Milestones for 2018

Posted On: December 18, 2018

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later.

Day/ Date    What


  • Jan 13 – Presentation “Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment” for Singapore Cancer Society, Singapore




  • April 5 – Facilitated Menopause Support Group
  • April 15 – Conducted 1st Heal Your Mother (or Father) Wound
  • April 19 – Facilitated 1st Navigating Tinder and Beyond discussion group (use of dating apps)
  • April 21 – Conducted 1st Energy Orgasm workshop
  • April 26 – Hosted Beer, Meat and Sex informal networking event


  • May – Ran OYoga for MMonth campaign with three colleagues – Myola Woods, Jallen Rix, and Victoria Leigh Reuveni
  • May 17 – Conducted first Urban Zen, a Mindfulness practice session


  • June 5 – Facilitated the first The Art of Deep Listening
  • June 11 – Presentation “Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment” for Tan Tock Seng Hospital, Singapore
  • June 30 – Spoke at BCF Empowerment and Education Programme, Breast Cancer Foundation


  • July 3 – Became an approved AASECT sexuality educator supervisor
  • July 4 – Appointed to supervise students as an AASECT sexuality educator supervisor at Sex Coach University
  • July 14 – Spoke about “Sexual health and function for women with pelvic floor disorders” at Urofair Nursing Symposium, Grand Hyatt Singapore
  • July 17 – Facilitated The Art of Deep Listening
  • July 21 – Panelist alongside Urologist Dr George Lee and Comedian Dr. Jason Leong moderated by Bernice Chan. H4ardness Matters, Subang, Malaysia
  • July 28 – Speaker “Sexual Health and Counseling” at 2018 edition of the Certificate Course on Practical Andrology, The Society for Men’s Health Singapore, Academy for Men’s Health, The Malaysian Society of Andrology and The Study of the Aging Male (MSASAM), Kuala Lumpur
  • July 26 – 29 – Speaker at Malaysian International Scientific Congress of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (MISCOG 2018) organised by Obstetrical and Gynaecological Society of Malaysia (OGSM)
  • July – Aug 8 – One of 20 recognised sex experts interviewed in the New Rules of Sex Summit hosted by Dr. Lauren Brim



  • Sept 1 – Ran workshop Clean & Clear, and co-facilitated first “Held: An Exploration with Bedsheets”
  • Sept 6 – Ran workshop The Art of Fellatio
  • Sept 14 – Answered discussion on Vaginismus on Twitter for Sex CoachU
  • Sept 17 – Joined Women Speakers Association as a Premium Member
  • Sept 18 – Facilitated The Art of Deep Listening
  • Sept 21 – Facilitated Monthly Tantric Practice Circle
  • Sept 22 – Launched Kickstarter Project for {Un}Inhibited: Asian Vulva Photo Book
  • Sept 26 – Oct 5 – One of 20 Sexperts featured in Alchemy of Sex Telesummit hosted by Yin Wellness
  • Sept 26 and 27 – Conducted first two For Women: Embracing Your Pleasure in partnership with and Womanizer


  • Oct 2 – Ran first “Energy Management for Highly Sensitive People”
  • Oct 5 – “Sex is not a mental illness” at Global Summit for Mental Health Advocates (Theme – Unite for Mental Health) organised by Silver Ribbon Singapore, Singapore
  • Oct 18 – 19 – Ran workshops The Art of Vulva Pleasuring; The Art of Penis Pleasuring


  • Nov 16 – Ran workshop The Art of Fellatio
  • Nov 18 – “Sex after 50 – the resurrection” at Malaysian Menopause Society’s annual event to commemorate World Menopause Day, Sunway Lagoon Resort Hotel, Bandar Sunway, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
  • Nov 23 – Facilitated Monthly Tantra Practice Circle



About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network.  She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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