Posted On: December 19, 2025
Content warning: This article discusses child sexual abuse and institutional betrayal. When I read about the three preschool managers who covered up the sexual abuse of toddlers, I felt physically sick. And I’ve been trying to understand how we got here. What Happened The facts are straightforward but horrifying. In 2023, a 61-year-old preschool cook […]
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Posted On: December 19, 2025
A French civil servant allegedly drugged over 240 women during job interviews over nine years, forcing them into situations where they had to urinate in public (Chrisafis, 2025). He kept a spreadsheet titled “Experiments” documenting times, reactions, and photographs of their legs. The story is horrifying. But beyond the outrage, there’s something we need to […]
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Posted On: December 19, 2025
This week, the FDA expanded approval for Addyi (flibanserin) to include postmenopausal women under 65. CEO Cindy Eckert called it “historic” in her interview with TIME. And she’s not wrong about the systemic inequities. Dozens of sexual-health treatments exist for men; women have far fewer FDA-approved options for low desire. That inequity is real. But […]
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Posted On: December 16, 2025
My New Words Learned From 2025 A May–December romance – Refers to a relationship with a significant age gap, where one partner is much older and the other much younger. The term reflects the contrast between youthful “May” and mature “December.” Banksying – Slowly withdrawing emotionally from a partner without telling them. By the time […]
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Posted On: December 15, 2025
Why dating didn’t fail — the system did 2025 wasn’t the year people stopped wanting connection. It was the year the economic foundations of partnership caught up with reality—and many people quietly opted out. Not through ideology, but through recognizing that traditional pathways no longer made practical sense. Here are the ten structural shifts that […]
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Posted On: December 15, 2025
What changed — and why it actually matters For years, sexology lived in an uncomfortable no-man’s land—too medical for psychology, too personal for medicine, too taboo for routine healthcare. In 2025, that started to shift. Not through louder sex-positive messaging or viral conversations, but through guidelines, approvals, and implementation frameworks that quietly moved sexual health […]
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Posted On: December 10, 2025
Vaginismus isn’t just physical — it’s an emotional rollercoaster too. 😔😤😢💔 From confusion to courage, fear to freedom — you’re not alone. 🤝💪✨ Swipe to explore the emotional journey — and how healing is possible. ❤️🩹 The Emotional Journey of Vaginismus Recovery While vaginismus is a physical condition, the emotional impact is just as significant. […]
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Posted On: December 1, 2025
Sexual wellness directly affects mental health and overall well-being in ways many of us fail to recognize. We often compartmentalize these aspects of our lives, but our intimate experiences profoundly shape our self-worth, relationships, and stress levels. True sexual empowerment transcends technique—it encompasses self-awareness, communication, and liberation from shame. It extends beyond libido or performance […]
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Posted On: November 22, 2025
Boys today are growing up in a digital jungle — a noisy, unfiltered world shaping how they see themselves, women, and relationships. In my practice, I hear from parents who feel powerless against the confident, persuasive voices of online influencers preaching dominance, control, and emotional detachment. This live virtual talk helps you take that power […]
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Posted On: November 20, 2025
Vaginal pain and dryness—especially around perimenopause and menopause—are common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. Your comfort matters. The fastest wins usually come from a two-part plan: (1) daily moisture to nourish the tissue and (2) the right lubricant and tools to make touch and sex comfortable again. Below are my go-to, body-safe picks […]
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Posted On: November 15, 2025
Selecting the perfect gift for your significant other can be both delightful and challenging, especially when considering their birth month and astrological sign. For those in Singapore seeking Asian-owned brands offering exquisite gifts such as wine, jewelry, candles, and body care products, here’s a curated list tailored to each zodiac sign. Each recommendation includes one […]
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Posted On: November 5, 2025
What is Vaginismus? This is the most common sexuality concern that clients come to Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching since 2009. Here are some treatments that work. Vaginismus Treatment Approaches that Work 1. Comprehensive Assessment: Identifying physical, emotional, and relational factors contributing to vaginismus. 2. Pelvic Floor Physical […]
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