The Art and Science of Pompoir

Posted On: February 23, 2021

Date(s) - 23/02/2021 - 16/03/2021
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm


The Art and Science of PompoirHave you heard of the Singapore Grip? Read article/ watch video here.
It involves a sexual technique in which the woman uses her vaginal muscles to stimulate the man’s penis.
In this 4-part no nudity virtual workshop series, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will be teaching the basis of how you can begin to and work towards mastering doing the Singapore Grip. This will be a safe space we are co-creating where you can also ask questions around love, sex, dating and relationship.
All questions, tears and emotions and welcomed. This session is however only open to vagina owners.
Session 1: What is Pompoir? Basics of Pompoir
Session 2: More than the Basics: Advance Pompoir Techniques
Session 3: Pompoiring as a way of life
Session 4: Ecstasy and Beyond with Your Partner
On confidentiality – Through using zoom, you can always choose to “change name”; turn video on/ off and/ or mute yourself. You can also private message the presenter your questions and are welcomed to participate to the level you feel comfortable with.
Dates: Tues 23 Feb,2, 9, 16 Mar 2021
Time: 7:30 – 9p.m. Singapore time GMT 8+
Platform: Zoom
Fee: S$100 for the series (Recording only available to registered participants)


“Pompei workshop with Dr. Martha Lee (meeting you in general actually haha) is one of the highlights of my 2020. At age 32, I have not explored that much about the pelvic floor area—its potential and the wonders it can do. The course is nicely paced in a friendly and nurturing environment. It was nice to learn and explore it in a group of ladies with varying intentions and experiences—exchanging notes, feedbacks, and tips. The workshop did not just get me acquainted with the muscles down there but also helped me to get to know more of myself overall.” – K 33, Philippines

“Going into the workshop, I already know what Kegels was. I thought it was just squeezing the pelvic muscles and that was it. Boy, was I wrong! Getting into it, I didn’t know that there is more to kegels than just that. Being in the workshops that Martha held made me realize that there are different aspects of kegels that I didn’t know. We were taught how to be aware of our body more, squeezing the muscles not just for the sake of squeezing but to acknowledge the different parts that we are engaging. Who knew that there are so many muscles involved?! This made me aware of my body and how I can activate different parts of me I was never conscious about.

Martha provided an extensive view of what Kegels is, how it benefits me and the different exercises I can incorporate in my daily life (that I can do for a few minutes a day). How easy is that? She made sure everyone is comfortable all throughout. Thank you, Martha, for teaching such a wonderful workshop! I enjoyed it immensely. Now time to practice what I’ve learned! :)” – Danielle

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 10 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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