FREE A.M.A. Ask Me Anything! – Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Posted On: May 2, 2023

Date(s) - 02/05/2023
7:30 pm - 9:00 pm


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In this FREE informal virtual Ask-Me-Anything session, you get the chance to ask Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee anything you want – particularly along the lines of love, sex, and anything in-between!

  • Love
  • Sex and…
  • Anything In-Between!

This session will be interactive, intimate, and personal.  It is an opportunity to ask those questions that may have been on your mind but were too afraid to ask anyone.There is an emphasis in maintaining safety and confidentiality, as well as in all present being non-judgmental, respectful of others, and thinking of others in their best light possible. My goal is to create an environment where you can ask anything without fear of judgment or being ignored because we all know how difficult it can be sometimes to talk about these things!

So ask away! No question will be left unanswered.

Some commonly asked questions have included:

  • Is there such a thing as female ejaculation?
  • Is it normal to masturbate?
  • How often should couples have sex?
  • … What is your question?

Virtual Format:

  • Inclusive – This session welcomes people of all gender, sexual orientation and abilities.
  • Safety – Conducted using Zoom, you can always turn your video and audio off, rename self, and private message the presenter so you can participate to the extent you’re comfortable with. You can also turn on an Avatar (probably need latest Zoom version and on laptop for this feature).
  • Recording – We will be recording the session so as to share it with those who signed up AND we might post extract of this recording publicly but never with identifying information.
  • Accessibility – Auto captioning will be provided and if you have a specific accessibility request, let us know at

This session welcomes people of all gender, sexual orientation and abilities. Conducted using Zoom, you can always turn your video and audio off, rename self, and private message the presenter so you can participate to the extent you’re comfortable with. Auto captioning will be provided and if you have a specific accessibility request, let us know at

All sharing and emotions are welcomed. Do note this is not a replacement for psychotherapy or intensive therapy.
How it works:
  1. You can choose to submit your questions before the session as I can make sure I get to them! I will not be putting your real name on the question itself. 🙂
  2. I will answer the pre-submitted questions followed by live questions.
  3. Participants can group message or private message me if there are any questions, or additional ones DURING and THROUGH the session.
Why am I doing this?
  1. I have done many AMAs. over the years (and once every quarter for the last 3 years I believe). The ability to use Zoom for such sessions has changed things up for people – absolutely ANONYMOUS!
  2. There really is NOTHING I don’t know about around love, sex and relationship. If I don’t know it, I will tell you but I guarantee you I have SOMETHING to say about it. And also, I am HAPPY to learn more from you and through you!
  3. I am more interested in your questions than fixing you. This is meant to be GROUP LEARNING. The learning extends to me. I will be kept on my toes, learning not to be more intuitive and support people better – so I LOVE IT! 🙂
  4. What I love about A.M.A. is that increasingly I am getting more person-specific questions and less topic-specific ones that I’ve answered a hundred or maybe a thousand times e.g. is there a g-spot etc. FYI I have 1,200 videos on YouTube where I already put out answers to commonly asked questions. It shows me that people’s knowledge is INCREASING and the questions are more precise in what they want to ask me.
  5. AMA is NOT a replacement for therapy. I will answer to the best of my ability but I don’t appreciate any specific person taking over the session, and then it becoming a virtual counseling/ coaching session. I will answer in a way that might best support everybody attending regardless of gender or sexual orientation –> meaning my answer can be a bit vague because of the lack of details. Obviously the back-and-forth i.e. clarification questions can ONLY happen in private sessions.
  6. I am answering for free out of goodwill, so please don’t harass, debate, argue, or attack me before, during or after the session (yes it has happened!).

Why Ask Martha?

  • Four degrees: Doctorate in Human Sexuality; Masters in Counseling; Masters in Public Policy & Management; Bachelor of Arts (Communication)
  • Related training: Certificates in Practical Counseling; Life Coaching, and Sex Therapy
  • Author of four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between; Orgasmic Yoga; From Princess to Queen; and {Un}Inhibited
  • Creator of several online programs: Ready, Get Sex, Go; Sex Possible; Sex Jumpstart; Tongue Twisters; Clean and Clear; Make Love Week; Sex & Sexuality 101
  • 14 years of experience coaching more than 1,300 individuals and couples combined face-to-face, as well as at least another 4,000 people over 450 events (lost count really!)

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Testimonials from Previous Sessions (Known as Ask-Away)

The Ask Away session gives a fantastic insight on many things and was definitely an eye opener on the many aspects of what seem to be simple questions but in reality what everyone wants to ask but do not know how and to whom to ask. It deals with real issues and hints how one can grow in the sensuality world of things the way Dr. Martha deals with the questions in addition to giving an understanding on the matter of the questions.  Keep up the good work Dr. Martha and know that you are helping many a persons. I would definitely encourage one and all to attend.” – Pal, April 2011

Ask Away was the perfect opportunity for me to go ahead and ask away! The session was held in an open concept forum and it was easy to fit in with the group mix that Dr Martha had put together. I certainly gained a lot from hearing out what others had to say about my questions which broadened my views and thinking levels. The best thing about it was that the questions were displayed anonymously, which is great for the shy ones – like me.” – Ask Away participant, April 2011

“Ask Away” was an excellent complimentary platform to allow shy or even skeptical people to learn & ask what good sex & applied sensuality can do for your relationships & self-esteem. The possibility of moving on to Dr Lee’s workshops-for-a-fee is certainly higher now, with the assurance that the issues discussed are something that can be resolved or improved, with mutual understanding between lovers absolutely needed to be fostered & reinforced. – Dennis, 30 year-old “Ask Away” participant, Feb 2011

“Thank you for your session last week entitled “Ask Away”. It was enlightening and I have discovered that I was somewhat clueless on some areas of sex and sexuality. The information you shared helped me understand men and women better and what it takes to have better sex life. It will  help to educate others who may have the same misunderstandings. The session was well conducted and open. I liked the free exchange of information and I did not feel uncomfortable about discussions of “taboo” topics! Especially that women will climax better through clitorial masturbation and some women will even ejaculate! I love the oral sex techniques as well. Of course I will  remember NEVER to “poke, poke”. (chuckle). Finally, though the environment was unfortunately marred by the renovations next door, I found your teaching to be entertaining and engaging. Overall, I will definitely attend again and would recommend others.” – B. Y., Feb 2011

“Ask Away was a great opportunity to learn more about sex in a relaxed setting. Dr Martha Lee is approachable and professional in her conduct of the workshop and that helps to put participants at ease when learning about a taboo topic like sex which is not often talked about openly in Singapore. I would highly recommend others to sign up for Ask Away if they have questions about sex or would simply like to learn more about it.” – Anonymous, Feb 2011

Date: Tues 2 May 2023

Time: 7:30 – 9:00p.m. Singapore Time (Latecomers will be locked out of the session. Recording available for 30 days for registered attendees)

Fee: Free

Venue: Online via Zoom

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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, and and She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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