Posted On: December 19, 2025
I started keeping these annual milestones as a personal record because so much happens in a year that it all blurs together. This list is primarily for me — a way to remember what I did, where my energy went, and what I showed up for. All this helps ground myself in reality when I […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
Content warning: This article discusses child sexual abuse and institutional betrayal. When I read about the three preschool managers who covered up the sexual abuse of toddlers, I felt physically sick. And I’ve been trying to understand how we got here. What Happened The facts are straightforward but horrifying. In 2023, a 61-year-old preschool cook […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
A French civil servant allegedly drugged over 240 women during job interviews over nine years, forcing them into situations where they had to urinate in public (Chrisafis, 2025). He kept a spreadsheet titled “Experiments” documenting times, reactions, and photographs of their legs. The story is horrifying. But beyond the outrage, there’s something we need to […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
This week, the FDA expanded approval for Addyi (flibanserin) to include postmenopausal women under 65. CEO Cindy Eckert called it “historic” in her interview with TIME. And she’s not wrong about the systemic inequities. Dozens of sexual-health treatments exist for men; women have far fewer FDA-approved options for low desire. That inequity is real. But […]
Posted On: December 16, 2025
My New Words Learned From 2025 A May–December romance – Refers to a relationship with a significant age gap, where one partner is much older and the other much younger. The term reflects the contrast between youthful “May” and mature “December.” Banksying – Slowly withdrawing emotionally from a partner without telling them. By the time […]
Posted On: December 15, 2025
Why dating didn’t fail — the system did 2025 wasn’t the year people stopped wanting connection. It was the year the economic foundations of partnership caught up with reality—and many people quietly opted out. Not through ideology, but through recognizing that traditional pathways no longer made practical sense. Here are the ten structural shifts that […]
Posted On: December 15, 2025
What changed — and why it actually matters For years, sexology lived in an uncomfortable no-man’s land—too medical for psychology, too personal for medicine, too taboo for routine healthcare. In 2025, that started to shift. Not through louder sex-positive messaging or viral conversations, but through guidelines, approvals, and implementation frameworks that quietly moved sexual health […]
Posted On: December 13, 2025
Every year-end, people ask the same questions. “What did I achieve?” “What are my goals?” “What’s my word for next year?” I’m not against any of that. But in my work, I see a more honest reality: Many people don’t need more motivation. They need a safer way to tell the truth about what’s been […]
Posted On: December 10, 2025
Vaginismus isn’t just physical — it’s an emotional rollercoaster too. 😔😤😢💔 From confusion to courage, fear to freedom — you’re not alone. 🤝💪✨ Swipe to explore the emotional journey — and how healing is possible. ❤️🩹 The Emotional Journey of Vaginismus Recovery While vaginismus is a physical condition, the emotional impact is just as significant. […]
Posted On: December 1, 2025
Sexual wellness directly affects mental health and overall well-being in ways many of us fail to recognize. We often compartmentalize these aspects of our lives, but our intimate experiences profoundly shape our self-worth, relationships, and stress levels. True sexual empowerment transcends technique—it encompasses self-awareness, communication, and liberation from shame. It extends beyond libido or performance […]
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