When I have heard people discussing which lubricants they use, usually what they mention using are products commonly available at convenience stores, such as Watsons. However, I have also heard them complaining in the same breath that the lubricant dries up too quickly. All lubricants are not made equally. Don’t let bad experiences with lube stop you from seeking out other brands. It’s just most likely that the best examples aren’t usually found in convenience stores.

I would recommend ladies’ lubricants from the ‘Pink’ family of intimate lubricants because they are designed with women in mind and, depending on what you are looking for, there is something that suits every discerning lady.

Pink Water is a water-based lubricant designed with the specific needs of women in mind. Pink Water is glycerine-free and contains no pigment, so it does not stain fabrics. Fortified with Aloe Vera, it is gentle on your skin and all sensitive areas.

This is what I would recommend for ladies who are buying for the first time and want a one-size-fits-all product and a definite positive experience. Glycerine is what may promote or exacerbate vaginal yeast infections in persons who are susceptible.

Hot Pink is a patented, exothermic lubricant that will heat up the bedroom or any other place you can dream up. The warming properties incite foreplay and increase sensitivity. Add a little heat to your romance, literally. Patented, non drying formula provides extended pleasure. Glycerine-free for health benefits.

This is what I would recommend for ladies who want something a little more unique than the ordinary lubricant, and a bit of ‘heat’ between their legs, without the burn. Hint: Breathing or blowing can increase the effect. Go ooh-la-la and enjoy!

Pink Silicone was designed especially for women and their intimate needs. Fortified with Vitamin E and Aloe Vera, Pink Silicone provides restorative and healing properties while providing moisture and lubrication for the most sensitive of areas.

This is what I would recommend to ladies who want a lubricant that lasts for a longer time than a water-based one. Silicone-based lubricants are not absorbed by the skin so they can remain useful for longer. Also, if you get sore easily, the Aloe Vera and Vitamin E will heal and moisturise you. Note, however, that silicone can dissolve the surface of your silicon-based sex toys, making them sticky and causing them to slowly disintegrate.

Pink Unity is a revolutionary, hybrid silicone lubricant that has been merged with water to create a lubricant that easily washes out of materials and does not stain your bedsheets. What this means is that a bit lasts a long time – far longer than a water-based lube would – and it has the silky feel that women love.

I would recommend Pink Unity for ladies who want a silkier feel than Pink Silicone, as water is one the ingredients.

For the best results, make sure to experiment with the different kinds of lube to find which one is best for you and your partner. Your preference can change with time. The important thing is to try, communicate and above all, enjoy.

Dr. Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events. For more, visit www.eroscoaching.com or email drmarthalee@eroscoaching.com.

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