“After a year of trying, we managed to do so with no pain and it was the best thing ever.”

Posted On: March 25, 2019

I had two sessions with this client with Vaginismus (May and August 2018).  
“When I thought I had lost all hope to consummate, Martha helped me through the darkest times of my life.
Martha gave us a lot of useful advice and techniques that could help to make it easier for us.
After a year of trying, we managed to do so with no pain and it was the best thing ever.

Never in my wildest dreams that I could overcome this. Now we are just so happy together and I can’t thank Martha enough.”

– Vaginismus client, 24 March 2019

I’ve worked with more than 500 couples with unconsummated marriage or Vaginismus for the past 10 years and my approach is pleasure-focused, progressive, and practical. Many of my clients, Vaginismus ones in particular, are amazed how quickly they can overcome their condition. It’s not about how good I am, and more about support them to understand what they need to do and how. I am very grateful that I’ve been able to support them, and I know I can help you if you suspect you have Vaginismus.

WHAT IS VAGINISMUS? – It is a condition that happens when the vagina shuts down making penetration difficult of impossible. In my experience, this usually happens out of fear of pain. It could be the result of painful penetration, pain during childbirth, or sexual trauma. However, most people who have Vaginismus who I have worked with have NEVER had any sexual trauma or abuse. It is psychological and very much linked to the lack of sexuality education growing up.

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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011.  She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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