Rekindling the Flame: Strategies for Managing Sexual Disinterest

Rekindling the Flame: Strategies for Managing Sexual Disinterest

Posted On: January 12, 2024

Sexual disinterest can be a difficult thing to navigate. It can be a source of frustration, confusion, and even shame. Whether it’s a lack of interest in sex, difficulty becoming aroused, or difficulty reaching orgasm, it can be hard to talk about and even harder to understand. This blog will provide information on the causes […]

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What Did Your Last Great Sexual Experience Look Like?

What Did Your Last Great Sexual Experience Look Like?

Posted On: January 1, 2024

A lot of people don’t like talking about sex. But what if you didn’t have to? Instead, this is an invite to reflect on: What’s your last great sexual experience look like? Was it a one-night stand? A passionate affair? A quickie at the office? Or did it involve your partner in front of a […]

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My New Words Learned From 2023

My New Words Learned From 2023

Posted On: December 30, 2023

Language is ever evolving and new words are developed to better communicate what we mean. Check the new relationship and sex terms I wrote about in 2017 which was published in Huffington Post, and 2022! This year, I decided to gathering new words that I’ve learned. These are my new words from 2023! Let me […]

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Navigating the Intersectionality of Autism and Sexuality

Navigating the Intersectionality of Autism and Sexuality

Posted On: December 24, 2023

Autism is a developmental disorder that affects social interaction, communication, and behavior. People with autism often experience challenges in navigating social situations, which can make exploring their sexuality and gender identity more difficult. In fact, studies have shown that people with autism tend to identify as LGBTQIA at higher rates than the general population. According […]

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Alone in the Room: What to Do When Your Partner Refuses Therapy

Alone in the Room: What to Do When Your Partner Refuses Therapy

Posted On: December 11, 2023

It can be difficult to deal with a partner who is not willing to attend therapy. It can be a source of frustration, anger, and sadness. However, there are ways to cope with this situation and still work towards a healthier relationship. Here are some tips for dealing with your partner not being willing to […]

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Milestones for 2023

Milestones for 2023

Posted On: December 9, 2023

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JANUARY […]

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Navigating Sexuality and Disability in Dating: 4 Tips and Scripts

Navigating Sexuality and Disability in Dating: 4 Tips and Scripts

Posted On: October 30, 2023

As a Sexologist, I have worked with individuals with disabilities who are navigating the dating world. While dating can be challenging for anyone, it can be especially difficult for those with disabilities who may face additional barriers when it comes to navigating sexuality and intimacy. In this blog post, I will provide some tips and […]

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Breaking Down Barriers: Sexuality and Disability

Breaking Down Barriers: Sexuality and Disability

Posted On: October 24, 2023

Sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human life, yet it is often overlooked or ignored when it comes to people with disabilities. The truth is that people with disabilities have the same sexual desires and needs as anyone else. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions surrounding sexuality and disability that prevent people from fully […]

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The Importance of Self-Love in Disability and Sexuality

The Importance of Self-Love in Disability and Sexuality

Posted On: October 12, 2023

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with many individuals with disabilities who struggle with negative self-beliefs around their sexuality. These beliefs can be deeply ingrained and can prevent them from experiencing pleasure, intimacy, and connection with others. However, it’s important to remember that these beliefs are not true and can be […]

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Don’t Get Tricked: 10 Signs You’re Being Lured Into Bed

Don’t Get Tricked: 10 Signs You’re Being Lured Into Bed

Posted On: August 17, 2023

Being tricked into bed with someone can be a difficult and confusing experience. It can leave you feeling violated, embarrassed, and unsure of how to move forward. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for people to be manipulated or coerced into sexual activities they are not comfortable with. It is important to be aware of the […]

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Unlock the Secrets of Love: The 5 Love Languages

Unlock the Secrets of Love: The 5 Love Languages

Posted On: August 3, 2023

I’ve been working with individuals and couples around relationship and sexuality concerns and challenges for coming to 15 years now, and believe it or not, and I don’t know why I haven’t written a blog specifically about the Five Love Languages. Perhaps because it is so well-known that it seems to need little introduction, or […]

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Breaking the Silence: How to Deal with a Partner Who Won’t Talk

Breaking the Silence: How to Deal with a Partner Who Won’t Talk

Posted On: July 27, 2023

Communication is essential to any successful relationship. When your partner stops communicating, it can be a difficult and confusing situation. It can be hard to know what to do when your partner won’t communicate, but there are some steps you can take to try to get the conversation back on track. Giving your partner space […]

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