The Art of Penis Pleasuring

Posted On: March 16, 2019

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Date(s) - 16/03/2019
5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Makati City, Philippines (Exact Venue to be Disclosed to Confirmed Attendees Only)


Welcome to the enchanting world of penis! Penises come in different sizes, angles, colors, smells and tastes. This is a workshop open to all genders, and penis owners will benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy. Let’s talk openly about this often misunderstood part of the anatomy, and get all your questions answered, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation.

Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will cover the following topics: penile anatomy; warming up and playing with cock with your hands, penis massage, how to experiment with speed, pressure and rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more! where the best of her male genital massage techniques are taught.

These are the SAME techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork.

You will learn:

  • Male sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive Male G spot
  • More than 20 penile massage techniques – frenulum, shaft, testicles etc.
  • 5 types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  • What an energy orgasm is

Whole Day Workshop Fee:

Pre-Sale Until February 16 – Php8,000 per person
Regular From February 16 Onwards – Php10,000 per person


The workshops are strictly for a minimum of 10 attendees and a maximum of 20 attendees only. Should the minimum of 10 fully paid and vetted attendees not be met by 01 March 2019, the class will be dissolved. Slots are VERY limited, so please email to RSVP now.

When/ Where

Date: Sat 16 March 2019

Time: 5:00 – 8p.m. 

Fee: Pre-Sale Until February 16 – Php8,000 per person
Regular From February 16 Onwards – Php10,000 per person

Venue:  Makati City, Philippines (Exact Venue to be Disclosed to Confirmed Attendees Only)

What Others Are Saying

“This is a good workshop to learn different and creative techniques because it is very hard to find sexual education in Asia and Singapore. Most of the time we just know pieces of information and guess by ourselves.” – Frederick, Aug 2017

“11 pages of techniques on the penis. So Many things to try with my girl!” – Alwin, Aug 2017

“Martha is one of the world’s renowned sexologist with a practical approach to the actual techniques. She is adept in bringing these techniques in a way that is reachable to the audience. Great learning experience from the industry’s leading sexologist and sex techniques scholar.” – Shiva, March 2017

“Been subtly trying some of the creative sexy techniques you taught. Hubby didn’t ask about it but it definitely worked! I had the best sex of my life last night. Thank you!! Highly recommending this course to all my married friends!! (But secretly, of course).” – Anonymous, 21 Dec 2015

“Just wanted to give you an update my ‘progress’. My boyfriend thinks i’m amazing in bed, hahaha. He really loves my blowjobs, and i’ve incorporate parts of the massage video into a handjob. Let’s just say he’s very satisfied 🙂 Thanks for the skills! It really helped in my confidence ‘cos i was quite green at the whole thing. If you have other interesting courses, do keep me in the loop. Wanna make sure he continues to be surprised and a happy man.” – Anonymous, May 2010

Read more testimonials here, and here.

Frequently Asked Questions:

1. Who are these workshops for? – For individuals, couples, or groups who wish to learn more about sexual anatomy, and genital massage – regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, marital status, race, religion, or nationality. Maximum number of attendees is 20 people, and all participants will go through a vetting process to ensure that the class will be made up of respectful and responsible adults.

2. What if I don’t have a partner to come with? – This workshop is being offered to individuals or couples at this time so it is a non-issue. If you attend with your partner, you’d get to use the same terms/ vocabulary after the workshop – makes life easier! You also have the option to attend with a friend! It’s fun to learn together!

3. But… what if I’m shy? – Don’t worry. You will never be forced to do or say anything during the workshop. Many participants in the past have chosen to just sit and learn without saying a word. We respect individual choice.

4. How can I persuade my partner to attend these workshops? – Do explain that Dr. Martha has been running such workshops for close to 10 years, and every single person who has attended her workshops has said they overcame their resistance and are glad they attended it. We suggest you encourage your partner by saying that there will be other shy people there too, and everybody attending are there to learn to improve their lives!

5. I don’t see why I need to learn about massaging my own genitals (I can’t possibly do it right?) – Actually you can (massage your own genitals) – not all the strokes though. Each of us need to learn about our sexual anatomy to claim your sexuality fully. It is when we know who we are and what we like, will we then be able to communicate better and more deeply with your partner(s).

6. Will there be nudity? – No, we will be using sexual aids i.e. toy.

7. Will there be touching? – No.

8. Will you be doing any demo on a person? – No. The workshop has been and will be conducted during sexual aids as mentioned above.

9. Do you need a live model? – No, and we are not looking.

10.  What is the ratio of discussion to experiential? – About 50/50 percent.

11. Can you give discounts? – No. We have costs including for the venue.

12. What should I bring? – A wrap or sweater in case it gets cool. Water is advisable. Please also be ready to present a valid ID with birthday indicated. A signed waiver is required for participation.

13. What should I wear? – Please come wearing loose-fitting comfortable clothes so you have the option of sitting on the floor.

14. What is your refund policy? – Please note that no refunds are possible once you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement *may be* allowed.

15. I am a media member. Can I attend? – We respect the privacy and confidentiality of our participants and will never allow any interview or photography. Do check out our media policy here.

16. Why aren’t you disclosing the address? – We’ve had to cancel or postpone events if the minimum number of attendees hasn’t been met. We’ve also had people who just show up without registering making it very difficult to cater for handouts and refreshments. To provide the best workshop experience, the exact address will only be given to attendees who have been vetted, pre-paid, can be on time, and can attend the entire workshop out of respect to other participants.

**All details are subject to change without prior notice. If minimum number of attendees is not met, then the workshops may be cancelled.**

About Your Trainer

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network.  She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.


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