Blog posts by Eros Coaching
Posted On: May 7, 2025
Many women have never explored self-pleasure or fully understood their sexual needs. The idea of touching yourself can feel unfamiliar, daunting, or wrapped in layers of “shouldn’t” and “couldn’t.” You might worry about hygiene, wonder if your nails are too long, or simply fear hurting yourself. Perhaps you’ve felt those sexual urges but quickly pushed […]
Posted On: May 1, 2025
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I never imagined I’d continue Masturbation Month dismantling harmful myths about self-touch. Yet here we are—because clients arrive at my clinic hollow-eyed, whispering, “I couldn’t last 30 days. Does this make me weak?” Their shame isn’t organic; it’s manufactured by NoFap’s pseudoscientific rhetoric. It’s time we replace fear […]
Posted On: April 26, 2025
Are you a leader striving to find the balance between high performance and self-care? In this virtual one-hour talk, we will explore the intersection of mindfulness and leadership, showing how it’s possible to lead effectively while protecting your mental health. Learn how being a mindful leader helps you manage stress, increase focus, and make decisions […]
Posted On: April 26, 2025
Do you often feel overwhelmed by the pressures of work or personal life? In this virtual one-hour talk, we will introduce you to proven stress-management techniques that help you stay calm and composed when stress arises. By understanding the biological and psychological mechanisms behind stress, you’ll gain insight into how to take control of your […]
Posted On: April 25, 2025
A rebound relationship is a romantic connection formed soon after a breakup, often before one or both partners have fully processed their past relationship. Research by Brumbaugh and Fraley (2015) found that about 33% of people start dating within the first month after a breakup, with those who initiated the split more likely to move […]
Posted On: April 5, 2025
Date: 4 April 2025 This is what harassment looks like. While I’ve been in the hospital since 3 April 2025, I received a flood of unsolicited, sexually explicit emails from a stranger. I have never contacted him. I never gave consent. He sent graphic messages, two face photos, and his WhatsApp number—despite me never replying. […]
Posted On: April 3, 2025
If we could sit down with our younger selves, we’d have so much to say—words of reassurance, wisdom, and the lessons we had to learn the hard way. We are four Asian women breaking the silence today. From Malaysia to Singapore, from China to the Philippines, our stories weave together experiences of shame, revelation, and […]
Posted On: March 26, 2025
🔴 Content Warning: This article discusses sexual assault and includes references to victim-blaming language that may be distressing. If you’re feeling upset, angry, or overwhelmed—your feelings are valid. Please read at your own pace. Support is available via AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre https://sacc.aware.org.sg or through trauma-informed professionals like myself. You are not alone. TL;DR: […]
Posted On: March 23, 2025
When I founded Eros Coaching in 2009, the name wasn’t a casual choice—it was a declaration of purpose. “Eros” is a Greek word that means “passionate desire” or “sexual desire,” aligning perfectly with my counseling practice’s focus on relationships and sexuality in Singapore. The Many Dimensions of Eros In Greek mythology, Eros is the god […]
Posted On: March 20, 2025
People think I am all about sex and sexuality. That’s one way of putting it. Even ChatGPT, with memory on and having “been with me” for over a year, thinks this way. To read my exchange with ChatGPT, join as my Patreon member here! My Mission: I am here to help people be all that […]
Posted On: March 14, 2025
I finished reading “High Conflict” by Amanda Ripley in one sitting—on and off over 12 hours—because I just couldn’t put it down. I took notes, highlighted passages, and kept thinking, “Yes, this is exactly what I see in my practice!” As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist in Singapore, I often work with clients who […]
Posted On: March 6, 2025
Breaking the Silence on Sexual Self-Care This International Women’s Day, March 8, we are amplifying a conversation that has been kept in the shadows for too long—self-care as a sexual being. Women across Asia have long been taught to prioritize others, often neglecting their own needs for pleasure, rest, and intimacy. But true self-care isn’t […]
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