How to Get Clear About Relationship Patterns and Attract Your Ideal Partner (for Singles)

Posted On: September 17, 2016

Date(s) - 17/09/2016
5:00 pm - 10:00 pm

The Blue Lotus


Don’t let being single stop you from following in love with yourself

Heard of this phrase: “We need to love ourselves before we can love anyone else”? This is so true. We attract what we are.

You know that feeling when meeting somebody and you instantly have chemistry? That instant, magnetic connection that’s overwhelming and difficult to ignore? The one that stimulates all your senses but cannot be explained? The world is our mirror and the people we attract a reflection of where we are at.

It’s time to do some adjusting of the side-view mirror to reflect on who you are, look back and see how much you’ve grown, and crystalise what you do want to manifest.

We are inviting all singles to join us in returning to loving ourselves – the most important relationship you can have in your life i.e. with yourself.

We all know it’s perfectly okay to be single and to love yourself – but do we really? The status of “in a relationship” should not reflect a dependency on someone else, but rather, the power of togetherness. Make your destiny a destination of choice, not chance or fate. You hold the key to the lock that is life.

Join us and reclaim yourself

Workshop Outline:


  • Past –  Examining the relationship past and patterns we have
  • Releasing negative thoughts and beliefs in a burning ritual
  • Present – Getting clear about the type of romantic relationships you want

  • Gaining clarity of the qualities of the partner you want
  • Future – Visualising receiving your intention powerfully

  • Celebrating in singlehood with food, music and dance

“Very productive session that focuses on the right questions without going around in circles. I liked the structure of the program – Past, Present, Future – where we are able to face our issues one by one. It’s progressive.” – Anonymous Female, 20s, 6 July 2016

“Simple exercises well-explained by Martha which brings you back to yourself and you realise how beautiful you are, how emotional you are, and you fall in love with yourself again.” – Anonymous Male, 30s, 6 July 2016

“The exercise done to release the past was effective for me. There was an immediate sense of lightness and relief for me after the exercise. Martha shared much of her personal experiences and practices that worked for her which I felt was beneficial for me as well.” – Tan Jiatong, 6 July 2016

“When we speak of our first loves, one typically thinks of our first crush or lover, when in truth, it should be ourselves (or maybe even our parents, especially mom). My First Love workshop drove home that point, and highlighted the importance of loving myself first and foremost, being complete and whole before we could speak of loving another. I also had great fun visualizing and imagining my ideal partner. “ – Ling Ling, 36, 6 July 2016

Date: Sat 17 Sept

Time: 5:00 – 10:00pm

Venue: The Blue Lotus. 39 Tembeling Road, Singapore 423582

What to wear: Please wear comfortable clothes as we will be doing activity on the floor. If you identify as female, you are encouraged to come in clothes that make you feel feminine.

Investment: Inclusive of tea break and dinner

Option 1: S$148 per person

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Option 2: S$228 (coming with a friend )

btn Free30DT orange Divine Union: Witnessing the Divine in You and Your PartnerPlease note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

For enquiries, please email

About the FacilitatorMartha s The Sexually {A} Man

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist in Singapore who has a doctorate in human sexuality. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. For her full profile, click here.

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