In Lori Gottlieb’s new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough, she says she hesitated before dating she hesitated before dating someone because he had the name of a “nerdy sidekick.”
Single women often declare they’d “rather be alone” than settle for someone who doesn’t fill out their (usually unrealistic) checklist. Gottlieb’s advice is: think carefully, ladies. Because, with that mentality, alone is how you’re probably going to end up.
She also said, “If you think all men are commitment-phobes, then commitment-phobes are clearly the only kind of man you date.”
It seems there is a lot in there that runs parallel with the principles of Law Of Attraction: You are what you think; You manifest what you believe. You certainly deserve the best and not to ‘settle’ but do you genuinely believe you want get your ideal him?