The Love Lab: A Two-Day Retreat for Couples Ready to Deepen Their Connection

Posted On: December 2, 2023

Date(s) - 02/12/2023 - 03/12/2023
9:00 am - 5:00 pm


Join us for a transformative two-day retreat Love Lab designed specifically for couples seeking to enhance their relationship and sexual well-being. The Love Lab retreat, led by renowned Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, will provide couples with the knowledge, skills, and tools to deepen their connection, explore their sexual desires, and overcome common challenges.

During this immersive retreat, couples will engage in interactive discussions, experiential exercises, and personalized guidance to address a range of topics including the Triangular Theory of Love. This theory explores the three components of love: intimacy, passion, and commitment, and how they interact to shape relationships. Adopting this Triangular Theory of Love can help couples navigate their own dynamics and cultivate a more fulfilling and balanced love.

With a focus on creating a safe and non-judgmental environment, couples will have the opportunity to explore their desires, communicate openly about their needs and boundaries, and learn practical strategies for improving their sexual and emotional connection.

Whether you are newlyweds looking to establish a strong foundation or long-term partners seeking to reignite the spark in your relationship, Love Lab retreat is designed to meet your unique needs. Don’t miss this opportunity to invest in your relationship and embark on a journey of growth and fulfillment together.

Love Lab is for you if:

  1. You are a recently married couple excited to attend The Love Lab retreat to establish a strong foundation for your marriage, deepen your emotional connection, and learn practical strategies for maintaining a passionate and fulfilling relationship.
  2. You are a couple facing challenges in your relationship and determined to overcome them by addressing common sex problems, learning effective communication techniques, and strengthening your commitment.
  3. You are new parents seeking to navigate the complexities of balancing parenthood and maintaining a strong romantic connection. You want to learn strategies for prioritizing your relationship, improving communication as parents, and creating a loving and supportive environment for your family.

Course Outline:

Day 1:
9:00 a.m.: Welcome & Introduction
9:30 a.m.: Relationship Diagnosis: Assessing the strengths and challenges in your relationship
11:00 a.m.: Break
11:15 a.m.: Common Sex Problems & Resolutions Part 1: Addressing challenges and finding solutions
12:30 p.m.: Lunch Break
1:30 p.m.: Sexual Anatomy Part 1: Understanding the physical aspects of pleasure
3:00 p.m.: Break
3:15 p.m.: Sexual Pleasure Techniques Part 1: Exploring new ways to enhance intimacy
4:30 p.m.: Reflections & Closing
5:00 p.m.: End of Day 1

Day 2: 
9:00 a.m.: Triangular Theory of Love: Exploring the components of love and their impact on relationships
9:30 a.m.: Personality and Stress Behavior: Understanding how personality traits and stress impact your relationship
10:45 a.m.: Break
11:00 a.m.: Triggers Identification: Recognizing and managing triggers that affect intimacy
12:00 p.m.: Lunch Break
1:00 p.m.: Sexual Anatomy Part 2: Understanding the physical aspects of pleasure
2:00 p.m.: Sexual Pleasure Techniques Part 2: Enhance intimacy
3:00 p.m.: Break
3:15 p.m.: Common Sex Problems & Resolutions Part 2: Delving deeper into addressing challenges and finding solutions
4:30 p.m.: Q&A and Closing Remarks
5:00 p.m.: End of Retreat

Objectives of the Retreat:

  1. Enhance communication and connection between couples, fostering a deeper understanding of each other’s needs and desires.
  2. Provide couples with a comprehensive understanding of sexual anatomy, pleasure techniques, common sex problems, and the Triangular Theory of Love, empowering them to address challenges and enhance their sexual experiences.
  3. Explore the impact of personality traits and stress on the relationship, equipping couples with strategies to manage stress and maintain emotional well-being.
  4. Identify triggers that affect intimacy and develop personalized scripts and checklists to navigate challenging situations.
  5. Foster a safe and non-judgmental environment for couples to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies.
  6. Provide couples with practical tools and strategies to reignite the spark in their relationship and maintain long-term passion.
  7. Offer a space for couples to reflect on their relationship, identify areas for growth, and set goals for the future.

Benefits of Attending:

  1. Deepen emotional intimacy: Through open and honest conversations, couples can gain a better understanding of each other’s needs, desires, and vulnerabilities. For example, one couple may discover that quality time together is essential for emotional connection, while another couple may realize the importance of expressing appreciation and gratitude.
  2. Enhance sexual pleasure: By learning about sexual anatomy, pleasure techniques, and common sex problems, couples can explore new ways to enhance their sexual experiences. For instance, they may discover specific erogenous zones or experiment with different positions or techniques that bring them increased pleasure and satisfaction.
  3. Improve communication skills: Effective communication is key to a healthy relationship. The retreat will provide couples with practical tools and strategies to improve their communication skills and resolve conflicts constructively. They will learn techniques such as active listening, using “I” statements, and practicing empathy to foster better understanding and connection.
  4. Strengthen commitment: Exploring the Triangular Theory of Love and understanding the components of love can help couples strengthen their commitment to each other.
  5. Manage stress and triggers: Understanding how personality traits and stress impact the relationship can help couples manage stress more effectively. They will learn relaxation techniques or develop coping mechanisms to navigate challenging situations without compromising their emotional well-being.


To register for the retreat, please visit our website at or contact us at Early bird registration is available until 30 Oct 2023, with a discounted rate of S$2,200 per couple (that’s S$550 per day per person!). Regular registration will be available until 20 November, with a fee of S$2,800 per couple.

Included in the registration fee are all materials, refreshments, and lunch for both days of the retreat. Accommodation and transportation are not included.

Please note that spaces are limited to ensure an intimate setting conducive to deep exploration and personal growth, and registration will be on a first-come, first-served basis. We encourage couples to register early to secure their spots.

Note: This retreat is open to couples of all genders and sexual orientations.

Invest in your relationship today and embark on a transformative journey of love, connection, and sexual well-being. We look forward to welcoming you to The Love Lab retreat.

Date: Sat and Sun 2 – 3 Dec 2023

Time: 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Venue: 73 Upper Paya Lebar Road, Centro Biano, Singapore 534818 (- 4mins walking from Tai Seng MRT)

Capacity: Limited to 7 couples


S$2,200 per couple (before 30 October 2023)
S$2,800 per couple (after 30 October 2023)

Installment scheme available but must be paid before start date.

Next Steps:

  1. Complete this online enrollment form.
  2. Wait for confirmation on virtual interview with Dr Martha Tara Lee.
  3. Make online payment below.
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Or want to ask Dr Martha some questions about this workshop in-person? 
You can book a 15min zoom session here.

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Early Bird: S$2,200 per couple (before 30 October 2023)
Sign up now!
Regular: S$2,800 per couple (after 30 October 2023)


Q1: Is this retreat suitable for all couples, regardless of sexual orientation or relationship status?

A: Absolutely! The Love Lab retreat welcomes couples of all sexual orientations and relationship statuses. Whether you are married, in a long-term partnership, engaged, or dating, this Love Lab retreat is designed to help you deepen your connection and enhance your intimacy.

Q2: Will our privacy be respected during the retreat?

A: Yes, privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance at The Love Lab retreat. All participants will be asked to sign a confidentiality agreement to ensure that everyone feels safe and comfortable sharing their experiences and desires.

Q3: What should I bring to The Love Lab retreat?

A: We recommend bringing the following items:
  1. Notebooks/journals for taking notes during discussions and exercises.
  2. Pens/pencils for jotting down thoughts, reflections, and important information.
  3. Comfortable clothing that allows for ease of movement during experiential exercises.
  4. A water bottle to stay hydrated throughout the retreat.
  5. You may also bring any personal items or materials that will contribute to your comfort and overall experience.

Q4: What if we have specific concerns or issues we want to address during the retreat?

A: The Love Lab retreat is designed to be flexible and personalized to meet the needs of each couple. Prior to the retreat, you will have the opportunity to discuss any specific concerns or issues you want to address with Dr. Martha Tara Lee. She will tailor the workshops and discussions to ensure that your unique needs are met.

Q5: Will there be any group activities or discussions?

A: Yes, there will be group activities and discussions during the retreat. These activities are designed to foster connection, encourage open communication, and create a supportive community among the participants. However, if you prefer more private sessions, individual consultations can be arranged.

Don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any further questions or concerns. Contact us at to secure your spot at The Love Lab retreat and embark on a transformative journey of love and intimacy.

Sign up now!
Early Bird: S$2,200 per couple (before 30 October 2023)
Sign up now!
Regular: S$2,800 per couple (after 30 October 2023)

Facilitated by Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Counseling, she launched Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualised and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples who have unconsummated marriage, individuals with sexual inhibitions and discrepancies in sexual desire, men with erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. Dr. Lee welcomes all sexual orientations and is available for online and face-to-face consultations. Martha speaks English and Mandarin.

She is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region (as of 2011) and is also an AASECT certified sexuality educator supervisor (as of 2018). She strives to provide fun, educational, and sex-positive events and is often cited in the media including Huffington PostNewsweek, South China Morning Post, and more. She is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, Of, and Virtus Fertility Centre. She is the host of radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. In recognition of her work, she was named one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013),  Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019).

For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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