All of my Reaction Videos to The Independent

Posted On: December 16, 2021

I stumbled across crowd-sourced questions featured on The Independent and started making these reaction/ advice videos. Hope you find them useful!

1. His gf tests him with trivial arguments, insists on frequent dates and text bombards. What to do?

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question: “Boyfriend says his gf tests him with trivial arguments to see if he will apologise first, insists on frequent dates and bombards him with texts”. This question appeared in The Independent here.

2. Ex-boyfriend’s name tattooed across her breast, woman worries what her fiancé might say

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question: “Ex-boyfriend’s name tattooed across her breast, woman worries what her fiancé might say when he sees it, asks, “How do I explain? How will he feel? Will he leave me?”. The question appeared in The Independent here.

3. Girl earning 3x more than her bf says that he splits their expenses down to the cents

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question: “Girl earning three times more than her boyfriend says that he documents their expenses in table form down to the cents in order to equally share them”. The question appeared in The Independent here.

4. Girl asks if she’s a homewrecker for ‘making out’ with her male best friend

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers this questions: “Girl asks if she’s a homewrecker for meeting her male best friend almost daily, and ‘making out and hanging out very intimately’ with him”. This is in response to a blog post on The Independent here

5. Is it normal to have a deep dislike for your husband?

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question “Is it normal to have a deep dislike for your husband?”. This question appeared in The Independent here.

6. Will his wife accept his ‘young & wild’ female colleague for sex?

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question “Will his wife accept his ‘young & wild’ female colleague for sex?” which was published in The Independent. Article on The Independent is here

7. Why Doesn’t He Want Sex? Answered by Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers a crowd-sourced question: Why he doesn’t want sex published in The Independent here

Things I would ask/ look into

  • Whether masturbating? how often? as a gauge for sexual drive
  • Any possible religious guilt Tired/ stress/ anxiety are all real
  • Understanding of relationship not just for companionship
  • Whether less sexual attraction and it is not a bad thing (just needs addressing)
  • May not don’t like pressure/ pushing/ force/ told to do things
  • Focused on other things – onwards
  • How to making sex happen/ a priority
  • Any existing sexual difficulties

(Videos description: Martha wearing pink jacket and pink dress making a face against a purple background with yellow text with the video question)

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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com, Singapore Cancer Society, and Ofnoah.sg and Ofzoey.com. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

         
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