Pleasuring the Penis (Part 1 of 3 under Bedroom Confidence series!)

Posted On: November 25, 2021

Date(s) - 25/11/2021
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm


Pleasuring the PenisPenises come in different sizes, angles, colours, smells and tastes. This virtual workshop is open to all genders and sexual orientations. This includes penis-owners who may benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy, and those who want to pleasure penis owners. Let’s demystify this often misunderstood part of sexual anatomy, and get all your questions answered.

‘Pleasuring the Penis’ is based on the tantric penis massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer who created the Sexological Bodywork certification. As a trained sexological bodyworker, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee has been teaching these techniques for the past 12 years. As a facilitator she has a direct, straight-talking, and witty facilitation style. Prepare for sometimes irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun!

Dr Martha will cover the following topics: penile anatomy, warming up and playing with the cock with your hands, penis massage techniques, how to experiment with speed / pressure / rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more.

These are the same techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to a physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork.

This series of virtual workshops will be open to all genders. They run 25 November – 27 November 2021  and the recording will be available for 30 days!

You will Learn:

  • Penis anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
  • More than 20 penile massage techniques – frenulum, shaft, testicles etc
  • Types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  • What an energy orgasm is

You might well save yourself years of heartache, confusion, and sexual anxieties due to lack of understanding about sexual functioning. All your emotions, questions, and laughter are welcome!

Core Benefits for Participants:

  • Increased sexual knowledge, confidence, and performance
  • Letting go of the sexual shame around nudity and genital touch
  • Understand the link between genital massage and common sexual challenges penis owners face – for instance, genital massage can increase skills around erection and ejaculation
  • Increased confidence and creativity with penis play / massage

S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis

S$120 for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

Are you interested in attending Bedroom Confidence but unable to afford it? Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching is offering scholarships. 

Email me your questions here!

Please note that no refund will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

What Others Are Saying

“Martha’s workshop is informative, enlightening and most importantly, fun! We had the chance to learn different skills to please our loved ones, to improve our intimate relationship. After the workshop, you may know the male body and its pleasuring system better than your partner! Useful, practical and eye-opening! “ – Echo He, 20 Aug 2019

“This is a good workshop to learn different and creative techniques because it is very hard to find sexual education in Asia and Singapore. Most of the time we just know pieces of information and guess by ourselves.” – Frederick, Aug 2017

“11 pages of techniques on the penis. So Many things to try with my girl!” – Alwin, Aug 2017

“Martha is one of the world’s renowned sexologist with a practical approach to the actual techniques. She is adept in bringing these techniques in a way that is reachable to the audience. Great learning experience from the industry’s leading sexologist and sex techniques scholar.” – Shiva, March 2017

“Been subtly trying some of the creative sexy techniques you taught. Hubby didn’t ask about it but it definitely worked! I had the best sex of my life last night. Thank you!! Highly recommending this course to all my married friends!! (But secretly, of course).” – Anonymous, 21 Dec 2015

“Just wanted to give you an update my ‘progress’. My boyfriend thinks i’m amazing in bed, hahaha. He really loves my blowjobs, and i’ve incorporate parts of the massage video into a handjob. Let’s just say he’s very satisfied ? Thanks for the skills! It really helped in my confidence ‘cos i was quite green at the whole thing. If you have other interesting courses, do keep me in the loop. Wanna make sure he continues to be surprised and a happy man.” – Anonymous, May 2010

Read more testimonials here, and here.

When/ Where

Date: Thurs 25 November 2021

Time: 7:30 – 9:00p.m. Singapore Time (Latecomers will be locked out of the session. Recording available for 30 days for registered attendees)


S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis

S$120 for all three Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

Venue:  Zoom link will be provided

S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis

S$120 for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva

Email me your questions here!

Please note that no refund will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

More questions?

  1. Who are these workshops for? – For those wish to acquire more sexual skills and confidence in a safe virtual space.
  2. Can I attend this by myself? – Absolutely! You also have the option to attend with a friend! It’s also fun to learn together!
  3. Can my partner attend this with me? – Yes! We are pro choice. One ticket per person please!
  4. But… I’m shy! – Don’t worry. You will never be forced to do or say anything during the virtual workshop. Many participants in the past have chosen to just sit and learn without saying a word. We respect individual choice.
  5. What about confidentiality? – You can choose to keep your video and audio off for the entire duration. You can private message the presenter Dr Martha so your name will not be mentioned. You can also “rename” yourself on Zoom. If you speak during the workshop, your voice will however be recorded. We will review all this at the start of the workshop.
  6. Will there be nudity? – No, we will be using sexual aids i.e. carrot or toy.
  7. Will there be touch? – No.
  8. Ratio of discussion to experiential? – About 50/50 percent.
  9. What should I bring? – A phallic object for the Pleasuring the Penis workshop; a carrot (or similar) for the Fellatio workshop; a cut-out of the vulva (will be sent) for the Viva la Vulva workshop.
  10. What should I wear? – Whatever you like but no nudity is allowed.
  11. What is your refund policy? – Please note that no refunds are possible once you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed.
  12. I am a media member. Can I attend? – We respect the privacy and confidentiality of our participants and will never allow any interview or photography. Do check out our media policy.
  13. Why are you locking latecomers out? – To provide the best workshop experience, it is unfair to those who show up on time to have the presenter keep repeating what had already been covered. Please be on time, and attend the entire workshop out of respect to other participants.

About by Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for; as well as Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.


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