This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. We are inundated, on a daily basis, with multiple messages about how our bodies can or should look better from slimming and facials to skin whitening and body hair removal. There is just so much we can be unhappy with when it comes to your bodies. How […]
I was mentioned in Sunday Times, Singapore on Sunday 15 August 2010. The same appeared in The Star on Sunday, 22 Aug 2010. – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – […]
‘Stand by Her: A Breast Cancer Guide for Men’ is a book by one brave man for other men who are witnessing their loved one fighting breast cancer and how to support them. These men can be their husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, friends, and coworkers. Written by John Anderson who has helped his mother, wife, […]
More and more women are paying doctors to chop off their labias. Labiaplasty is a cosmetic surgery that removes or shortens the labia, the inner lips of the vulva. Self Serve Toys (www.selfservetoys.com) co-owners Matie and Molly, along with Sex Educator, Alee want you to know your vulva is beautiful just the way it is. […]
I am a verified member of Good Therapy. These are four pieces which were published. They have also published on Fabulous Tan’s Facebook group here. Squeeze, Hold, Release Your Way to Sexual Health – I teach my clients how to do Kegel exercises all the time. Read more about them here. Think Your Way to […]
Killing Us Softly 3 Advertising’s Image of Women A lot of you may not know that I was a media student, and professional communicator before I became a sexologist. Hence, in my blog here, you will find me posting videos on how the media distorts reality, and objectifies women. I do so because I believe […]
This article first appeared on The Online Citizen where I am a contributor. I didn’t know I had a vulva until I went to sex school. Don’t get me wrong. Of course, I do have a vulva (pronounced as ‘vuhl-vah’) and a vagina (pronounced ‘vha-gine-a’). I just didn’t know what they were called. I couldn’t […]
I am grateful to a brave workshop participant Elaine Lau, 32 who attended my workshop called ‘Sexual Self Discovery’ and came forward with her story. She did so because she wanted to help encourage women to embrace their sexuality and be comfortable with their bodies. It was published in this month’s issue of Simply Her. […]
A unique, beautiful and sensitive book revealing women’s most intimate part in the form of delicate art. Intimate Portraits of real women, whose photographs were turned into detailed color-pencil drawings. The book comprises 49 drawings, explanations of the titles, information about how other, often ancient cultures have regarded the Yoni (Vulva) as a sacred manifestation […]
Vulvoplasty: This is cosmetic surgery performed on the outside genital structures include removal of unwanted fat from different parts of the vulva, such as in the pubic area, around the outer lips (vulva lipoplasty). This documentary video is long but worth watching. I liked the different words used to refer to vulva – from fanny, […]
This is my first piece for The Online Citizen. It is a personal commentary on how I felt the Facebook Bra Color campaign hurt more than help. And of course you can read for yourself how one reader claimed I was the one who didn’t get the plot.