Posted On: December 16, 2025
My New Words Learned From 2025 A May–December romance – Refers to a relationship with a significant age gap, where one partner is much older and the other much younger. The term reflects the contrast between youthful “May” and mature “December.” Banksying – Slowly withdrawing emotionally from a partner without telling them. By the time […]
Posted On: December 15, 2025
Why dating didn’t fail — the system did 2025 wasn’t the year people stopped wanting connection. It was the year the economic foundations of partnership caught up with reality—and many people quietly opted out. Not through ideology, but through recognizing that traditional pathways no longer made practical sense. Here are the ten structural shifts that […]
Posted On: December 15, 2025
What changed — and why it actually matters For years, sexology lived in an uncomfortable no-man’s land—too medical for psychology, too personal for medicine, too taboo for routine healthcare. In 2025, that started to shift. Not through louder sex-positive messaging or viral conversations, but through guidelines, approvals, and implementation frameworks that quietly moved sexual health […]
Posted On: December 13, 2025
Every year-end, people ask the same questions. “What did I achieve?” “What are my goals?” “What’s my word for next year?” I’m not against any of that. But in my work, I see a more honest reality: Many people don’t need more motivation. They need a safer way to tell the truth about what’s been […]
Posted On: December 10, 2025
Vaginismus isn’t just physical — it’s an emotional rollercoaster too. 😔😤😢💔 From confusion to courage, fear to freedom — you’re not alone. 🤝💪✨ Swipe to explore the emotional journey — and how healing is possible. ❤️🩹 The Emotional Journey of Vaginismus Recovery While vaginismus is a physical condition, the emotional impact is just as significant. […]
Posted On: December 1, 2025
Sexual wellness directly affects mental health and overall well-being in ways many of us fail to recognize. We often compartmentalize these aspects of our lives, but our intimate experiences profoundly shape our self-worth, relationships, and stress levels. True sexual empowerment transcends technique—it encompasses self-awareness, communication, and liberation from shame. It extends beyond libido or performance […]
Posted On: November 22, 2025
This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]
Posted On: November 20, 2025
Vaginal pain and dryness—especially around perimenopause and menopause—are common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. Your comfort matters. The fastest wins usually come from a two-part plan: (1) daily moisture to nourish the tissue and (2) the right lubricant and tools to make touch and sex comfortable again. Below are my go-to, body-safe picks […]
Posted On: November 15, 2025
Selecting the perfect gift for your significant other can be both delightful and challenging, especially when considering their birth month and astrological sign. For those in Singapore seeking Asian-owned brands offering exquisite gifts such as wine, jewelry, candles, and body care products, here’s a curated list tailored to each zodiac sign. Each recommendation includes one […]
Posted On: November 5, 2025
What is Vaginismus? This is the most common sexuality concern that clients come to Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching since 2009. Here are some treatments that work. Vaginismus Treatment Approaches that Work 1. Comprehensive Assessment: Identifying physical, emotional, and relational factors contributing to vaginismus. 2. Pelvic Floor Physical […]
Posted On: November 1, 2025
I was bullied relentlessly growing up. Classmates didn’t only call me “fat”—they declared me “the ugliest girl in school.” Not just in my class, but the entire school. I had what adults dismissively called “baby fat,” but being called ugliest cut deeper and longer than anyone realized. When I share this now, people often don’t […]
Posted On: October 20, 2025
1. What is TOO MUCH? 🤔 on Thurs 11 Dec 2025 What is enough and when does it get too much? 🫣 2. Ask Dr Martha Anything! 🗣️ on Thur 27 Nov 2025 Why do men think women take “too long” to warm up? Are men actually more romantic than women? Get your questions answered […]
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