Testimonials – The Art of Penis Pleasuring

Posted On: May 29, 2010

My popular Sizzling Strokes workshop was renamed The Art of Penis Pleasuring in 2017. “Martha’s workshop is informative, enlightening and most importantly, fun! We had the chance to learn different skills to please our loved ones, to improve our intimate relationship. After the workshop, you may know the male body and its pleasuring system better […]

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Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Posted On: May 28, 2010

Nomi Tang ‘Better than Chocolate’ Multi-Function Vibrator ‘Better than Chocolate’ is the first of Nomi Tang’s line of sensual consumer products with adult toys. The first word that came to my mind when I saw ‘Better than Chocolate’ was ‘Adventure’. This attributes to its shape – that of the computer mouse – and the infinite […]

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Product Review: ‘Nea’ by Lelo

Product Review: ‘Nea’ by Lelo

Posted On: May 26, 2010

If you are one of those people who agree that ‘Small can be beautiful’, and ‘Small can be powerful’, then you will love the NEA. The NEA Vibrator is manufactured by LELO in Sweden. LELO is a company, founded in 2003, devoted to the design and development of sensual pleasure objects with contemporary/luxury flair. Ergonomically […]

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Sex is not the same as sitting for the ‘10-year series’

Posted On: May 19, 2010

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen where I am a contributor. I tell my clients that sex is not the same as sitting for the ‘10-year series‘. For those who don’t know, the 10-year series is a colloquial term unique to Singapore where students refer to official compilation books of examination papers for the […]

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Vulva Drawing Experience

Posted On: May 17, 2010

I am grateful to a brave workshop participant Elaine Lau, 32 who attended my workshop called ‘Sexual Self Discovery’ and came forward with her story. She did so because she wanted to help encourage women to embrace their sexuality and be comfortable with their bodies. It was published in this month’s issue of Simply Her. […]

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Audio: Faceoff, 938Live

Posted On: May 15, 2010

I appeared after Anisa Hassan, owner of It’s Just Lunch on radio programme, ‘Faceoff’ on 938Live on Thurs 13 May, 1 – 2p.m. Host: Anita Kapoor. Listen to it here.

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Don’t lie back and think of England

Posted On: May 14, 2010

This same article first appeared in The Online Citizen. I am surprised that, in this day and age, I still am asked: “What can women do in bed besides lying back and thinking of England?” In case you are not familiar with this expression, it is an English saying with roughly the same meaning as […]

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“Martha’s belief in the positive power of intimacy and an open heart pointed the way towards possibilities and experiences I never considered possible in my life.”

Posted On: May 12, 2010

“I’ve been working on self-development for several years now, but I’ve found there’s little substitute for working with a coach to work through my issues. Martha is a personal coach who’s remarkably free from judgment. Her gentle challenges of “Well, why not?” to my countless self-imposed barriers, has removed more psychological roadblocks than I had […]

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Why I Became a Sexologist

Posted On: May 4, 2010

First published on The Online Citizen. If there is one question I am asked almost every time I meet somebody new, it is this: “Why did you become a sexologist?” Even complete strangers on Facebook find it is their business to pose one-liner questions along the lines of: “Is your job for real?” Occasionally my […]

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Vaginismus – When a Woman’s Body Says ‘No’

Posted On: April 23, 2010

Recently a girlfriend admitted that until she met me, she had always thought that vaginismus was a myth – a disease that was made up, or had been eradicated in the ’80s, and most definitely did not exist in modern day. In fact, vaginismus is a very real sexual concern that women experience, and more […]

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The elephant in the bedroom: Talking about sex

Posted On: April 17, 2010

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about. Click here to read the article I wrote for The Online Citizen. For most people, sex is a sensitive and difficult subject to talk about. I have come across a man who, after 15 […]

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Quotable Quotes: Sex and Sexuality

Posted On: April 2, 2010

You can learn more about healthy sexuality through discovering what other therapists, writers, and sexual health advocates have said about it. Healthy Sex Quotations I found from here: Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstacy. –Anais Nin Nothing is sexier than the naked mind–nothing more seductive than the inventive imagination. […]

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