Dear Fellow Woman,
Do you feel that for some reason you cannot feel satisfaction but instead only pain and fear when you try to have sex? Have you tried to figure out the issue only to come up empty time and again?
First of all, let’s evaluate your symptoms…
If you answer yes to more than one of the questions above, you need help!
Vaginismus is vaginal tightness and it makes penetration difficult or impossible. The roots of this problem are primarily psychological and the main emotion that causes this type of condition is fear. Here are some of the common misconceptions:
Sex is overrated nowadays and maybe you find it difficult to tell someone about the pain you feel inside during intercourse. Finding a good sexologist in your area might be difficult and you cannot rely on acquaintances to share this type of intimacies.
What you need is an online coaching program! Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee has founded Eros Coaching company with the purpose to help women in problems similar to yours. She has been in practice for four years and during this time she has worked with more than 200 couples who have vaginismus. Martha has a Ph.D in Human Sexuality from Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, United States and numerous trainings in domains such as coaching, sex coaching, sex therapy and practical counseling.
After years of ongoing research and client experience, she created a 28-day vaginismus online coaching program called SEX POSSIBLE that is aimed towards couples and singles so as to be able to help women who are not located in Singapore.
When I was doing my training towards becoming a sexologist in US and I first learned about this condition called vaginismus, it really broke my heart because I could not imagine women who cannot have penetrative sex because I enjoy sex. I think sex is wonderful and great. And so, when I heard about it, it really moved me and probably because of that, it’s no coincidence that I started drawing a lot of women with this condition when I started my practice.
So during these four years, I have worked with more than a hundred and fifty women, their partner included, so about 150 couples more than that, who have come to me with this condition. And through my experience working with them, I become more and more confident. I have developed my own techniques that are very, very unique which I had not been able to find in any book.
And this is why I’ve decided to come up with this video series because it is very difficult to show them, people who are not face to face with me. I have had inquiries from US, from Canada, from Pakistan, from Bangladesh, from Indonesia, from Malaysia, from Singapore.
The structure of the lecture is easy to follow and made in such way that you can fully understand the concepts and the practice techniques that will help you overcome vaginismus.
Sex CAN be an enjoyable experience!
All you have to do is to acknowledge your problem and take action!
* Private coaching sessions are customised and will further address your questions and challenges around your sexual issue. They can be conducted via Skype. For more about what coaching entails, please visit http://www.eroscoaching.com/faq/.
Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). She holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality as well as certificates in practical counselling, life coaching and sex therapy. She is available to provide sexuality and relationship coaching for individuals and couples, conduct sexual education workshops and speak at public events in Asia and beyond. For more, visit www.ErosCoaching.com.
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