“I’m so happy to let you know that I’ve finally able to overcome my vaginismus condition. It was recently that I (or rather the both of us) truly enjoy intercourse.
Quick update on my life since we last spoke in 2018…
We were trying to conceive but didn’t manage to as I was constantly in pain during intercourse.. i decided to re-look into your videos and we practiced quite a number of times.. I managed to conceive my baby girl in mid last year and delivered her in February 2020.. Now she’s coming to 7 months plus and we are back in ‘action’. Intercourse was great-no more pain, no more dryness, and most importantly, we are off lidocaine and KY jelly for close to one year.. We’ve just nailed one position and are looking to experiment with other positions. You are right, communication is key during intercourse.
Even my gynae, who knew about my condition, asked me and I told her that it was from the help of a sexologist. She was impressed.
Now, I’m even considering of getting an implant; as I’m not getting my period due to breastfeeding.
Never in my wildest dream that I will be able to enjoy having sex or even thinking of getting a contraceptive implant!
Really, it’s all thanks to you.
Also, the package which I subscribed comes with a one or two session of skype with you. I would gladly donate that session to whoever needs it as I hope other couples will have the same result as me..” – Anonymous Lady, 11 Sept 2020 (testimonial used with permission)
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
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