Unable to attend a live workshop? Prefer to attend online and in the privacy of your home?
I’m pleased to release the recordings from my Bedroom Confidence workshops conducted and released in Dec 2021. You can purchase one or all three of the recordings below:
Under Bedroom Confidence virtual sexuality workshops, we are offering three unique zoom 1.5 hour sessions!
This series of virtual workshops will be open to all genders.
Penises come in different sizes, angles, colours, smells and tastes. This workshop is open to all genders and sexual orientations. This includes penis-owners who may benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy, and those who want to pleasure penis owners. Let’s demystify this often misunderstood part of sexual anatomy, and get all your questions answered.
‘Pleasuring the Penis’ is based on the tantric penis massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer who created the Sexological Bodywork certification. As a trained sexological bodyworker, Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee has been teaching these techniques for the past 10 years. As a facilitator she has a direct, straight-talking, and witty facilitation style. Prepare for sometimes irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun!
Dr Martha will cover the following topics: penile anatomy, warming up and playing with the cock with your hands, penis massage techniques, how to experiment with speed / pressure / rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more.
These are the same techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to a physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork. This class contains no nudity or live body demos. All genders are welcome. This workshop focuses on techniques and tips for penis owners to receive.
Read full details with testimonials here!
S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Pleasuring the Penis
S$150 for for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva
Express your Passion and Love in a new way!
Surprise your Partner – in a good way!
Much more then simply a series of ‘tricks’, we’ll be exploring how to have confidence to be playful and creative with pleasuring the penis in this virtual workshop.
What is arising in you as the pleasurer? What is your relationship with your partner during fellatio? How do you engage in a way that is deeply pleasurable for you and the receiver?
This virtual workshop combines philosophy and practice. You’ll learn anatomy, techniques, deep throat, and gagging, as well as how to experiment with heat, pressure and moisture.
You will learn:
This class contains no nudity or live body demos. All genders are welcome. This workshop focuses on techniques and tips for penis owners to receive.
Read full details with testimonials here!
S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Festive Fellatio
S$150 for for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva
In this workshop, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will help you to understand the vulva and the vagina better, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. It will help you to feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs or that of your partner.
You will learn:
The session will be held using sex toys, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion. This class contains no nudity or live body demos. All genders are welcome. This workshop focuses on techniques and tips for vulva owners to receive.
Read full details with testimonials here!
S$50 for Bedroom Confidence: Viva la Vulva
S$150 for for all three Bedroom Confidence workshops: Pleasuring the Penis, Festive Fellatio and Viva la Vulva
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.
Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group, and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.
An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women (2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).
You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
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