Recordings of April Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Violence

Recordings of April Sugar & Spice Monthly Talk (S&Sx). Theme: Violence

Posted On: May 3, 2021

We run three virtual sexuality festivals with the one in March comprising of 30 presenters, 12 presenters over 5 days. You can watch past recordings we’ve put up here. We are taking a pause on Sugar & Spice festival but launched our monthly talk as of 28 April 2021. The theme was Violence. The recordings […]

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Performative vs Pleasure Based Sex

Performative vs Pleasure Based Sex

Posted On: May 1, 2021

What does sex mean to you? What type of sex do you think you tend to be having – performative or pleasure based sex OR a combination of both? What type of sex would you prefer? This is a good one to use as a discussion piece with your partner. Performative-Based Sex   Pleasure-Based Sex […]

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“Everything About Toys” on Girl Code by Ladies First

“Everything About Toys” on Girl Code by Ladies First

Posted On: April 27, 2021

I was on this podcast Girl Code by the Ladies First channel. We talked about sex toys and more! Listen below 🙂 Helping couples and singles boost confidence and provide resources towards achieving a healthy sexual lifestyle? In collaboration with Horny.sg, we have invited a sexologist, Dr Martha over to discuss everything about sexual health […]

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Dimensions of the “Good-Enough Sex” Model

Dimensions of the “Good-Enough Sex” Model

Posted On: April 27, 2021

What is good enough sex? The below include the dimensions of the “Good Enough Sex” model. What do you think of it? Agree/ disagree? What might be in your “Better than Enough” sex? Sex is a positive dimension in life, an invaluable part of your individual and couple comfort, intimacy, desire, pleasure, eroticism, and satisfaction. […]

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69 Reasons You Should Use a Vibrator

69 Reasons You Should Use a Vibrator

Posted On: April 20, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Sex toys have been commonplace since Victorian times. Initially, they were sold as massagers to treat hysterical people with vagina, but in the 90s, they became acceptable as pleasure providers during the sex but still rarely purchased. However, these days, sex toys have entered the mainstream due […]

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Letter to My Mother @drmarthalee

Letter to My Mother @drmarthalee

Posted On: April 16, 2021

I am so proud to be included in this anthology Letter to My Mother. You can now pre-order Letter to My Mother, the anthology of moving letters: https://www.goguru.com.sg/letter-to-my-mother-pre-order It has received advance praise from poet Yeow Kai Chai Secretmanta Ray: “How and what would you write to someone who gave birth to you? It’s the […]

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Self Pleasure is Self Love (Dr. Martha Tara Lee & Allana Pratt)

Self Pleasure is Self Love (Dr. Martha Tara Lee & Allana Pratt)

Posted On: April 13, 2021

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee talks about how self pleasure is self love with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt​ Website: https://allanapratt.com/ Please reshare this if you liked this video! 🙂 About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of […]

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How to Practice BDSM Safely?

How to Practice BDSM Safely?

Posted On: April 13, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. BDSM has become increasingly popular among people to spice up their sex lives. Though it is fun, it can be dangerous if you are not prepared adequately before engaging in it. So, here are some tips for beginners about how to practice BDSM safely: 1.   Aftercare is […]

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I Love My Daddy

I Love My Daddy

Posted On: April 11, 2021

I love my daddy. I think of him often when I’m not with him. I wonder what he’s doing, if he’s eaten, and if he’s sleeping well. The love I have for my dad is more than just gratitude, more than just respect… but unconditional love. Since my relationship with him improved after my mom’s […]

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Do Sex Toys Cause Addiction?

Do Sex Toys Cause Addiction?

Posted On: April 6, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. You might have heard that you can get addicted to sex toys, but believe me, it’s is nothing more than a myth. For most women, sex toys can provide an orgasm much more easily and quickly than manual stimulation. Due to which they prefer using them again […]

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Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Posted On: April 5, 2021

I’ve pulled together a resource list for you – media portrayals of non-monogamy i.e. movies/ TV series. I believe that the lack of non-monogamy portrayals makes people assume that the monogamous relationship model is the only one that exists. For a long time, the non-monogamy model is actually the one that is commonplace. When I […]

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