The Art of Soul Gazing

Posted On: September 4, 2018

Date(s) - 04/09/2018
7:15 pm - 9:30 pm

Bakery & Bar


Do you believe that your eyes are the windows to your soul? Do you think your eyes can speak volumes? Would you agree that eye contact is essential to connecting intimately with another person?

At this event, we will ensure an even number of people will meet and split into pairs, each of whom will spend up to two minutes looking into each other’s eyes. Let time and space stand still – and see if sparks fly!

Pre-registration and payment is required.


“It was very deep, with busy life and routine we often forget about who we are and how we develop our contact with our souls. This workshop, though very simple, will make you different and more connected with yourself and sympathetic to others. Thank you Martha.” – Nouf Alammari, Kuwait, 4 Sept 2018

“Soul gazing not just helps you understand others but also yourself. As in what is a soul seeking, wanting and focused on. It gives another dimension of who you are and how to perceive the greater world around you.” – New age enthu guy, 26, 2 July 2016

“Soul Gazing is what brings us back to the feeling of being human. It brings us to a place where we have shared humanity and can accept a human the way it is. – Male, 2 July 2016

“It was admittedly quite disconcerting at the first try – gazing into a stranger’s eyes with the sole intention to sense/ understand him/ her. But once you get past the initial discomfort and observe the thoughts and feelings that arise, it became an amazing experience to feel another person’s soul in a non verbal way.” – Tan Jiatong, 2 July 2016

“I wasn’t sure what to expect at the Soul Gazing workshop, but I was very pleasantly surprised and appreciated my insights and connections from the workshop. While it was strange to be consciously and mindfully looking into someone else’s eyes, after the first few seconds, I felt more at ease and could connect in some sense with my partner. The most touching exercise was the mirror work, the opportunity to look deeper into myself. It was a very well thought out programme. Thanks Martha for facilitating and cooking dinner!” – Ling Ling, 36, 2 July 2016

“It was a very liberating experience. It taught me confidence and to come out of my comfort zone to actually look at my partner in his eyes when I talk to him. It has also helped me in better connecting with my partner.  I have actually started to make a conscious effort to look at a person’s eyes when I talk to him/her.” – Pearly Phua, April 2012


Date: Tues 4 Sept 2018

Time: 7:15 – 9:30 p.m. (We will be starting at 7:30p.m. sharp)

Venue: Bakery & Bar. 112 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068581

Directions: Nearest MRT is Telok Ayer MRT (just across the street!). Followed by Raffles Place MRT.

Energy Exchange: $60 per person (includes 1 drink and finger food);

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Please note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

About Your Facilitator  – Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and completed her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in 2017. In practice for coming to 10 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network.  She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.


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