If

Posted On: April 29, 2010

IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Men)

Posted On: April 22, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a woman to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who has walked through her past. A lover who is aware of her historic vulnerabilities. Who takes responsibility for her own stuff. Imagine a lover who has developed […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Women)

Posted On: April 21, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a man to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who accepts himself. A lover whose capacity to love you non-judgementally deepens as he is merciful toward himself. Imagine a lover who takes care of himself. A lover […]

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Poem: Imagine Lovers

Posted On: April 20, 2010

Imagine Lovers Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine lovers… Who smile in each other’s company. They say a strong and sensual YES to each other. Their YESes meet and fill their experience. Who tell the truth about what works and what doesn’t. They co-create solutions for […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman II

Posted On: April 14, 2010

Imagine a woman who is interested in her own life. A woman who embraces her life as teacher, healer, and challenge. Who is grateful for the ordinary moments of beauty and grace. Imagine a woman who participates in her own life. A woman who meets each challenge with creativity. Who takes action on her own […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman I

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life. Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens to her needs and desires. Who […]

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Quotable Quotes: Sex and Sexuality

Posted On: April 2, 2010

You can learn more about healthy sexuality through discovering what other therapists, writers, and sexual health advocates have said about it. Healthy Sex Quotations I found from here: Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstacy. –Anais Nin Nothing is sexier than the naked mind–nothing more seductive than the inventive imagination. […]

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Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Posted On: March 21, 2010

The Erotic Mind: Unlock the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin In this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice, San Francisco psychotherapist Morin developed an ‘erotic equation’ by drawing on the discussions of 351 respondents, straight and gay. This equation is: Attraction plus obstacles leads to excitement. He also […]

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Singapore: What Female Anatomy? It’s a grey area

Posted On: March 20, 2010

A survey done by feminine care products manufacturer Kotex revealed that a staggering six out of 10 Singaporean women polled are clueless about the number of openings they have down south. The correct answer: three – the urethra, the vaginal canal and the anus. The Kotex BodyLife IQ Study involved 1,800 women in Singapore, the […]

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Male Facts

Posted On: March 9, 2010

According to Dr Chia Sing Joo in his book ‘Male Urological Problems: The Essential Guide For Every Man & Couple’, these are the facts about Singaporean males: 1. Usual age to have first erection: Usually it’s as early as 11 years old with the majority at 13 years old. This is mainly due to local […]

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Product Review: LoveHoney Sqweel

Product Review: LoveHoney Sqweel

Posted On: March 3, 2010

I partner with U4Ria – a leading sex shop in Singapore – and recommend my clients to them. I chose to work with U4Ria because I found their prices more reasonable than many of the other shops I went to, are professional and friendly. There is always one female staff there to attend to ladies. […]

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Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Posted On: February 12, 2010

During intercourse, it is the outer third of the vagina that is most stimulated. Some women are able to orgasm through this vaginal penetration. That is, vaginal orgasm — without clitoral stimulation. However research has shown that (Shere Hite’s 1976 survey of 3000 women) only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse. The clitoris, […]

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