All I want for Christmas is…

Posted On: December 27, 2011

This article first appeared on It started as a post on my Facebook: “Please comment: What I want for Christmas is…” The answers came fast and furious ranging from: More positive sexuality: “Comprehensive Sex Education Programs in Public Schools!” for Dorian Gomez, Art Director & Resident Curator at Erotic Heritage Museum of Las Vegas. […]

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No go – too drunk to consent

Posted On: December 22, 2011

This article first appeared on During the presentation “Promoting Consent, Preventing Coercion” by AWARE as part of SlutTalk on Saturday 3 December, I shared for the first time, how years ago, a male friend rebuffed me when I suggested we went clubbing. Me: “Hey, we should go clubbing together one of these days!” His […]

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Milestones of 2011

Posted On: December 22, 2011

Day/ Date     What JAN Sat 9, 15 Jan – Conducted With a Bang workshops, a project for Health Promotion Board FEB Tues 1 Feb – Launch of 1st Febulove Campaign It returns 1 Feb 2012. Tues 9, 16, Fri 25 Feb – Completed 1st Manifest the Love of your Life workshop Fri 11 and […]

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Your First Love: Your Parents

Posted On: December 21, 2011

These videos have nothing to do with sex but your relationship with the first people in your life: your parents. We have been so busy growing up, we sometimes forget that they are getting old. When was the last time you expressed your love to your parents? After all these years, it is still hard […]

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Testimonial – Condom Factory Visit

Posted On: December 20, 2011

“This was a very enlightening day trip as I witnessed first-hand the painstaking process that goes behind making a condom – from the creation of those thin rubber sheaths to how they’re finally packaged. You won’t believe the amount of work that goes into ensuring sure your rubbers are safe-to-use! Props to the factory staff […]

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Sexually confused – when no is a game

Posted On: December 13, 2011

This article first appeared on As a follow up to an earlier piece “Sexual Consent: When no is really no“, I would like to discuss when the act of saying no is actually a game women play; or, when no is actually a heavily coded yes. When I first read this piece “No” Means […]

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Sexual consent – When no is really no

Posted On: December 12, 2011

This article first appeared on Recently, there has been a lot of discussion about what sexual consent means. As part of SlutWalk Singapore, a fringe event entitled, “Silence Does Not Mean Consent”, was held on Sunday 27 November. AWARE, Singapore’s only gender-equality advocacy group, released two information leaflets: “What is consent?”, as well as […]

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Video: Anonymous Testing Site

Posted On: December 11, 2011

The Anonymous Testing Site by Action for Aids is manned by friendly volunteers, counselors and coordinators who are all here to help you, not to judge you. Counseling is provided before and after testing. You choose from the two options: the fingertip prick and an oral swab test. No names are required and nothing […]

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Videos: Let’s Be Positive About HIV

Posted On: December 10, 2011

Adrian Pang – Let’s Be Positive About HIV People living with HIV/AIDS often hide their status due to fear of discrimination. Adrian Pang steps forward as a voice for people living with HIV/AIDS. Join Adrian Pang in becoming a voice that cares, and give people living with HIV/AIDS the strength to face their loved ones. […]

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SlutWalk is not about Sluts

Posted On: December 9, 2011

This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. As a sexologist in Singapore, I am interested in all news related to sex and sexuality; I’m also subscribed to the news feeds of fellow sexuality educators around the world. When I first read about the outrage of Canadian activists following the suggestion of Constable Michael […]

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Video: Anniversary

Posted On: December 7, 2011

To commemorate World AIDS Day Full credits goes to Royston Tan and Alfian Sa’at.

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