Milestones for 2019

Posted On: December 21, 2019

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later.

In 2019, I ran different workshops over two different trips in Manila (the Philippines), Bali (Indonesia), Kuala Lumpur (Malaysia) each. I am also happy to have taught in London (UK), Manchester (UK) and Melbourne (Australia).

Day/ Date    What



  • Feb 13 – Launched my 4th book {Un}Inhibited
  • Feb 16 – 17 – Hosted, moderated and organised 1st Festival of Love Conference
  • Feb 16 – Organised 1st Festival of Love conference alongside one-day Fair
  • Feb 16 – One of 4 panelists on Orgasms in 4Play Comedy Show


  • March 15 – Ran Ask Anything, and Art of Fellatio in Manila, Philippines
  • March 17 – Ran 4 workshops (Art of Soul Gazing, Art of Deep Listening, Art of Conscious Connection, Snuggle Party) in Manila, Philippines
  • March 29 – Ran Art of Soul Gazing at Philippines Flow Festival, Philippines
  • March 30 – Ran Art of Deep Listening at Philippines Flow Festival, Philippines
  • March 31 – Ran 4 workshops (Emotional Healing, Body Love, Embracing Your Pleasure, Shadow Work) in Manila Philippines


  • April 12 – Ran Clean & Clear in Singapore
  • April 17 – Spoke at Sex, Fertility & Pregnancy, An Evening Session with Breast Cancer Foundation (BCF)


  • May 4 – Ran Art of Deep Listening in Singapore
  • May 11 – One of the three presenters on Emotional Resilience for Domestic Helpers at TreHuas, Singapore
  • May 15 – 18 – One of the presenters for online telesummit Healing My Sisters 2019
  • May 30 – Presented on Sex Ed for Intellectually Disabled to 20 parents with Disabled People’s Association, Singapore


  • June 3 – Ran one-hour Emotional Resilience workshop, Biliq, Bali, Indonesia
  • June 4 – Ran one-hour Emotional Resilience workshop, Livit, Bali, Indonesia
  • June 5 – Ran one-hour Emotional Resilience workshop, Hustlers Villa Ubud, Bali, Indonesia
  • June 20 – Recorded podcast on Coming Out for Tigerhall
  • June 21 – Ran 1st Rediscovery: My Sexuality, Singapore
  • June 27 – Ran one-hour Emotional Resilience workshop, Beehive Lofts, Manchester, United Kingdom
  • June 29 – Ran 1.5 hour Orgasmic Breath workshop, Manchester Tantra Festival, Manchester, United Kingdom


  • July 2 – Gave three presentations at “Body Image and Sexual Function”; “Therapeutic Concepts of Tantra and Orgasmic Yoga”and”Positioning Aids and Assistive devices for Patients with Sexual Dysfunction” at Sex & Spine, Nspine conference, London
  • July 5 – Ran Art of Fellatio for 22 ladies in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
  • July 7 – Presented “Sexuality Beyond Menopause”, Malaysian International Conference on Menopause, Malaysian Menopause Society, Le Meridien, Putrajaya
  • July 11 – Conducted Emotional Resilience workshop at JustCo Robinson Road for 12 people
  • July 16 – Facilitated Sex, Love and Super Power for 10 people for 4Fun
  • July 17 – Become locum Sexuality Counselor at Singapore Cancer Society
  • July 20 – Conducted 1st Counseling Skills for Non-Counselors for 14 people (4 hours)
  • July 24 – Conducted Counseling Skills for Non-Counselors for 12 people (2 hours) at JustCo Marina Square
  • July 30 – Ran 1st Sex & Sexuality 101 in Singapore


  • Aug 1 – 30 – Co-hosted Dance Yourself Free (30-day online dance challenge) with Hannah Lo and Danielle Ajanta with 207 ladies.
  • Aug 9 and 13 – Conducted two-day Overcoming Vaginismus training for Vibrance Kuala Lumpur
  • Aug 10 – Ran Art of Penis Pleasuring & Art of Vulva Pleasuring in Kuala Lumpur
  • Aug 11 – Ran Art of Fellatio in Kuala Lumpur
  • Aug 16 – Ran 2nd Sex & Sexuality 101 in Singapore
  • Aug 17 – Ran Art of Penis Pleasuring & Art of Vulva Pleasuring in Singapore
  • Aug 21 – Gave talk Is Monogamy Dead? for 5 persons
  • Aug 22 – Ran 2nd Rediscovery (for 10 persons)
  • Aug 24 – Ran 1st Coaching for Non-Coaches (for 6 persons)
  • Aug 27 – Ran 3rd Embracing Your Pleasure for Ladies for 7 ladies
  • Aug 28 – Hosted Your Sexuality is Your Super Power with Cubra Libra (for 10 persons)
  • Aug 31 – Co-hosted Ask Us Anything for 5 ladies


  • Sept 1 – Moderating ongoing DDD (Decide to Dance Daily) Sisters – daily dance support group for women from Dance Yourself Free (14 women to date)
  • Sept 5 – Conduct Art of Fellatio
  • Sept 6 – Conducted 1st Art of Assertiveness in Biliq, Bali
  • Sept 10 – Conducted The Low Down on Marketing Yourself at Connco, Bali
  • Sept 12 – Hosted Ask Us Anything at Pink Lifestyle


  • Oct – Book released. I have an essay in the book Sex Positive Now edited by Allena Gabosch & Jeremy Shub
  • Oct 1 – Moved office to Pagoda Street in Chinatown, Singapore
  • Oct 6, 13, 20 – Three-part Art of Assertiveness workshop for FDW (Foreign Domestic Workers)
  • Oct 18 – Sex & Sexuality 101 Workshop for 10
  • Oct 19 – Workshop on Consent & Boundaries for APSN (Association For Persons with Special Needs)
  • Oct 22 – Hosted 1st Vaginismus Support Group in new office (returns)
  • Oct 23 – Co-hosted 1st Women Support Circle
  • Oct 28 – One of 21 Sexperts interviewed for Relationship Rejunvention Retreat Telesummit Oct 28 to Nov 11
  • Oct 30 – Conducted sexuality counseling for clients nominated by Disabled People’s Association
  • Oct 31 – Hosted Ask Me Anything at Pink Lifestyle


  • Nov 7 – Conducted Art of Fellatio, Singapore
  • Nov 8 – AsiaOne interview released. Video here (viewed 16k times as of Dec 2019). Online article here 
  • Nov 11 – One of sexperts in online telesumit Relationship Rejuvenation Retreat
  • Nov 11 – Featured in Shin Min – Chinese newspaper in Singapore
  • Nov 10 – 19 – Presented six workshops in Melbourne through Curious Creatures: Snuggle Party, Art of Fellatio, Art of Vulva Pleasuring, Art of Penis Pleasuring, Orgasmic Breath
  • Nov 15 – 17 – Presented three sessions at Celebrating Sexuality 2019: Soul Gazing, Shadow Work, Ask Me Anything
  • Nov 21 – Hosted 2nd Vaginismus Support Circle (returns) at my new office at Chinatown
  • Nov 24 – Conducted sexuality counseling for clients nominated by Disabled People’s Association
  • Nov 28 – Co-hosted 2nd Women Support Circle
  • Nov 29 – Conducted Sex & Sexuality 101
  • Nov 30 – Conducted Art of Vulva Pleasuring + Art of Penis Pleasuring in Singapore


  • Dec 1 – 31 – Hosted online community support Write Yourself Free on Facebook with Janet Chui (130+ ladies)
  • Dec 6 – Love, Sex & Spirit alongside Luke Elijah Lim and Lionel Koh
  • Dec 12 – Write and Release workshop
  • Dec 15 – Conducted sexuality counseling for clients nominated by Disabled People’s Association
  • Dec 18 – Hosted Ask Me Anything (3rd time) at Pink Lifestyle
  • Dec 19 – Hosted 3rd Vaginismus Support Circle at my new office at Chinatown
  • Dec 20 – Cover for 5th book Sex 365 designed and crowdfunding plans started

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network.  She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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