Posted On: November 25, 2010
Written by Andrew Loh, the current Editor of The Online Citizen. Posted on his Facebook under Notes on 22 Nov 2010 and reposted here with permission. “When Ravi Philemon first told me he’d asked Martha to write for us (and that she’s agreed), I was rather intrigued. I’d come across Martha’s website – https://www.eroscoaching.com/ – […]
Posted On: November 24, 2010
This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. Last Sunday on 14 November, a Singapore paper reported how eleven plus-sized women have put together a nude calendar to inspire other plus-sized women that their body shape does not signify the end of the world. This is a brave, encouraging and positive move by the […]
Posted On: November 23, 2010
This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. Anxiety is a normal part of life. We all have experienced anxiety at some point of our lives. In fact, anxiety is one mechanism that evolved to keep us alert and help us cope in stressful events or situations. More specifically, performance anxiety refers to self-consciousness about […]
Posted On: November 22, 2010
If you have been following my blog here, you may recall a previous post where I mentioned looking forward to watching an 83-minute feature film/documentary called Cowboys in Paradise. This is a controversial work because this is the first film about what is perhaps the most well-known open ‘secret’ of Bali – their ‘Kuta Cowboys’. […]
Posted On: November 19, 2010
When I have heard people discussing which lubricants they use, usually what they mention using are products commonly available at convenience stores, such as Watsons. However, I have also heard them complaining in the same breath that the lubricant dries up too quickly. All lubricants are not made equally. Don’t let bad experiences with lube […]
Posted On: November 17, 2010
This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. A girlfriend of mine has fond memories of her dates with the men in Bali. They are sweet, romantic and good-natured. She desperately hopes to return one day. I was intrigued. What is the allure of the men of Bali? Apparently, thousands of women travel to […]
Posted On: November 17, 2010
This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. Karen Mok is a two-time Golden Melody Award-winning Hong Kong-based actress and singer/songwriter. In case you assume this makes it likely that she is yet another bimbo, think again. She attended the United World College of the Adriatic near Trieste, Italy from 1987 to 1989, and […]
Posted On: November 17, 2010
This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. I was browsing through the October issue of an expat magazine recently when I chanced upon an article entitled, “Well-being and Sex”. Intrigued, I read the piece, only to come upon the sexual terms: ‘sexual transmitted diseases’, ‘impotence’ and ‘frigidity’. The author is obviously not a sexologist […]
Posted On: November 17, 2010
This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. Touch is the medium through which we first become acquainted with the world. It is the first means of communication between the newborn baby and the mother. Research has shown that many babies who are raised in an orphanage and are not handled and touched on a […]
Posted On: November 12, 2010
Everything about the Zini Deux screams special – including the beautiful box it comes in that could double as an accessories casing. I showed this new sex toy to my friends, and they said (unanimously) that it was ‘cool’ and resembled a futuristic computer mouse. The Zini Deux is definitely cool. After all, it won […]
Posted On: November 12, 2010
“BJ Blast? What’s that?” I asked Lincoln, the owner of U4Ria. “It’s just like the fizzy candy we ate as little kids”, came the reply. Really? BJ Blast comes in strawberry, cherry and green apple. I was keen to try the Green Apple flavour – sweet but not too girly. I did a Google search […]
Posted On: November 11, 2010
My ideas are worth exploring and my creative acts are sacred, worthwhile and valuable. I answer the call to create without feeling I am taking away from something or someone. I know that I have something unique to say and create, that is only mine to express, and so it is original. I surrender my […]
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