Melb – Vulva Bliss: A Full-Day Workshop into Vulva Massage, Oral Techniques, and Common Concerns

Posted On: September 10, 2023

Date(s) - 10/09/2023
9:00 am - 5:00 pm


Vulva Bliss

Vulva Bliss: A Full-Day Workshop into Vulva Massage, Oral Techniques, and Common Concerns

In this workshop, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee will help you to understand the vulva and the vagina better (and how to give pleasure with touch), regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. You will feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs or that of your partner.

Are you ready to take your sexual knowledge and skills to the next level?

Join Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee for a full-day workshop on discovering vulva pleasure. Whether you’re a vulva owner or someone seeking to please a partner, this workshop is for you.

Dr Lee will guide you through the ins and outs of the vulva and vagina, helping you to feel more comfortable and in tune with your own needs or those of your partner. You’ll learn about vulva massage techniques, cunnilingus techniques, and how to overcome common challenges like lack of orgasm, inconsistent orgasms, and low sex drive.

This clothing-optional and hands-on workshop is open to individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Dr Lee’s pleasure techniques are based on the tantric vulva massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer, and she has been teaching them since 2009 as a trained sexological bodyworker.

Dr Lee’s facilitation style is direct, straight-talking, and witty. You can expect irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun. By the end of the workshop, you’ll have a better understanding of vulva pleasure and how to give your partner the best experience possible.

Don’t miss out on this ultimate workshop for vulva owners and people who love them. Come with an open mind and curiosity to learn, and leave with increased sexual knowledge, skills, and confidence. Register now for an exciting and informative full-day workshop with Dr Martha Tara Lee.

You Will Learn:

  1. Sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
  2. More than 20 erotic massage techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina, and the G spot
  3. More than 10 cunninglingus techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina
  4. Types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  5. The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  6. How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  7. How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  8. What an energy orgasm is

These are the same techniques taught to vulva owners (and their partners) who experience Vaginismus, painful sex, and lack of orgasm. They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork. You may well save yourself years of heartache, confusion, and sexual anxiety due to a lack of understanding about sexual functioning. All your emotions, questions, and laughter are welcomed!

Structure of the Day:

  • Welcome + introduction
  • Sexual anatomy explained
  • Common Sexual Concerns of Vulva Owners
  • Vulva massage techniques. Participate in vulva massage kiosks – individually, or as a pair, or as a witness if someone is willing.
  • Follow along as Dr Martha does demonstration and explanation of vulva massage with a live model
  • Group sharing + Q&A
  • Lunch
  • Cunninglingus techniques
  • Working through common sexual challenges of vulva owners
  • Time for questions and answers
  • Group sharing + Q&A

Interactive and Experiential parts:
The workshop is designed to be interactive and experiential, with hands-on segments. Participants are encouraged to bring their own sarong or towel to lie on, preferred lubricant, and plastic gloves if possible. Pillows for back and head support are also welcome (although the venue will provide cushions).

Participants can choose to do self-massage or have their partner (of any gender) practice the techniques alongside Dr Martha’s demonstration with explanation on a live model. For those attending alone, there will be opportunities to work with other singles, witness their practice, or simply observe the presenter’s demonstration.

Core Benefits for Participants:

  1. Increased sexual knowledge, confidence, and performance
  2. Letting go of the sexual shame around nudity and genital touch
  3. Understand the link between genital massage and common sexual challenges vulva owners face – for instance, genital massage can increase skills around orgasm and decrease pain
  4. Increased confidence and creativity with vulva play / massage


  1. Comfortable clothes
  2. Towel/ sarong for lying on the floor
  3. Preferred lubricant and plastic gloves (although these will also be provided)
  4. Pillow(s) for back/head support (cushions will be available)
  5. Water bottle

Date: Sun 10 Sept 2023

Time: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (8 hours)

Fee: AU$225

Venue: Collingwood, Melbourne, Australia (Exact address will be disclosed upon confirmation)

Download the PDF brochure of Dr Martha’s September tour here.

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Please note that no refund will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

Download the PDF brochure of Dr Martha’s September tour here.

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. She is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, and and She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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