“I really admire the courage of Dr Martha to enter into this rare industry whereby people look at her differently.”

Posted On: February 16, 2010

“I really admire the courage of Dr Martha to enter into this rare industry whereby people look at her differently. After listening to her, I think she is really professional and has good knowledge of the subject despite her young age. Keep it up, Martha! You are GREAT!” – Angelia Tan, Talk Attendee

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"Martha is THE EXPERT in her field of work and she is extremely passionate about her work!"

Posted On: February 16, 2010

“Martha is THE EXPERT in her field of work and she is extremely passionate about her work!” SEX is a taboo word in Asia up bringing. Sometimes we may even find difficulties to make enquires to a doctor. Doctors may answer the ‘hardware’ problem, it is the ‘software’ that is causing the problem and they […]

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Love at the Supermarket?

Posted On: February 14, 2010

Chinese singles looking for love this Valentine’s day is getting support from a Beijing supermarket. The “I’m Looking For You” market opened in November 2009, for the China’s unofficial “Singles Day” which is marked on the 11th of that month. Since then, the supermarket has attracted more than 1,000 clients and successfully matched more than […]

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Would you settle for Mr Good Enough?

Posted On: February 13, 2010

In Lori Gottlieb’s new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough, she says she hesitated before dating she hesitated before dating someone because he had the name of a “nerdy sidekick.” There are two views: for and against settling for Mr Good Enough. Single women often declare they’d “rather be alone” […]

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Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Posted On: February 12, 2010

During intercourse, it is the outer third of the vagina that is most stimulated. Some women are able to orgasm through this vaginal penetration. That is, vaginal orgasm — without clitoral stimulation. However research has shown that (Shere Hite’s 1976 survey of 3000 women) only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse. The clitoris, […]

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In Search of the ‘Perfect’ Vulva

Posted On: February 10, 2010

Vulvoplasty: This is cosmetic surgery performed on the outside genital structures include removal of unwanted fat from different parts of the vulva, such as in the pubic area, around the outer lips (vulva lipoplasty). This documentary video is long but worth watching. I liked the different words used to refer to vulva – from fanny, […]

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Sex Does Cause Wrist Pain

Posted On: February 9, 2010

A controversial new U.K. report suggested too much sex is responsible for wrist pain. Repetitive movements during lovemaking put extra weight on the wrists, said a top medical practitioner, which can cause carpal tunnel syndrome – one of the most common types of wrist problem in Britain. “Sexual intercourse can explain the increase in the […]

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China: Female Migrants Affected by Sexual Frustration too

Posted On: February 8, 2010

The problem of sexual frustration was not limited to men who took up jobs away from their spouses and families. ‘Many young women who have migrated from rural areas, where sex education is nonexistent, experience a culture shock in bustling cities. They may follow in their friends’ footsteps by adopting a more open attitude toward […]

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Singapore: 9% of Women have Faced Abuse

Posted On: February 7, 2010

A random poll of about 2,000 women aged between 18 and 69 found about 9 per cent had experienced some form of violence in their lifetime – significantly lower than their counterparts in the Czech Republic, Australia and the Philippines. The International Violence Against Women Survey, developed by global bodies including the UN Interregional Crime […]

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Japan: Job-secure Singles Looking for Potential Spouse

Posted On: February 6, 2010

People with a secure job are more active than those without in their efforts to search for a partner, according to a survey by a team at Tokyo University. The university’s Institute of Social Science sought to shed light on changes in work and home life. Its survey found that the degree to which workers […]

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On Boundaries

Posted On: February 5, 2010

Guess which celebrity said this: “I don’t flirt. Even if you don’t actually touch someone or do anything to them, it’s disrespectful to your husband. I would never do that. I’m very devoted, and he’s the same.” Click here. On the same day, I came across this piece: public displays of affection is apparently acceptable […]

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O’Donnell: ‘Lesbians Stay Connected After Divorce’

Posted On: February 4, 2010

Rosie O’Donnell’s ‘divorce’ from longtime partner Kelli Carpenter was smooth and drama-free because neither partner wanted to fight and lose touch with each other. The A League of Their Own star insists women can always find a way to split graciously because they always want what’s best for everyone involved. Do you agree with this? […]

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