Posted On: March 5, 2026
This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]
Posted On: January 1, 2026
We spend so much time learning to say “no”—and for good reason. Boundaries matter. Protecting our time, energy, and well-being is essential. For many women, especially Asian women, assertiveness training is transformative work, undoing years of being taught to accommodate, to please, to stay quiet. But there’s another side to this work that’s rarely discussed: […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
I started keeping these annual milestones as a personal record because so much happens in a year that it all blurs together. This list is primarily for me — a way to remember what I did, where my energy went, and what I showed up for. All this helps ground myself in reality when I […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
A French civil servant allegedly drugged over 240 women during job interviews over nine years, forcing them into situations where they had to urinate in public (Chrisafis, 2025). He kept a spreadsheet titled “Experiments” documenting times, reactions, and photographs of their legs. The story is horrifying. But beyond the outrage, there’s something we need to […]
Posted On: November 20, 2025
Vaginal pain and dryness—especially around perimenopause and menopause—are common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. Your comfort matters. The fastest wins usually come from a two-part plan: (1) daily moisture to nourish the tissue and (2) the right lubricant and tools to make touch and sex comfortable again. Below are my go-to, body-safe picks […]
Posted On: October 20, 2025
1. Behind Closed Doors: Overfunctioning in Dating 😟 on Thurs 5 Mar 2026 Double texting, people-pleasing and over-pursuing – Do you find yourself behaving in these ways in your romantic life? How do we manage relationship anxieties in the face of uncertainty? 2. Behind Closed Doors | Robot Companions 🧑🏻💻💬 on Thurs 26 Feb 2026 […]
Posted On: September 2, 2025
Trigger warning: emotional abuse, coercion, narcissistic control At the 2025 US Open, Czech tennis star Karolína Muchová stopped mid-match in tears after spotting her ex-boyfriend in the crowd. She later regained her composure and went on to win (LADbible, 2025; talkSPORT, 2025). To some, it may have looked like a momentary distraction. To survivors, it […]
Posted On: April 26, 2024
Everything You Should Know about the Size of Penises Comparison of penis sizes can be damaging to people with body image insecurity. It can make them feel worse about themselves and their own body image and lead to unrealistic expectations. Penis Size and Self Image Penis size does not have to affect a man’s self-image. […]
Posted On: April 16, 2024
Can Social Media Be A Substitute For Comprehensive Sex Education? While platforms like Instagram and TikTok offer a wealth of information on sexual health and relationships, they may not be enough on their own. Without guidance from qualified educators, young people risk being misinformed or even harmed by inaccurate or incomplete information. Social media is […]
Posted On: March 29, 2024
Are you looking for a way to spice up your next date night? Netflix has you covered with some of the sexiest movies available to watch with your partner. From steamy thrillers to romantic comedies, here are 10 of the sexiest movies on Netflix that are perfect for a cozy night in with your significant […]
Posted On: December 30, 2023
Language is ever evolving and new words are developed to better communicate what we mean. Check the new relationship and sex terms I wrote about in 2017 which was published in Huffington Post, and 2022! This year, I decided to gathering new words that I’ve learned. These are my new words from 2023! Let me […]
Posted On: December 8, 2023
As a sexologist, I have worked with individuals who are concerned about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and their window period. The window period is the time between when a person is infected with an STI and when the infection can be detected by a test. It’s important to understand the window period for different STIs […]
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