You Don’t Need Labiaplasty

Posted On: August 16, 2010

More and more women are paying doctors to chop off their labias. Labiaplasty is a cosmetic surgery that removes or shortens the labia, the inner lips of the vulva. Self Serve Toys (www.selfservetoys.com) co-owners Matie and Molly, along with Sex Educator, Alee want you to know your vulva is beautiful just the way it is. […]

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Teen Dating Abuse

Posted On: August 14, 2010

Teen Dating Abuse Survivors Everyone has a right to a safe and healthy relationship. Unfortunately, one in three teenagers is a victim of abuse, from being yelled at or put down to being physically assaulted. The safe space is a project sponsored by Break the Cycle. Friends Don’t Let Friends Be Abused Teen Dating Bill […]

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Most Common Contraception Methods

Posted On: August 9, 2010

According to my knowledge, these are the most common contraception methods in Singapore. What Are Abstinence and Outercourse? You may have heard people talk about abstinence in different ways. Some people think of abstinence as not having vaginal intercourse. They may enjoy other kinds of sex play that don’t lead to pregnancy. This is better […]

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Product Review: R-1 Feel Mont Blanc by Rends

Product Review: R-1 Feel Mont Blanc by Rends

Posted On: August 2, 2010

Mont Blanc quality in a sex toy? Now it exists! Japanese manufacturer Rends has come up just the sex toy vibrator for ladies and called it ‘R-1 Feel Mont Blanc’. This vibrator aims at stimulating the clitoris giving the women the most ultimate masturbation pleasure. How? The result of many years of studies researching the […]

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Product Review: Play O by Durex

Product Review: Play O by Durex

Posted On: August 2, 2010

‘Play O’ by Durex is not a contraceptive, lubricant, or massage gel. It is a premium orgasm-enhancing gel created by women, for women. That’s right. You read that correctly. This can help women attain an orgasm, or, in all likelihood, experience a more intense one! As a sex educator committed to encouraging greater awareness, understanding […]

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Poem: One Flaw in Women

Posted On: August 1, 2010

Women have strengths that amaze men….. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in.. They stand […]

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Taoist Erotic Massage – Ben Haggard

Posted On: July 26, 2010

Sixteen Years of Practicing Taoist Erotic Massage by Ben Haggard, Certified Sexological Bodyworker Transcript: “Ever since I learned Taoist Erotic Massage (TEM) sixteen years ago, I’ve been a man with a mission. Prior to that I was trained as a massage therapist, and I learned not only the strengths of massage therapy but also some […]

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Advertising’s Image of Women

Posted On: July 19, 2010

Killing Us Softly 3 Advertising’s Image of Women A lot of you may not know that I was a media student, and professional communicator before I became a sexologist. Hence, in my blog here, you will find me posting videos on how the media distorts reality, and objectifies women. I do so because I believe […]

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What is Sexting?

Posted On: July 18, 2010

‘Sexting‘ is the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized around 2005, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images According to a recent Reuters report, twenty percent of […]

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Thank you from BCF

Posted On: July 16, 2010

I gave a talk on ‘Sexual Healing after Breast Cancer’ with Breast Cancer Foundation, Singapore on 25 June. It was a wonderful group. This was the Thank-you card.

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Product Review: bcute Classic by B Swish

Product Review: bcute Classic by B Swish

Posted On: May 29, 2010

B Swish’s bCute Classic is waterproof silicone multi-speed massager that is shaped like a miniature rocket. Made of medical grade silicon, you can enjoy its silky touch in the bath or at any other time you please. The soft, plush exterior is augmented by variable speed control, making it great for external clitoral stimulation, but […]

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Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Posted On: May 28, 2010

Nomi Tang ‘Better than Chocolate’ Multi-Function Vibrator ‘Better than Chocolate’ is the first of Nomi Tang’s line of sensual consumer products with adult toys. The first word that came to my mind when I saw ‘Better than Chocolate’ was ‘Adventure’. This attributes to its shape – that of the computer mouse – and the infinite […]

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