Blog posts by Eros Coaching
Posted On: February 25, 2026
Vaginismus and Intimacy: Restoring Connection ❤️🤝 It’s not just about sex; it’s about emotional connection. 💖 Work with your partner on building intimacy beyond penetrative sex. 🌹💑 Use non-sexual touch (hugging, holding hands, cuddling) to build trust. 🤗💫 Remember, intimacy is about feeling safe and loved, not just about performance. 💖🛌 About Dr. Martha Tara […]
Posted On: February 20, 2026
What’s Behind Delayed Ejaculation? Understanding the Causes ⏳💭 DE can be caused by emotional factors like stress and anxiety. 💔🧠 Medications, health conditions, or relationship issues may contribute. 💊❤️ Open communication with your partner is key to overcoming DE. 🗣️💞 Seek professional advice to address the underlying causes. 🧑⚕️💡 You’re Not Alone —We’ve Got You […]
Posted On: February 10, 2026
Over the years, I’ve heard countless clients share how much a kiss matters. For some, it’s the spark that draws them closer. For others, it’s a source of worry: Am I doing it right? Do they like it? The truth is, kissing isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence, sensitivity, and care. A kiss is one […]
Posted On: February 8, 2026
Sexual violence doesn’t only affect the body. It can quietly change how safe you feel inside yourself, how your nervous system responds, and how intimacy, touch, and closeness are experienced — sometimes years later, even when life looks “fine” on the outside. This is not therapy.It is not a healing session.It is education — offered […]
Posted On: February 7, 2026
The Truth About Dating That No One Tells You Dating can feel like an unspoken game where everyone else seems to know the rules—except you. The social cues, the timing of texts, the expectations around who pays… it can all be overwhelming when you’re just trying to make a real connection. Here’s the truth: dating […]
Posted On: February 1, 2026
Dating can be hard, especially when you’ve been with your partner for a while and you’re running out of ideas for fun activities. It’s easy to fall into the same old routine of dinner and a movie, but there are so many other creative date ideas out there that can help keep your relationship fresh […]
Posted On: January 20, 2026
Sex positivity is often described as an openness and comfort with one’s own sexuality and that of others. However, to me, it signifies much more than mere acceptance. It is about fostering a comprehensive understanding of sexual health, pleasure, and well-being. What Does Being Sex Positive Mean? To be sex positive involves: Cultivating a Positive […]
Posted On: January 15, 2026
How I Help People Build Stronger Relationships and Navigate Sexuality Challenges I am Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, specializing in helping couples and individuals navigate intimacy, communication, and sexual wellness. I work with people facing challenges in their relationships and sex lives, including those dealing with vaginismus, low desire, mismatched […]
Posted On: January 8, 2026
Ever noticed how months vanish but certain nights stretch forever? Time speeds up not because life is busy, but because life becomes predictable. When every morning looks like the last, your brain stops recording distinct memories and the days blur together (Wittmann, 2013). This compression is actually a form of trance—not dissociation as pathology, just […]
Posted On: January 5, 2026
You know the feeling. The text that finally arrives after hours of silence. The sudden warmth after distance. That ache in your chest when someone who was just here suddenly isn’t—and you can’t stop checking your phone, wondering what shifted. Your body floods with something urgent, alive, important. And you mistake it for connection. With […]
Posted On: January 1, 2026
We spend so much time learning to say “no”—and for good reason. Boundaries matter. Protecting our time, energy, and well-being is essential. For many women, especially Asian women, assertiveness training is transformative work, undoing years of being taught to accommodate, to please, to stay quiet. But there’s another side to this work that’s rarely discussed: […]
Posted On: December 30, 2025
I Asked ChatGPT: The Saddest Questions Couples Ask in the Darkness of the Night When love turns quiet, these are the thoughts that echo loudest. Question 1: Why does it feel like I’m sleeping next to a stranger? Answer 1: The silence between us is heavier than words. Question 2: Do they still love me, […]
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