Red Tent Gathering – for all Women

Posted On: October 31, 2016

Date(s) - 31/10/2016
7:00 pm - 10:00 pm

The Blue Lotus


What is a Red Tent?

Traditionally Red Tents (or sometimes known as a Moon lodge) were a space created for women to come and be at their time of menstruation. They were created by women for women and decorated with red. Now they are seen as a safe space for women to gather and experience what it is like to feel heard and cared for by other women. A place where women can take off the armour of everyday and relax into being truly themselves.

abstract_2008011858-1113int.epsSharing about women’s matters that other women can relate to without judgment or shame. A place to slow down and feel our deep innate wisdom bubbling up. A place to reclaim your worth and beauty. A place where it is possible to feel vulnerable and relaxed at the same time. And a place to remember the power of woman in all her faces, ages and manifestations.

For women to really flourish and live as their full self we need to move beyond competition and fear between women. To create a new story of woman that is not rooted in a patriarchal context. We need to stop isolating ourselves and trying to ‘manage alone’. We need to reach out for support because women work best collectively. Simply put – we need each other – both on a personal level as well as for the collective transformation that is happening for humanity at this time. The red tent project is designed to meet this vision.

What we will do:

  • Circle sharing
  • Meditation
  • Lunar Manifestation
  • Special presentations
  • Celebrate life, love and sisterhood

Why the Red Tent Is Held at New Moon

The new moon is the optimal time to focus on endings & beginnings as it is the void time between the last lunar cycle ending & the new one beginning. This provides the perfect opportunity for reflecting upon what your lesson has been in the previous month as well as attuning to the astrological transits and celestial/ seasonal events approaching in the coming month, and how best to make the most of those opportunities for growth & healing of past patterns.

Red Tent offers a space for women to speak on matters close to their heart, without judgement. It is like a mini women’s support group! There is something powerful about hearing each other’s stories. It connects people, and I was able to learn something from each members, and felt inspired. While all of us in the group do not know each other, Martha was able to create a safe environment for us to express our thoughts and feelings. I am glad I took time to attend the session, and would definitely go back for more sessions.– Anonymous, 13 Mar 2016
“I think it’s a really nice venue to just vent without any reactions. just talk and talk without feeling judged. or no notion that some peoples concerns are more important than others. we’re all struggling! these opportunities are hard to find! I really like that in Red Tent, everyone’s issues and desires are given equal importance!! :)” – Anonymous, 10 Mar 2016

For more testimonials, click here.

Date : Mon 31 Oct 2016

Time: 7 – 10p.m. (Doors open 6:30p.m.)

Venue: The Blue Lotus, 39 Tembeling Road Singapore 423582

Directions: Bus 33. If coming by cab (advisable), you may wish to tell the cab driver that it is a shophouse, diagionally opposite Kuam Im Tng Temple, and at the cross-junction of Joo Chiat Place.

Donation: S$30 (Recommended)

What to wear: Please wear red if you can to help create the feeling of the red tent and bring food to share if you can.

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NOTE: There is a limited number of spaces and advanced booking is ESSENTIAL. We ask for a three-day cancellation notice period of for some reason you cannot make it. This is so that there is enough time for another woman to be able to make plans to come (especially if woman have been told it is full and are on a waiting list)

For reservations, please email

About the Facilitator

Dr Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists), as well as a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. More here.



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