More

Wear your Raincoat

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Think of coverings that protect you from inclement weather – whether it’s a raincoat, umbrella, or jacket. Now think of sex. What do you think of? That’s right. I am talking about condoms. The questions below are some of the most commonly asked questions I receive about one ofRead More

Masturbation is Self-love

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Mention the word “Masturbation” and what do you think of? While masturbation means different things to different people, it is one of the most misunderstood subjects in the world, as it is enshrined in mystery and secrecy because of the simple reason we speak so little about it. MasturbationRead More

Kissing 101: The DOs and DON’Ts

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. For some people, a kiss is just a simple greeting. However, many people would agree that the most satisfying purpose behind a kiss is to show affection for another. If, for some reason, you are lost for words trying to declare yourRead More

The Moon Within Me

Lately, my face has been breaking out with acne, especially around my lower jaw. It is not a figment of my imagination; my friends have asked what has happened to my face. Is it due to a lack of sleep? Or a result of too much stress? In fact, it is probably neither. Then IRead More

Transgender People In The Workplace

What would your reaction be if a transgender woman applied for a job in your office today? Would you laugh at the person? Would you be shocked? Would you treat the person for who she is, not what she looks like? Can you put yourself in her position for five seconds? Video description: A transgenderRead More

Influence

Influence By Joseph Norris Drop a pebble in the water, And its ripples reach out far; And the sunbeams dancing on them May reflect them to a star. Give a smile to someone passing, Thereby making his morning glad; It may greet you in the evening When your own heart may be sad. Do aRead More

“Miss Representation”: Official Trailer

As an ex-media student and communications practitioner in a previous career, I am a very much aware of the way the media shapes our views of gender as well as man and female roles. But this cannot be said to be the same for the men and women on the streets. Trailer Courtesy of Girls’Read More

Rethink Breast Cancer presents: Your Man Reminder

There is a new app to remind you to give your breasts some TLC. Download the app for free today. For more info, visit http://www.rethinkbreastcancer.com For iPhone: http://goo.gl/fv6c9 Rethink Breast Cancer presents: Your Man Reminder — an app that gives you regular reminders to check your breasts from a hot guy of your choice. RecentRead More

The Meaning of Life

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. The author of The Millionaire Messenger, Brendon Burchard, has written about how a near-fatal car accident changed his life. As he was at death’s doorway, three questions flashed through his mind: Did I live? Did I love? Did I even matter? If today was the last day of yourRead More

Kenji’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Virginity is sacred and consecrated for the traditionalistic individuals. Some individuals would wait for the right circumstances to come while some would lose it unexpectedly. I lost my virginity in an unexpected occasion to an unlikely woman. Yes, I lost my virginityRead More

Fun Trivia about Kissing

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Did you know that the modern kissing practices between husbands and wives started in Ancient Rome? Back then, female Romans were fond of drinking homemade wines. Their husbands, in order to catch them, tasted the lips of their wives; thus, the actRead More

Kissing: The Fun and Creative Way

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Have you ever wondered if there are varieties in kissing? Well, of course there are. All you need is the willingness to explore the possibilities and you will definitely find yourself enjoying new, fun, and flirty kisses with your partner.   EnjoyRead More

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Bedbug Praying Manis Fly Spider

On being weird

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. I don’t want to be you anymore. It’s too hard. I know I am weird. I have been told that I am weird all my life. In fact, what I do for a living is considered weird, too (I’m not saying my work is actually weird) – I amRead More

Brooke H.’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. My first time was not magical as one might like to think it should be. I was eighteen years old. I met a guy online from Canada, and we had been talking for a few years. He was very sweet. He madeRead More

Kissing Your Health Problems Goodbye

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. It is true that a kiss is not just a kiss. Aside from the fun and sensual elements, it also brings multiple health benefits. A number of medical studies have validated that kissing can help lead the body to the path ofRead More

Prakash’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Myself Prakash, I am 25 years old and lives in Shimla Hills one of the beautiful State in India. I was 16 when I completed my 10th It was after that, when my when I was introduced to sex, My friend showed meRead More

Visit to Condom Factory

Eros Coaching led a group to visit condom factory, Medical-Latex in Johor on Saturday 24 September. This is a picture I took before entering the premises. I do not have immediate plans to organise a second visit, but if you like to be put on the waiting list, please drop me an email at info@eroscoaching.com.

Now… a Certified Sexuality Educator by AASECT

Besides being the only clinical sexologist in Singapore and certified sexologist by the American College of Sexologists, I am also now the only certified sexuality educator in Singapore by American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). As a member of AASECT, I abide by their bylaws and code of ethics. For more aboutRead More

Before You Say Yes to Nude Photography

This article first appeared on NudePhotographySingapore.com.sg.   Are you suitable for nude photography? It is more important that You possess self-confidence. You own a degree of comfort with your body. Very few of people in the world have “perfect” bodies. You are at peace with the thought of nude photography. You are an individual withRead More

Introduction to Tantra by Uma

For her second trip to Singapore in Oct 2011, Uma will explore and explain the history of Tantra as a spiritual philosophy in ancient India and how it is as relevant, important, and meaningful today as it was in days gone by in “Introduction to Tantra”. Full details here.

Having Fun with Kissing Games

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. You have been dreaming about kissing your longtime crush. Of course, it is definitely awkward to ask.  What do you do? Don’t just wait in vain and hope that he notices you. Why not invite him to a kissing game?  A kissingRead More

Stop Trying So Hard

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. I caught up with a girlfriend of mine, Vanessa Chow, some weeks ago. I lamented about all the things I was dissatisfied with in my life. After listening at length (and very patiently, as I probably went on and on), she remarked about how similar we were. She sawRead More

Melissa’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. My first time was with my boyfriend of two years. We were both 19 years old. We met in an organization in college, we were friends at first and then he asked me out. I was some what conservative and a veryRead More

Rachel’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. I was my senior year in high school and I was the only one of all my friends that was still a virgin. Looking back on it, I think that made me feel pressure to have sex. I thought it over andRead More

2nd Anonymous Lady’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. It was in Singapore, in February, during our honeymoon. My husband was 28 years old and I was 26 years old. It was damn good and satisfied my curiosity. I lost my virginity to my husband. My husband is the first manRead More

Workshops by Uma

For her second trip to Singapore in Oct 2011, Uma will be conducting some never-before sexuality education workshops. Full details here.

1st Anonymous Lady’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Losing It To The Wrong Person This Isn’t How I Wanted It To Be This will be the first time that I am going to tell this story. First, I am not proud of what had happened to me. I hated itRead More

The Tribulations of a Sexologist – Part 2 of 2

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. This article is a continuation about some of the tribulations I face as Singapore’s first certified sexologist with a doctorate in human sexuality. You can read part 1 here. By way of introduction, my work involves working with individuals or couples with sexual concerns, as well as promoting positiveRead More

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Kris’ Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. We all go out and try to look for that someone to lose our virginity to. There are some who would seek to find that special person to share this one- of- a- kind memory with. There are also those people, whoRead More

Carlos’ Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. My name is Carlos and I lost my virginity at the age of seventeen. It happened when I was still a freshman in college back in December, 2002 when my cousin’s friend came by our boarding house in Manila, Philippines. It wasRead More

Mark’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. For someone who grew up in a predominantly conservative country where sex education in schools is highly heated up, I was no exception to the club of 26-year old virgins. I am Mark from the Philippines. I was raised in a societyRead More

Volk’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Hello, please call me Volk, I am 23 years old, I come from Arabic and Russian heritage, I have been born a Muslim and living in a Muslim country. After I finished the military school I was in, I went into college,Read More

Hot and bothered about Sex and Making Babies

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Answer the question below: Is a sexologist… a) Supposed to be sexy? b) Supposed to talk about sex only in the context of marriage? c) Supposed to make sure a married couple has lots of sex? d) Supposed to make sure a married couple who has lots of sexRead More

Anonymous Male’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. I want to say something about sex. Remember it; be ready before sex then it becomes healthy for you. When I was 16, one day I went to my girl friend’s home. When reached in her home, none was staying in herRead More

Nudity is not porn

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg Recently, I attended a two-day Internet Marketing course. Each attendee paid approximately S$2,000. Imagine my shock, then, when I arrived at the workshop venue to find that there were 94 persons attending (somebody counted). There were a total of five technical facilitators for 94 people, and since many courseRead More

The History of Kissing

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Have you ever wondered how the modern practice of kissing started? Here’s a brief history on kissing: One could define a kiss as an act of love expressed by pressing the lips of two individuals together. A kiss is also an expressionRead More

Tyler’s Virginity Story

This article first appeared on Virginity.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching My name is Tyler I’m currently 20 years old. I just wanted to share this story of my first time with others. My first time was when I was almost 17. It was with my girlfriend. She was one of my first girlfriends. IRead More

Isn’t Nude Photography Obscene?

This article first appeared on NudePhotographySingapore.com.sg. An erotic photograph does not have to be nude, and a nude photograph is not necessarily erotic. Indeed, there is a thin fine line between nude art and pornography. Even though photography has been widely available to the public, nude photography has been one of the most popular andRead More

About Nude Photography

This article first appeared on NudePhotographySingapore.com.sg. “Art is not what you see, but what you make others see.”  – Edgar Degas There are many different reasons why someone would want to make a nude portfolio. The most common desire is for a visual document of a period in their lives. Many people regret not havingRead More

Frequently Asked Questions about Vaginismus

This article first appeared on Vaginismus.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. How does primary vaginismus differ from secondary vaginismus? Primary vaginismus is very common among women who tried to have sex for the first time. The involuntary tightening of their pelvic floor muscles are usually related to psychological issues such as fear ofRead More

Treatment Plans of Vaginismus

This article first appeared on Vaginismus.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Treatment Plans Unlike other sexual function disorders, Vaginismus is one of the many sexual function conditions in women that is highly treatable and can be successfully resolved with proper treatment. A treatment program is usually designed by a certified therapist based uponRead More

A Closer Look: Vaginismus

This article first appeared on Vaginismus.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. A Closer Look Women who frequently experience vaginal discomfort during intercourse, such as pain and burning sensations, are probably suffering from the condition known as Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs). Vaginismus is the result of involuntary tightening of the vaginal walls, making penetration duringRead More

What is Vaginismus?

This article first appeared on Vaginismus.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. You may have Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs) if you are a woman who experiences… Pain due to tightening of the vagina during intercourse Painful sensation during insertion of the penis/ failure to achieve penile penetration due to pain Difficulty having a gynecological examRead More

The Tribulations of a Sexologist (Part 1 of 2)

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg, where I have a weekly column. When I started my practice, Eros Coaching, I was told unreservedly by many well-meaning people, often complete strangers, not to do so. Will I have enough business? Are Singaporeans going to come forward? “We are too shy!”, they exclaimed. “Why didn’t you stayRead More

Having the Perfect First Kiss

This article first appeared on HowtoKiss.com.sg, a micro site belonging to Eros Coaching. Even when one is not a teenager anymore, the experience of a memorable and perfect first kiss with your beau does not really fade away. No matter how anxious one feels, that kiss with somebody special is always something great to anticipate.Read More

Squeeze, Hold, Release Your Way to Sexual Health

This article first appeared on the Good Therapy website. Have you heard of pelvic floor exercises? You may have learnt about them from your aerobics instructor. Or perhaps your urologist was the one who ordered you to squeeze your butt cheeks together? Maybe your gynae was the one who asked you to attempt to tightenRead More

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Bees: Love Story Genital Geometry Whale

New Portrait Photos

These are my new portrait photos. A big thank you to photographer Mok who recently launched his book Liberate. His website is http://www.marcusmok-photography.com/. Makeup was done by my good friend, Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call. Photographer of my portraits: Marcus Mok  of Picture Box. Makeup: Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call.

Laser Circumcision

This article first appeared on Good Vibrations Magazine. You know you are a sexologist when a little advertisement tucked away in the sports section of a commuter newspaper in Singapore catches your eye. It reads Laser Circumcision for Male Adults and Children and what is even more interesting is that one can use Medisave forRead More

Making of…

… my new portrait shots! These photos are taken by CF. The photographer of the day is none other than the renowned Marcus Mok who recently launched his book Liberate. His website is http://www.marcusmok-photography.com/. Makeup by my good friend, Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call. They were excellent! Hope you consider engaging them forRead More

Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!

“I always believe in saving myself for the person I marry and I have never really been bothered by sex. Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex! I wasRead More

A New Day

A New Day Anonymous If life seems at its lowest ebb, Because a day’s gone wrong. Let not your heart be troubled, For a new day soon will dawn And we can never be quite sure, Just what it has in store. Since each one is so different, Than the one just gone before AsRead More

As long as I keep practicing those exercises, it will become better and I would be able to enjoy more for my sex life.

“Before i met Martha, sex always a nightmare for me. After married for one year plus, having sex become a most stress issue in my marriage. Always feel pain, scare and tired for keep trying, but always end with crying and upset. Until I read an article about that lot of woman having same problemRead More

Promise Yourself

Promise Yourself The Optimist Creed Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel like there is something in them. To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism comeRead More

Elephants Have Genitals Too

This article first appeared on Good Vibrations Magazine. I came across this article titled “Walking among gentle giants” in My Paper, a free bilingual commuter publication on Thursday, Aug 11, 2011. The same story can be found here. I have just returned from Cambodia where I saw female elephants used to transport tourists around, soRead More

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Sex to Die For Snail Earthworm Bee

Poem: Kindness

Kindness Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a moment like salt in a weakened broth. What you held in your hand, what you counted and carefully saved, all this must go so you know how desolate the landscape can be between the regions of kindness.Read More

Who Cares

Who Cares II, Gay Trailer Who Cares II, Gay Trailer from Issac Ng on Vimeo. Who Cares II, Interracial Trailer Who Cares II, Interracial Trailer from Issac Ng on Vimeo. Who Cares II, Lesbian Trailer Who Cares II, Lesbian Trailer from Issac Ng on Vimeo. Description: We’re back with Who Cares II – Whom IRead More

Sex Madness

This is a typical sex exploitation film from the early 1930s–complete with wild parties, sex out of wedlock, lesbianism, etc. A chorus girl’s exposure to the “casting couch” also exposes her to syphilis. Exploitation filmmakers hoped to capitalize on the taboo subjects of venereal disease, sex before marriage, lesbianism, etc. while skirting the Motion PictureRead More

Homophobia: We All Pay a Price

Homophobia: We All Pay a Price by Warren Blumenfeld This PowerPoint presentation offers a non-threatening and non-judgmental approach to issues surrounding sexual identity and homophobia. Based on his book by the same name, Dr. Blumenfeld discusses how the fight to end homophobia is everyone’s fight if we are to bring about a less oppressive andRead More

Healing Affirmations

Healing Affirmations by Louise Hay. Please repeat the affirmation which is suited to your needs several times each day. Our intentions are very powerful and can bring much happiness and good health to our lives. Healing Affirmations 1/3 Louise Hay Healing Affirmations 2/3 Louise Hay Healing Affirmations 3/3 Louise Hay

Paul’s Talk at the Oregon Adolescent Sexuality Conference

Getting our heads out of the sand: Why sex education needs to include discussions about porn.

Nicole Daedone – Orgasm

Nicole Daedone – Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman TEDxTalks Nicole Daedone is a sought-after speaker, author, and educator focusing on the intersection between orgasm, intimacy, and life. She is the founder of OneTaste, a cutting-edge company bringing a new definition of orgasm to women. The practice at the heart of herRead More

Animal Passions

A British documentary on zoophilia presenting various personal, religious, psychological, and sociological views on the phenomenon of sexual relations between humans and other animals.

Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence

Description: ‘Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence’ – An Article by Dr James W. Prescott. It is truly tragic how long this information has been around, and how little it is talked about in the world. From Freedomain Radio – http://www.freedomainradio.com

How To Make Intuitive Decisions: Listening to Your Gut

Author of “GUIDE TO INTUITIVE HEALING” and the New York Times bestseller EMOTIONAL FREEDOM, Judith Orloff MD discusses the section in her books about the power of positive intention to create your reality and build intuitive power. Check out http://drjudithorloff.com/ for more inspiration and to sign up for FREE E-NEWSLETTER on how to tap yourRead More

Personal Story: Overcoming my Fear of Bugs

This article is written by Yuko Takara who attended my 1st Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway workshop (Edited by C.F.) Yuko has a beautiful soul and it is with great love that she wants to share her voice with the world. I have been having difficulty dealing with insects since I was young.Read More

Orgasmic Birth

Orgasmic Birth NEW Trailer Video description: Joyous, sensuous and revolutionary, Orgasmic Birth brings the ultimate challenge to our cultural myths by inviting viewers to see the emotional, spiritual, and physical heights attainable through birth. Witness the passion as birth is revealed as an integral part of woman’s sexuality and a neglected human right. With commentaryRead More

Homemade Implants

Frances Dilorinzo discovered a way to test drive new breasts.

Green Porno

Actor/director Isabella Rossellini talks about her short films GREEN PORNO premiering at the 2008 Sundance Film Festival. Making of Green Porno Isabella Rossellini’s eight-part short film series about the sex life of insects and various creatures “Green Porno,” will premiere on sundancechannel.com and on HELIO’s mobile service on May 5, 2008. The series will beRead More

Men and Yogurt

Nice one. Real men eat yogurt. 🙂

The Full Body Workout

This article first appeared on Ezyhealth Singapore July 2011. Click on image to view.  

Green Pink Caviar

The trailer for Marilyn Minter’s video Green Pink Caviar. http://www.greenpinkcaviar.com/ Hmm…. what we can do with our lips. Beautiful video.

Condom Demonstration – Proper Attire Required!

Safe is Sexy! Let our Sexuality Education Trainers show you the proper way to put on a condom.

Experiments with Water

If you haven’t heard of Dr. Emoto and his work with water. Watch these videos and understand what our thoughts can do to us. HIDDEN MESSAGES IN WATER – Dr. Masaru Emoto Experiment With Meditation At Brahma Kumaris HQ Another video: Description: Masaru Emoto was born in Yokohama, Japan in July 1943 and a graduateRead More

Moon Inside You

Trailer for the brilliant Moon Inside You film, directed by Diana Fabianova. The Moon Inside You – www.mooninsideyou.com – directed by Diana Fabianova. Zagreb, Croatia | Oct 21st 2010 at 8th International Zagreb Film Festival  

For Women: Oil for Your Lamp

For Women: Oil for Your Lamp

Sexual Education

Sexual Education by Youth Tv Magazine Avtorji / Autors: Catarina, Emeline, Špela, Uroš, Raquel

In Cheek: Sexual Consent

Nice answer to modern “sexual consent” ideas?

That’s Vaginal: Cat On A Mission

Video description: You humans are strange creatures. You take a word for something of incredible power and wonder, and you make it taboo. Why? Because it makes you giggle? I say it’s time for America to say it loud and proud: VA-GI-NA! Visit http://thatsvaginal.com and tell me what you think is vaginal.

Love Your Vagina Song

Video description: Whatever you call your vagina, we think it deserves some love. That’s why we’ve written a song starring over 25 names submitted to the loveyourvagina poll, which asked women from across the world ‘what they call theirs’. You gave us 14,000 different names, and there are still more coming in every day! VisitRead More

How to Insert a Tampon

“Hir” Poem about trangsgendered youth

This is a poem by Alysia Harris & Aysha El Shamayleh, it is about the dual identities of a transgender person. Melissa sits in the back of the classroom afraid to speak up, She pulls akwardly at her extra loose khaki cargo pants, She doesn’t want the boys to notice her. James finds himself atRead More

Art of Seduction: Not Pretty, Really

We may think we want to look better so life will be better. Really? Watch this video and think twice. http://www.sundancechannel.com/seduction/ Being good-looking has its perks. But as this group confess, sometimes being beautiful can be a burden in fair disguise.

Experiment with Rice

Another example of the power of our words, thoughts and intentions. Video description: This experiment developed by Masaru Emoto tests the power of our thoughts, words, and intentions on water through the rice. Positively enforced rice rots slower than negatively enforced rice. My experiment ran from May 13 to June 4th of 2008.

What Is Leadership? By Robin Sharma

What is Leadership? What Makes a Great Leader? Leadership and personal development expert Robin Sharma shares an interview on what makes a leader. For more from Robin Sharma, visit http://www.robinsharma.com. My question has to be: Are you taking leadership for your sexuality? We see the need to take charge for all other aspects of ourRead More

July E-newsletter

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Beautiful Girls – Rosie O’Donnell

Gina (Rosie O’Donnell) rants about Real Women vs Models to Timothy Hutton & Matt Dillon

Scratch & Dent Dreams–Slam Poetry

A poem performed at the 2005 National Poetry Slam Individual Semifinals by Eric Darby. For more info, check out: http://www.ericdarby.net

Testimonials – Feel the Fear… and Do It Anyway®

“Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway workshop helped me to reflect and put into context some of the unknown fears I was not previously aware of. This new awareness, together with the tools shared during the workshop makes me feel like I am ready to face current and future challenges. The group sharing andRead More

Mark Whitwell “Power, Sex & Union”