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Date(s) - 13/02/2026
7:30 pm - 10:00 pm
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This Valentine’s, SAPS (South Asian Pride Singapore) is turning the lights down and the heat up.
We’re introducing SAPS After-Dark: Valentine’s 2026, a first-of-its-kind, R21 experience created for those ready to explore desire, intimacy, and connection without pretending, posturing, or playing it safe.
After-Dark is not about polite dates or surface-level romance. It’s about chemistry, curiosity, and the space to get honest about what you want, what you enjoy, and how you connect, on your own terms. Expect a room charged with openness, consent, and After-Dark energy that builds as the night unfolds.
What the night entails:
- Matters of the Heart by New Leaf Counselling:
A slow, intentional warm-up to tune into your turn-ons, boundaries, and emotional safety. Get clear on what you want, where your lines are, and how to stay grounded before things start to simmer. - Love, Lust and Desire by Dr Martha Tara Lee (Eros Coaching):
Pleasure, stripped of shame. Expect candid, sex-positive conversations that unpack desire, curiosity, communication, toys, and the cultural baggage we’ve all been taught to carry, served with confidence, humour, and heat. - Consent is Sexy by AFA (Action for AIDS Singapore):
Consent, care, and safer sex, without killing the mood. Straight talk on asking, checking in, pulling back, and looking out for each other, because good communication and good information make everything better.
There’ll be good food, strong pours, close conversations, and moments that linger longer than planned. Come solo, come partnered, or come open and come ready for an After-Dark experience that’s bold, affirming, and unapologetically queer, and all for only $25.
Register now to save a seat at the table: https://forms.gle/
If you’ve been waiting for a Valentine’s night that feels grown, grounded, and a little dangerous in the best way, this is it.
P.S. Am not organiser of this event but one of speakers. Please register in the form above. 🙂
