Soul Gazing

Posted On: September 3, 2016

Date(s) - 03/09/2016
7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

The Blue Lotus


Do you believe that your eyes are the windows to your soul? Do you think your eyes can speak volumes? Would you agree that eye contact is essential to connecting intimately with another person?Brown eye close-up

At this event, we will ensure an even number of people will meet and split into pairs, each of whom will spend up to two minutes looking into each other’s eyes. Let time and space stand still – and see if sparks fly!

This will be followed by a few games, music and mingling. Come break the ice with us! Pre-registration and payment is required.


“It was a very liberating experience. It taught me confidence and to come out of my comfort zone to actually look at my partner in his eyes when I talk to him. It has also helped me in better connecting with my partner.  I have actually started to make a conscious effort to look at a person’s eyes when I talk to him/her.” – Pearly Phua, April 2012

“Soul gazing not just helps you understand other but also yourself. As in what is a soul seeking, wanting and focused on. It gives another dimension of who you are and how to perceive the greater world around you.” – New age enthu guy, 26, 2 July 2016

“Soul Gazing is what brings us back to the feeling of being human. It brings us to a place where we have shared humanity and can accept a human the way it is.” – Male, 2 July 2016

“It was admittedly quite disconcerting at the first try – gazing into a stranger’s eyes with the sole intention to sense/ understand him/ her. But once you get past the initial discomfort and observe the thoughts and feelings that arise, it became an amazing experience to feel another person’s soul in a non verbal way.” – Tan Jiatong, 2 July 2016

“I wasn’t sure what to expect at the Soul Gazing workshop, but I was very pleasantly surprised and appreciated my insights and connections from the workshop. While it was strange to be consciously and mindfully looking into someone else’s eyes, after the first few seconds, I felt more at ease and could connect in some sense with my partner. The most touching exercise was the mirror work, the opportunity to look deeper into myself. It was a very well thought out programme. Thanks Martha for facilitating and cooking dinner!” – Ling Ling, 36, 2 July 2016

Date: Sat 3 Sept

Time: 7:30 –  10p.m. (Please arrive by 7:15p.m.)

Fee: $48 per person; $80 for two person (includes dinner)

Venue:  The Blue Lotus. 39 Tembeling Road, Singapore 423582

Option 1: S$48 per person

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Option 2: $80 for two person

btn Free30DT orange Divine Union: Witnessing the Divine in You and Your PartnerPlease note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

About the Facilitator

Martha s The Sexually {A} ManDr Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists), as well as a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. More here.

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