The Inclusive Dating Show

Posted On: June 4, 2026

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Date(s) - 04/06/2026
7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

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8 Singles, 4 comics.  One Night. Live on Stage.

A special Pink Fest edition of Sex Positive Comedy, hosted by Dr Martha Tara Lee.

Back by popular demand after the success of our hit Valentine’s edition, Comics Find You a V-Day Date, this special Pink Fest edition marks the 23rd Sex Positive Comedy show, bringing back the laughter, matchmaking mischief, and live on-stage chemistry audiences loved.

This is not speed dating, not a reality show, and not therapy. It is a live comedy experience where 10 real, self-declared singles from the audience are invited on stage, while comedians step into the role of playful matchmakers. Through humorous, respectful, and consent-led interviews, the comics spotlight what makes each person attractive, interesting, and dateable, while the audience enjoys the fun, energy, and possibility of connection.

It’s comedy, curiosity, and connection — done with care.

How it works

  • 8 singles volunteer from the audience
  • Comedians interview them live on stage
  • Each single is featured with humour, warmth, and respect
  • The audience gets to enjoy the laughter, cheer people on, and see whether any sparks fly

Who should come

  • Singles open to being featured
  • Singles who prefer to watch from the audience
  • Friends who love cheering from the sidelines
  • Anyone open to a fun, playful, inclusive night out

The Comics

1. DeEnormouS @iamdeenormous

A genderless creature from the planet Uranus. This creature is a dancer who can no longer dance, a singer that all cats love with make-up skills like IT The Clown but is ALWAYS the life of any party.

Known to swallow you whole… whenever on stage so, be warn as you’ll get sucked into a universe that will blow your mind. Last seen hypnotising in Singapore, Thailand, Indonesia and Malaysia.

Coming Soon to a local night market and wet dreams near you. Go Be Yourself and come into “DeEnormouS Haus Of Misfits”.

2. Shaiful aka Shai @shaifulrisanwork

Shaiful Risan, better known as Shai, is a versatile performer with extensive experience as a stage actor, event host, and wedding emcee. His dynamic career includes a three-year stint at Universal Studios and a flourishing presence in the stand-up comedy scene, where he has garnered a devoted following.

Shai is not only recognized for his engaging voice techniques and keen ability to read a room but also for his unique perspective on hosting, theater, and comedy, which he passionately claims “saved my life.”

3. Kimberly Neo @k1m.2er1y

A rising Singapore-based stand-up comedian who brings cheeky charm and fearless honesty to the stage. Known for her witty takes on dating, desire, and the chaos of modern love, Kimberly turns taboo topics into punchlines that leave audiences laughing and thinking.

Her comedy celebrates body confidence, sexual positivity, and the awkward hilarity of being human. Whether she’s talking about bad dates, bedroom mishaps, or the weird rules of romance, Kimberly delivers it all with warmth, wit, and just the right amount of bite.

4. Eugene Lim @ug3n

Eugene Lim is a high-energy comic and ex-magician who’s taken his chaos from Singapore to LA and KL. Headliner for Siao Char Bors and proud boyfriend of Barbie Pongteh, they mix comedy, bad decisions, and childhood trauma into one unpredictable ride.
With stories from scandalous moments in Australia, questionable encounters, and a lifelong talent for saying the wrong thing at the worst time, Eugene explores what happens when you don’t quite fit into Singapore’s polished image. Equal parts chaos and self-reflection blending into total chaos.

Date: Thursday, 4 June 2026

Time: 7:30 – 10:00pm

Venue: Blu Jaz Cafe, 11 Bali Lane, Singapore 189848

Fee: S$30 (inclusive a S$15 drink)

Want to be one of the 10 singles?
Apply via the enrolment form.

Singles participation is voluntary, respectful, and consent may be withdrawn at any time.

S$30 (inclusive a S$15 drink)

Email me your questions here!

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Hosted by Sexologist Dr Martha

Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.

Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington PostNewsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sgOfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group, and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.

An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013),  Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women (2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).

You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

         
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