Posted On: May 10, 2020
I did this for myself before I became a Sexologist 11 years ago and this helped me “grow” myself sexually. I’ve been teaching this and decided to share this with you. Make a list (can be mental) of all the things you ever wanted to do sexually but haven’t. Choose what is the easiest and […]
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Posted On: May 1, 2020
During this time of the Coronavirus when many of us are facing uncertainty and staying home, I’ve decided to work with my sexuality educator colleagues to offer you some giveaways to support you during this time. Sign up to their offer and/ or contact them directly! 1. 69 Home Activities For Couples by Dr. Martha […]
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Posted On: April 28, 2020
Do you know about the Orgasm Gap? Did you know May is Masturbation Month in the United States? Every May, I do something with regards to debunking myths around masturbation. Subscribe to my free online series Masturbation Month here www.eroscoaching.com/masturbation-month. For this post, I’m sharing some statistics I have gathered about the Orgasm Gap! […]
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Posted On: April 1, 2020
It’s actually been 9 years since I separated from my second ex-husband. All through these years, I’ve been hesitant and afraid of the question: “How can you call yourself a relationship/ sexuality coach/ counselor when you yourself have two ‘failed’ marriages?” It was precisely my fear of such a question that made me hang on […]
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Posted On: March 31, 2020
In partnership with Horny.sg The Coronavirus pandemic has forced the countries around the world to lockdown and call for physical distancing and home quarantine. Staying at home and social distancing is not just advisable but highly recommended. As much as we all love to go about our lives and business, our health must be at the […]
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Posted On: March 15, 2020
Sexual energy is often referred to as lifeforce energy. Hence this is my definition of Sexuality: Your relationship with your lifeforce energy (the innate energy that resides inside you). You can born with strong energy (nature) and/ or cultivate it (nurture) e.g. exercise/ food. Regardless whether you have strong/ weak energy (vitality), you can learn […]
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Posted On: March 1, 2020
I am thinking about why some women embrace their scars from a mastectomy (removal of the whole breast) and others hate theirs. For those who hate their scars – It is a reminder of cancer, surgery, the fragility of life; the loss of what was and what was there. It may all come together for […]
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Posted On: February 20, 2020
When I was younger, I didn’t like endings – play time, be a movie, book, drama series (30+ episodes). I would cry at the end of TV shows because it was so good and I enjoyed it so much – why did it have to end? Later as I grew older and understood that everything […]
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Posted On: February 13, 2020
Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks. Psychic: “… You have to leave him or you will lose everything including everything you worked so hard for (aka my practice). In the end… he will still be unfaithful to you… you will lose your mind… leave him. You have to leave him by […]
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Posted On: January 21, 2020
I started to date a new person only a few times, yet he already brought up marriage a couple of times. Recently when he brought it up again, I replied why it won’t work between us. Instead of trying to understand my point of view, he went into blame of how I was hurting him […]
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Posted On: January 20, 2020
Several years ago, a guy I started to see and liked a lot called it quits saying he felt intuitively that I wasn’t the “right person” ending with “It’s not you. It’s me.” Even then, I took it quite personal and wondered if I did anything wrong. Shortly after, he started to date somebody else […]
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Posted On: January 8, 2020
Your sexuality is an innate part of who we are. So many people suffer from lack of or misinformation about sex and sexuality though, and as a result suffer in silence and often for long periods of time – not knowing where to go to seek support and who to trust. My non-coaches friends share […]
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