Resources: Ethical & Feminist Porn

Resources: Ethical & Feminist Porn

Posted On: June 9, 2021

This is a list of ethical and feminist porn sites you might like to check out. Do note that downloading porn is illegal in Singapore – watching them online is not. I do invite each and everyone of you to question where your porn comes from: If there is consent between all parties filmed? If […]

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I can’t make my girlfriend orgasm- What should I do?  @ SheThePeople TV

I can’t make my girlfriend orgasm- What should I do? @ SheThePeople TV

Posted On: June 7, 2021

I answer the below questions in this video →How can I make my girlfriend orgasm? – Asks a penis owner →Is it normal for my girlfriend to not masturbate? →What is an orgasm and how does it feel like? →How much time will it take for a vulva owner to orgasm with fingering? →How to proceed […]

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Recordings of May Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Pleasure

Recordings of May Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Pleasure

Posted On: May 19, 2021

We run three virtual sexuality festivals with the one in March comprising of 30 presenters, 12 presenters over 5 days. You can watch past recordings we’ve put up here. We are taking a pause on Sugar & Spice festival but launched our monthly talk as of 28 April 2021. The theme was Violence. The recordings […]

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Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Posted On: May 18, 2021

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee, family therapist Evonne Lek, clinical psychologist Mahima Gupta and host Lavania Rosie on the topic of toxic relationships. https://www.thehomeground.asia/detoxing-from-toxic-relationships Details here This is TheHomeGround Asia’s second episode of Beyond Within, a series of discussions on women empowerment and the struggles that women face. In this episode, […]

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Resources on Grief – Websites/ Books

Resources on Grief – Websites/ Books

Posted On: May 10, 2021

I’ve pulled together some resources for people dealing with grief in Singapore. These are some sites: 1) Refuge In Grief – Validation and practical tools for living with grief. Corporate consultation, creative writing courses, and one super good book. 2) The Sharing Place – Since 1993, The Sharing Place has been fulfilling its mission to […]

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Recommended Sex Positive Tedx Talks

Recommended Sex Positive Tedx Talks

Posted On: May 4, 2021

The below are a list of recommended Tedx talks that are sex-positive and related to our sexuality. Have you watched any of them? Thoughts? What do you think need to be included in this list? 1. Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life | Emily Nagoski | TEDxUniversityofNevada Author of the NY […]

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Recordings of April Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Violence

Recordings of April Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Violence

Posted On: May 3, 2021

We run three virtual sexuality festivals with the one in March comprising of 30 presenters, 12 presenters over 5 days. You can watch past recordings we’ve put up here. We are taking a pause on Sugar & Spice festival but launched our monthly talk as of 28 April 2021. The theme was Violence. The recordings […]

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Performative vs Pleasure Based Sex

Performative vs Pleasure Based Sex

Posted On: May 1, 2021

What does sex mean to you? What type of sex do you think you tend to be having – performative or pleasure based sex OR a combination of both? What type of sex would you prefer? This is a good one to use as a discussion piece with your partner. Performative-Based Sex   Pleasure-Based Sex […]

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“Everything About Toys” on Girl Code by Ladies First

“Everything About Toys” on Girl Code by Ladies First

Posted On: April 27, 2021

I was on this podcast Girl Code by the Ladies First channel. We talked about sex toys and more! Listen below 🙂 Helping couples and singles boost confidence and provide resources towards achieving a healthy sexual lifestyle? In collaboration with Horny.sg, we have invited a sexologist, Dr Martha over to discuss everything about sexual health […]

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Dimensions of the “Good-Enough Sex” Model

Dimensions of the “Good-Enough Sex” Model

Posted On: April 27, 2021

What is good enough sex? The below include the dimensions of the “Good Enough Sex” model. What do you think of it? Agree/ disagree? What might be in your “Better than Enough” sex? Sex is a positive dimension in life, an invaluable part of your individual and couple comfort, intimacy, desire, pleasure, eroticism, and satisfaction. […]

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69 Reasons You Should Use a Vibrator

69 Reasons You Should Use a Vibrator

Posted On: April 20, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Sex toys have been commonplace since Victorian times. Initially, they were sold as massagers to treat hysterical people with vagina, but in the 90s, they became acceptable as pleasure providers during the sex but still rarely purchased. However, these days, sex toys have entered the mainstream due […]

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Letter to My Mother @drmarthalee

Letter to My Mother @drmarthalee

Posted On: April 16, 2021

I am so proud to be included in this anthology Letter to My Mother. You can now pre-order Letter to My Mother, the anthology of moving letters: https://www.goguru.com.sg/letter-to-my-mother-pre-order It has received advance praise from poet Yeow Kai Chai Secretmanta Ray: “How and what would you write to someone who gave birth to you? It’s the […]

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