Resources: Ethical & Feminist Porn

Posted On: June 9, 2021

This is a list of ethical and feminist porn sites you might like to check out.

Do note that downloading porn is illegal in Singapore – watching them online is not.

I do invite each and everyone of you to question where your porn comes from: If there is consent between all parties filmed? If they are paid fair wages? If they are being exploited?

Please don’t do anything that supports an industry that hurts others!

1. GASM.TV

This site offers live erotic streaming content. Viewers are anonymous and can ask questions and have them answered in real time. Or have concepts demonstrated. 

The business model is also people, planet, and then profits. It trains its performer teachers. It is inclusive, and LGBTQQ+ friendly. 

2. Bright Desire

This site offers a new and different kind of porn – new wave, smart porn. It’s sometimes been called feminist porn, or ethical porn, or porn for women. The main thing is, this isn’t the usual stuff you see on the awful tube sites. Bright Desire’s aim is to move beyond the old cliches, boundaries and negativity of standard, old-style pornography and to offer something fresh, inclusive and intelligent.

3. Sssh.com

Sssh.com – your source for ethically produced, sex-positive indie adult cinema. Our crowd-sourced films are inspired by fantasies and desires shared by our members. Our provocative storylines will challenge your perceptions of explicit sexual content. From cutting edge VR to narrative film, from the written word to auditory stimulation. We are Uninhibited, Unapologetic and Unabashed.

Sssh.com is the evolution of indie adult cinema. It’s feminist porn for women and couples. It’s porn, re-imagined.

4. Frolic Me 

Explicit beautiful EROTIC FILMS, VIDEOS, sexual EROTIC STORIES, EROTIC AUDIO & very naughty photographic collections, produced to give you beautiful arousing sexy erotica on your mobile, iPad or PC.

5. Joybear Pictures

Joybear Pictures is a British film production company. We have been making sex-positive, erotic films since 2003. Our goal is to change the perception of of the adult entertainment business. Why? Click here to find out. Enjoy the site! We see a world where sex is positive and not taboo. Joybear is working to create that world. It’s why we produce erotic films with a more natural approach to sex…and lots of kissing.

6.Cinema Joy by Petra Joy

Our online movie theatre shows all of Petra Joy’s films, and Petra’s favourite films by other erotic directors from all over the world, as well as exclusive behind the scenes content, trailers, photos and much more. All films are authentic, artistic & erotic – hand-picked for you by Petra Joy. Following over two decades working as a director shooting many documentaries about sexuality, Petra founds Strawberry Seductress, an erotic photography service aimed at women and couples. 

7. Pucker Up

PuckerUp.com is author, sex educator, and pornographer Tristan Taormino’s sex-positive salon. It’s a place where people come to get honest, down-to-earth, non-judgmental sex and relationship advice. It’s a resource for information about sexuality (with an emphasis on anal pleasure and health), kink and BDSM, relationships (especially alternative ones), feminist pornography, LGBT community issues, and sex-positive events. It’s a community space to connect with other sex nerds, writers, anal aficionados, ethical porn makers and lovers, sex educators, activists, and members of the perverati.

8.Lucy Blush

With 6 years of exploring sex and porn behind me, I am running CommonSensual.com, my own sex lab where we dig deep into our most inner triggers… Films, experiments, music videos, soundtracks and more. It’s my porno baby, check out all updates below!

9. OMGyes

There’s so much that’s been left unsaid, unasked, and unknown. All because of a taboo that, we believe, will look absurd in a few decades—the same way taboos from the 1950’s about oral sex and homosexuality are absurd to us now. We want to accelerate that transition.

OMGyes is an entirely new way to explore fascinating, useful and fun information that’s been uncovered in new research. Let’s lift the veil and take an honest look at the specific ways women actually find pleasure.

10. The Crash Pad series

CrashPadSeries is based on the 2005 feminist porn award-winning ‘best dyke sex film’ The Crash Pad about a clandestine San Francisco apartment where lucky queers share its key to rendezvous for wild sex. Adult filmmaker Shine Louise Houston brings to the web her unique cinematic direction, hailed for its honest depiction of female and queer sexuality. It can be hard to describe this site, since what you’ll see here may vary. Our queer porn casts ‘real life’ couples who identify as dykes and lesbians, femme, masculine of center (boi, stud, tomboy, AG, and butch) and can be cis or trans women, trans men, people of color, people of size, older queers, and people with disabilities (including neurodivergent). Performers choose what they want to do on camera, so it’s common to see things like safer sex, role-play with onscreen check-ins and communication, strap-ons, kink and BDSM, orgasms and aftercare

11. Spit

Spit is a Toronto-based queer porn collaborative. Our aim is to create porn that is reflective of the vast differences in lived experiences, person to person. We seek to celebrate these differences and create space for the variety in sexuality to shine. Our content is developed ethically, meaning our performers are paid for their work and we do our best to put their needs first.

Everyone we work beside is hired on the basis of our values aligning; folks that are dedicated to creating consensual, equitable, and intersectional feminist spaces in the sex industry. We emphasize communication and consent to actively create a safer space.

12. MakeLoveNotPorn

Today MakeLoveNotPorn is the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex platform – the Facebook of #RealWorldSex: sharing that one area of all our lives no other social platform will allow. Which means our social sex videos aren’t just something you watch and enjoy – they’re inspirational self help for your sex life.

Let me know what you think of this list. 🙂

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

         
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