A Story on Being Who I Want for My Clients

A Story on Being Who I Want for My Clients

Posted On: January 2, 2020

Many years ago, a client who overcame Vaginismus (inability to have vaginal penetration) came back with her husband to thank me for my work with them and complete our last session. She said this and I would never forgot it: Her: “Martha.. it wasn’t what you taught us that mattered… Honestly, we could have learned […]

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Are You Fearlessly Living or Just Existing?

Are You Fearlessly Living or Just Existing?

Posted On: December 29, 2019

In present time, I would look at the beautiful orchids in my office and feel sad knowing they will die one day soon. Why do they have to die? Do they know they are going to die? If they knew, would they bother to bloom so brightly and as radiantly as they do? One might […]

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On Receiving Unsolicited Advice

On Receiving Unsolicited Advice

Posted On: December 27, 2019

Won’t it irritate you? This is what I am the subject of one or more of these scenarios regularly actually. This is why I avoid networking events. They exhaust me. If I did attend social events, I stay away from talking about work. Person: “You should do online programs!” Me: “I have six.” Person: “You […]

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On Death and Dying

On Death and Dying

Posted On: December 26, 2019

From the time I could speak, I remember asking my mom why I was born; where I was before I was born; and what I was born to do. I remember trying to ask her many times the meaning and purpose of life – without ever getting any answers that satisfied me. I didn’t know […]

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Books I Read in 2019

Books I Read in 2019

Posted On: December 23, 2019

I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal) 110 in 2016, (Didn’t reach goal) 80 in 2017, (Didn’t reach goal) […]

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Milestones for 2019

Milestones for 2019

Posted On: December 21, 2019

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. In 2019, I ran […]

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Guard Your Energy

Guard Your Energy

Posted On: December 21, 2019

Recalling from memory: Person to a group of us: “How is the market nowadays?” Group including myself: (can sense the negativity in his tone not words, and kept quiet) Same person: “Market has been quiet nowadays…” Me: (wanting to laugh inside as I could see it coming..) Same person: (Big sigh) Me: (noticing how everybody […]

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If Visiting Me from Overseas

If Visiting Me from Overseas

Posted On: December 17, 2019

Since I have clients who visit me from neighbouring countries (Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Philippines, Pakistan and beyond), I decided to put together this post of the different housing options while seeing me in person in Singapore. My office is in Chinatown and there are actually many options for people of different budgets. Just to be […]

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The Evolution of Volunteer Work

The Evolution of Volunteer Work

Posted On: December 13, 2019

There were many times in my life when I didn’t know what I wanted to do with myself – but I did know that helping people gave me the most joy. Volunteer dynamics/ evolution (in my opinion): Can do it – At first, I volunteered because I finally could (I was in a toxic relationship […]

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Recap: Love, Sex & Spirit

Recap: Love, Sex & Spirit

Posted On: December 8, 2019

These are some pictures from the event Love, Sex & Spirit I conducted alongside my friends Luke Elijah Lim and Lionel on Fri 6 Dec 2019. Event details here. We are discussing doing another similar one for Fri 13 Feb 2020 so stay tuned by subscribing to my newsletter if you are not already on […]

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How to Get Over “Why me?” and “How come?”

How to Get Over “Why me?” and “How come?”

Posted On: December 7, 2019

Do you notice your “Why” or “How come” questions? Such as… Why this happening? Why is this happening again? Why is this happening to me? Why does this happen? Why does this happen to me? Why does this keep happening? Why don’t I see this happening to others? Why don’t I hear this happening to […]

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Book Review: The Awakened Woman by Dr. Tererai Trent

Book Review: The Awakened Woman by Dr. Tererai Trent

Posted On: December 2, 2019

It took me a while to finish reading this book because carrying it around for weeks doesn’t mean a book gets read – you actually need to read it, and I finally did. It took me a while because I really wanted to absorb not just the words, but the essence of who Dr Tererai […]

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