Is Sex Impossible?

Get yourself out of pain into pleasure!


Dear Fellow Woman,

Do you feel that for some reason you cannot feel satisfaction but instead only pain and fear when you try to have sex? Have you tried to figure out the issue only to come up empty time and again?

First of all, let’s evaluate your symptoms…

Please answer YES or NO to the questions below:

  • Do you sense a burning or stinging during sex?
  • Does your partner find it difficult or impossible to penetrate your vagina?
  • Does this problem affect your marriage?
  • Does this pain last since you gave birth?
  • Did you experience rape or other related sexual traumas in your past?
  • Do you avoid sex because of the uncomfortable feelings you experience?

If you answer yes to more than one of the questions above, you need help!

What seems to be the problem?

Vaginismus is vaginal tightness and it makes penetration difficult or impossible. The roots of this problem are primarily psychological and the main emotion that causes this type of condition is fear. Here are some of the common misconceptions:

  • A woman with a small vagina is more likely to suffer from Vaginismus during intercourse. Wrong. Normally, the vagina is flexible enough to expand and accommodate a penis that is fully erect. However, involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles lead to painful intercourse.
  • Vaginismus occurs only during intercourse. False. Vaginismus may occur even before penile penetration happens, making intercourse difficult or even impossible.
  • An intact hymen is the reason why a woman may suffer from Vaginismus. Not true. The involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles happens subconsciously and is not due to the presence or absence of a hymen.
  • A woman who has already given birth may not suffer from Vaginismus. Wrong. Remember that there are cases of mothers who after vaginal delivery started to experience Vaginismus due to a painful or traumatic experience during the birth process.
  • Vaginismus is more common in single than married women. Not true. A woman’s civil status has nothing to do with Vaginismus. It may occur to both single and married women.
  • Vaginismus is just a condition that goes away on its own without the need for any intervention. False. A woman suffering from Vaginismus needs to seek assistance from people who are experts in the field of treating the problem. The earlier she seeks help, the higher the chances of having pain-free intercourse.

You may want to address your problem… but who can you trust?

Maybe you find it difficult to tell someone about the pain you feel inside during intercourse. Finding a good sexologist in your area might be difficult and you cannot rely on acquaintances to share this type of intimacies.

So, what can be done?

What you need is an online coaching program! Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee has founded Eros Coaching company with the purpose to help women in problems similar to yours. She has been in practice for four years and during this time she has worked with more than 200 couples who have vaginismus. Martha has a Ph.D in Human Sexuality from Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, United States and numerous trainings in domains such as coaching, sex coaching, sex therapy and practical counseling.

How exactly can Dr. Martha Lee help you?

After years of ongoing research and client experience, she created a 28-day vaginismus online coaching program called SEX POSSIBLE that is aimed towards couples and singles so as to be able to help women who are not located in Singapore.

Each day of the week is of a different theme:

  • Monday:Pap talk
  • Tuesday:Body-based activities
  • Wednesday:Discussion about relationship
  • Thursday:Frequently asked questions
  • Friday::Sexual aid
  • Saturday:Instructional tip
  • Sunday:Sex education

Dr. Martha Lee explains this about her 28 days to
Sex Possible online training program:

When I was doing my training towards becoming a sexologist in US and I first learned about this condition called vaginismus, it really broke my heart because I could not imagine women who cannot have penetrative sex because I enjoy sex. I think sex is wonderful and great. And so, when I heard about it, it really moved me and probably because of that, it’s no coincidence that I started drawing a lot of women with this condition when I started my practice.

So during these four years, I have worked with more than a hundred and fifty women, their partner included, so about 150 couples more than that, who have come to me with this condition. And through my experience working with them, I become more and more confident. I have developed my own techniques that are very, very unique which I had not been able to find in any book.

And this is why I’ve decided to come up with this video series because it is very difficult to show them, people who are not face to face with me. I have had inquiries from US, from Canada, from Pakistan, from Bangladesh, from Indonesia, from Malaysia, from Singapore.


The structure of the lecture is easy to follow and made in such way that you can fully understand the concepts and the practice techniques that will help you overcome vaginismus.

During this program, you will:

  1. 1Learn the link between your body, heart and mind
  2. 2Have a brief image on sex history and get yourself educated in the
    anatomy of your body
  3. 3The difference between pain and pleasure
  4. 4Learn the effects of affirmations on the quality of intercourse
  5. 5Master pain management
  6. 6Learn more about the importance of constructive communication with your partner
  7. 7Find out more about the tools that will help you overcome painful intercourse

What are the benefits of enrolling in Sex Possible?

  • For the first time in a long while, you will feel pleasure during sex
  • Martha’s method is holistic, so you will improve your overall relationship with your partner too, not only the time you spend in bed
  • Easy to follow methods and techniques that will have an immediate impact on your sex life
  • Martha will provide you relevant information about what tool, lubricants and other sexual objects to use in order to prolong the pleasure and control your body
  • No boring books, just short and interactive, easy to follow videos

Hear from women who have overcome vaginismus with Dr. Martha Lee

With Martha’s constant encouragement, and our progressive tryings, we finally had our first penetrative sex about 8 months after our first session with Martha, it was a great achievement to us, but at the same time we know that we were lucky to have Martha who is knowledgeable, patient, supportive and encouraging.. without her help we would never be able to achieve what we have achieved today.Would want to recommend Martha to everyone who has this problem, I am sure with her knowledge, patience, support and encouragement you will be able to overcome vaginismus the soonest.Thanks Martha. Sincerely wish you to keep up your great work and may you be able to reach out more people who are like me. Thank you.
Now, we would like to thank Martha for helping us overcome this problem. Thanks for being so patient in answering our queries, for all your effort to encourage us, and for always saying that I am normal. She’s not only helping us overcome vaginismus, but she also gave some sex education which we didn’t know before.Thank you Martha! We will recommend you to our friends when needed. We will keep your contact number, just in case we have sexual problem in the future, we will look for you for sure.
When I first met Martha, I knew she would be someone I could talk to openly without having to censor myself or worry about being judged. She herself is a woman who can speak to people on many different levels, as I’ve observed, while always remaining true to who she is. She is open and candid, funny and smart, sensitive and compassionate. All these things made me comfortable in approaching her in the first place.I had been suffering in silence for years and after meeting Martha, felt for the first time in my 28 years, like there was light at the end of the tunnel. Not only did she address all the issues I presented her with, she was 100 percent successful in helping me get over them!

Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course – you decide when you start and when you finish.

How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like – across any and all devices you own.

Do you offer a refund?
To be fair to the many clients this program has helped who paid full price for it, purchase of this program is non-refundable. If you have any questions about the course before buying, feel free to contact us below and ask.

Sex CAN be an enjoyable experience!
All you have to do is to acknowledge your problem and take action!

Join NOW to the online program SEX POSSIBLE and say goodbye to pain!

Sex Possible

  • The Sex Possible Program: 28 days of comprehensive online lessons to help you overcome vaginismus

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* Private coaching sessions are customised and will further address your questions and challenges around your sexual issue. They can be conducted via Skype. For more about what coaching entails, please visit

Dr. Martha Tara Lee

About Martha

Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). She holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality as well as certificates in practical counselling, life coaching and sex therapy. She is available to provide sexuality and relationship coaching for individuals and couples, conduct sexual education workshops and speak at public events in Asia and beyond. For more, visit