Bedroom Confidence

Unable to attend a live workshop? Prefer to attend online and in the privacy of your home?

I’m pleased to release the recordings from my Bedroom Confidence workshops conducted and released in Dec 2021. You can purchase one or all three of the recordings below:

Under Bedroom Confidence virtual sexuality workshops, we are offering three unique zoom 1.5 hour sessions!

  1. 1. Pleasuring the Penis
  2. 2. Festive Fellatio
  3. 3. Viva la Vulva

This series of virtual workshops will be open to all genders.

1. Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis

Text says Bedroom Confidence Pleasuring the Penis with Dr Martha holding Penis plush toysPenises come in different sizes, angles, colours, smells and tastes. This workshop is open to all genders and sexual orientations. This includes penis-owners who may benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy, and those who want to pleasure penis owners. Let’s demystify this often misunderstood part of sexual anatomy, and get all your questions answered.

‘Pleasuring the Penis’ is based on the tantric penis massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer who created the Sexological Bodywork certification. As a trained sexological bodyworker, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee has been teaching these techniques for the past 10 years. As a facilitator she has a direct, straight-talking, and witty facilitation style. Prepare for sometimes irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun!

Dr Martha will cover the following topics: penile anatomy, warming up and playing with the cock with your hands, penis massage techniques, how to experiment with speed / pressure / rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more.

These are the same techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to a physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork.

Read full details with testimonials here!

US$80 for Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis

US$150 for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

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Express your Passion and Love in a new way!

Surprise your Partner – in a good way!

Much more then simply a series of ‘tricks’, we’ll be exploring how to have confidence to be playful and creative with pleasuring the penis in this virtual workshop.

What is arising in you as the pleasurer? What is your relationship with your partner during fellatio? How do you engage in a way that is deeply pleasurable for you and the receiver?

This virtual workshop combines philosophy and practice. You’ll learn anatomy, techniques, deep throat, and gagging, as well as how to experiment with heat, pressure and moisture.

You will learn:

  • Names to the different parts of the male anatomy
  • More than 20 blow job techniques
  • What to do with deep throat and gagging
  • How to experiment with heat, pressure and moisture

Read full details with testimonials here!

US$80 for Bedroom Confidence: Festive FellatioUS$150 for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

Text says Bedroom Confidence Viva la Vulva with Dr Martha holding vulva plush toy3. Bedroom Confidence: Viva la Vulva

In this workshop, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will help you to understand the vulva and the vagina better, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. It will help you to feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs or that of your partner.

You will learn:

  • 1. Sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
  • 2. Erotic massage techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina, and the G spot
  • 3. Types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • 4. The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • 5. How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm


The session will be held using sex toys, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion.

Read full details with testimonials here.

US$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Viva la Vulva

US$150 for all three Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

About by Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for; as well as Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.