Body Love – with Mirror Work

Posted On: July 24, 2018

Date(s) - 24/07/2018
7:15 pm - 9:30 pm

Bakery & Bar


Do you love your body – 100%? If not really, do you wish you did?

First coined by the Austrian neurologist and psychoanalyst Paul Schilder, body image refers to a person’s feelings of the aesthetics or sexual attractiveness of their own body, which may be forced onto them by others or social media.

As we go through the different life stages, our body changes, so can our self-image. Our relationship with our body is a changing one, and one which we should have a good one with. We probably all know that developing a positive body image and a healthy mental attitude is crucial to our happiness and wellness. The age-old question is how?

This workshop will:

  • Create a safe space in which you feel comfortable to open and share whatever you like with the group.
  • Explore and discuss the personal relationship we have our bodies.
  • Bring you through deep exercises guiding you to more self-acceptance, appreciation and self-love of your body.

Come with an open mind, soft heart, and a willingness to go deeper. This is a clothes-on workshop with one mirror exercise. All emotions and tears are welcomed.


“Body Love workshop with Martha creates self awareness and opens new concept of thinking towards one’s own body. I really enjoyed the activities and learnt a lot. We mostly thinks about how other people looks and think that we somewhere forget about our own body, the good and bads and appreciations. It’s a really nice experience to open up to other people in a safe and non-judgemental place the creation of which is a special skill of Martha. Her motivational talk encourages others and makes it easier for the participant to get engaged. That’s all she does while simultaneously leading by her own example. Thanks Martha for organising Body Love workshop” – Anonymous Male, 31 Aug 2018

“It is one of the most reflective and amazing workshop I’ve ever attended! At the first segment, I need to talk about my childhood experiences with my Body. At the second segment, I need to look right in front of the mirror, to body talk about each part of my body! By doing so, it helps me realise that How I see n regard my body is Very much related to my childhood experiences! I used to be very plump as a child, now that I’ve lost weight as an adult, I still see myself as fat n ugly. It makes me realise how much I’ve been judging my body and looking down on myself due to the concept of how I think/ believe I should look as a woman! Attending this Body Love workshop, demonstrates to me it is Time to fully adore n appreciate every part and every cells of my body! And if I can love my Body for what it is, my sense of self-worth and self-esteem will keep increasing!” – Arakah, 19 Dec 2015

“Martha’s honest and truthful sharing. Her no judgmental presence makes me feel safe and secure to share my personal feelings.” – Anonymous, 4 June 2015

“This is an impressive workshop. It allows me to have the courage to face myself in another perceptive.” – Anoymous, 4 June 2015

“Body love workshop help me to bring about more awareness to my body, as I usually takes it for granted. It bring me to understand and appreciate my body more and learn to treasure it, this built up my confidence and become more humble for having a healthy body.” – Anonymous, 20 May 2015

“Body love taught me to look at my body in a new light. It revealed my insecurities and helped me work towards a healthy relationship with my body! I would highly recommend it to all women young and old. Martha conducted the session in a fun and engaging manner. As we worked through our insecurities we also learned to support our fellow sisters in appreciating their beauty and presence in this universe:) Thank you Martha.” – Anonymous, 7 April 2015

Date: Tues 24 July 2018

Time: 7:15 – 9:30 p.m. (We will be starting at 7:30p.m. sharp)

Venue: Bakery & Bar. 112 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068581

Directions: Nearest MRT is Telok Ayer MRT (just across the street!). Followed by Raffles Place MRT.

Energy Exchange: $68 per person (includes 1 drink and finger food)

 btn Free30DT orange An Evening with Ye Ruoshi: A Womans Journey of Overcoming VaginismusPlease note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

More questions?

  1. Who is this for? – For individuals or couples who wish to love their bodies – regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, marital status, race, religion, or nationality.
  2. I don’t have a partner to come with. – This event is being offered to individuals or couples at this time so it is a non-issue. If you attend with your partner, you’d get to use the same terms/ vocabulary after the event – makes life easier! You also have the option to attend with a friend! It’s fun to learn together!
  3. But… I’m shy! – Don’t worry. You will never be forced to do or say anything. Many participants in the past have chosen to just sit and learn without saying a word. We respect individual choice.
  4. How can I persuade my partner to attend this? – Do explain that I’ve been running such events for eight years, and every single person who has attended my event has said they overcame their resistance and are glad they attended it. I suggest you encourage your partner by saying that there will be other shy people there too, and everybody attending are there to learn to improve their lives!
  5. Will there be nudity? – No.
  6. Will there be touch? – No.
  7. Will you be doing any hands-on demo on a person. – No.
  8. Can you give me a discount? – No. We have costs including for the venue + refreshments.
  9. Ratio of discussion to experiential? – About 50/50 percent.
  10. What should I bring? – A wrap or sweater in case it gets cool.
  11. What is your refund policy? – Please note that no refunds are possible once you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed.
  12. I am a media member. Can I attend? – We respect the privacy and confidentiality of our participants and will never allow any interview or photography. Do check out our media policy. 

btn Free30DT orange An Evening with Ye Ruoshi: A Womans Journey of Overcoming VaginismusPlease note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

Questions? Email Martha here.

About Your Facilitator

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee decided to take it upon herself to right this societal injustice in 2007. She set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her Doctorate in Human Sexuality, then launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and has completed her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling. In practice for more than seven years, she is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network. She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here. 


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