Are you able to listen, to hold space, and not feel you need to be doing, or be “done” to by your partner during sex?
If we can just hold space, if we can just allow what happens to happen, then sex can be bliss, then it can be ecstastic without the element of performance.
TEDxUbud – Rodolfo Young – The Art of Holding Space
Recorded at TEDxUbud on May 6th, 2011, at Gaya Fusion.
About TEDx, x = independently organized event
In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized. (Subject to certain rules and regulations.)