Your Finger was up in the Air

Posted On: April 9, 2010

You get the some of the sex negative news from middle East. A British couple is appealing a jail sentence that they received for sharing a passionate kiss in a Dubai restaurant. Another British couple was sentenced to three months in jail in 2008 for having sex on a Dubai beach. Now an alleged obscene […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman I

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life. Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens to her needs and desires. Who […]

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Quotable Quotes: Sex and Sexuality

Posted On: April 2, 2010

You can learn more about healthy sexuality through discovering what other therapists, writers, and sexual health advocates have said about it. Healthy Sex Quotations I found from here: Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstacy. –Anais Nin Nothing is sexier than the naked mind–nothing more seductive than the inventive imagination. […]

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Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Posted On: March 21, 2010

The Erotic Mind: Unlock the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin In this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice, San Francisco psychotherapist Morin developed an ‘erotic equation’ by drawing on the discussions of 351 respondents, straight and gay. This equation is: Attraction plus obstacles leads to excitement. He also […]

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Singapore: What Female Anatomy? It’s a grey area

Posted On: March 20, 2010

A survey done by feminine care products manufacturer Kotex revealed that a staggering six out of 10 Singaporean women polled are clueless about the number of openings they have down south. The correct answer: three – the urethra, the vaginal canal and the anus. The Kotex BodyLife IQ Study involved 1,800 women in Singapore, the […]

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Male Facts

Posted On: March 9, 2010

According to Dr Chia Sing Joo in his book ‘Male Urological Problems: The Essential Guide For Every Man & Couple’, these are the facts about Singaporean males: 1. Usual age to have first erection: Usually it’s as early as 11 years old with the majority at 13 years old. This is mainly due to local […]

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Product Review: LoveHoney Sqweel

Product Review: LoveHoney Sqweel

Posted On: March 3, 2010

I partner with U4Ria – a leading sex shop in Singapore – and recommend my clients to them. I chose to work with U4Ria because I found their prices more reasonable than many of the other shops I went to, are professional and friendly. There is always one female staff there to attend to ladies. […]

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UK: Quarter of Over-35 Women ‘never have sex’

Posted On: February 26, 2010

A total of 28% of women said they never make love, with the figure being highest in Scotland (38%) and lowest in the Midlands (32%). Among those having sex, women without children said they had more orgasms, with 41% saying they orgasm most of the time. The figure dropped to 12% of women with one […]

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Love at the Supermarket?

Posted On: February 14, 2010

Chinese singles looking for love this Valentine’s day is getting support from a Beijing supermarket. The “I’m Looking For You” market opened in November 2009, for the China’s unofficial “Singles Day” which is marked on the 11th of that month. Since then, the supermarket has attracted more than 1,000 clients and successfully matched more than […]

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Would you settle for Mr Good Enough?

Posted On: February 13, 2010

In Lori Gottlieb’s new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough, she says she hesitated before dating she hesitated before dating someone because he had the name of a “nerdy sidekick.” There are two views: for and against settling for Mr Good Enough. Single women often declare they’d “rather be alone” […]

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Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Posted On: February 12, 2010

During intercourse, it is the outer third of the vagina that is most stimulated. Some women are able to orgasm through this vaginal penetration. That is, vaginal orgasm — without clitoral stimulation. However research has shown that (Shere Hite’s 1976 survey of 3000 women) only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse. The clitoris, […]

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In Search of the ‘Perfect’ Vulva

Posted On: February 10, 2010

Vulvoplasty: This is cosmetic surgery performed on the outside genital structures include removal of unwanted fat from different parts of the vulva, such as in the pubic area, around the outer lips (vulva lipoplasty). This documentary video is long but worth watching. I liked the different words used to refer to vulva – from fanny, […]

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