Squeeze, Hold, Release Your Way to Sexual Health

Squeeze, Hold, Release Your Way to Sexual Health

Posted On: August 31, 2011

This article first appeared on the Good Therapy website. Have you heard of pelvic floor exercises? You may have learnt about them from your aerobics instructor. Or perhaps your urologist was the one who ordered you to squeeze your butt cheeks together? Maybe your gynae was the one who asked you to attempt to tighten […]

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New Portrait Photos

Posted On: August 27, 2011

These are my new portrait photos. A big thank you to photographer Mok who recently launched his book Liberate. His website is http://www.marcusmok-photography.com/. Makeup was done by my good friend, Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call. Photographer of my portraits: Marcus Mok  of Picture Box. Makeup: Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call.

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Laser Circumcision

Posted On: August 26, 2011

This article first appeared on Good Vibrations Magazine. You know you are a sexologist when a little advertisement tucked away in the sports section of a commuter newspaper in Singapore catches your eye. It reads Laser Circumcision for Male Adults and Children and what is even more interesting is that one can use Medisave for […]

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Making of…

Posted On: August 24, 2011

… my new portrait shots! These photos are taken by CF. The photographer of the day is none other than the renowned Marcus Mok who recently launched his book Liberate. His website is http://www.marcusmok-photography.com/. Makeup by my good friend, Sally Lim of Makeup Artist On Call. They were excellent! Hope you consider engaging them for […]

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Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!

Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!

Posted On: August 24, 2011

“I always believe in saving myself for the person I marry and I have never really been bothered by sex. Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex! I was […]

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A New Day

Posted On: August 23, 2011

A New Day Anonymous If life seems at its lowest ebb, Because a day’s gone wrong. Let not your heart be troubled, For a new day soon will dawn And we can never be quite sure, Just what it has in store. Since each one is so different, Than the one just gone before As […]

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Promise Yourself

Posted On: August 20, 2011

Promise Yourself The Optimist Creed Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel like there is something in them. To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come […]

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Elephants Have Genitals Too

Posted On: August 19, 2011

This article first appeared on Good Vibrations Magazine. I came across this article titled “Walking among gentle giants” in My Paper, a free bilingual commuter publication on Thursday, Aug 11, 2011. The same story can be found here. I have just returned from Cambodia where I saw female elephants used to transport tourists around, so […]

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Poem: Kindness

Posted On: August 11, 2011

Kindness Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a moment like salt in a weakened broth. What you held in your hand, what you counted and carefully saved, all this must go so you know how desolate the landscape can be between the regions of kindness. […]

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