Posted On: January 21, 2022
Sexual Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. What Sexual Consent Looks Like What Sexual Consent Looks Like Sexual Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. Sexual Consent cannot be given by individuals: […]
Posted On: January 6, 2022
When sex is interwoven with culture, values and religion, many of us do not get to experience or explore the full spectrum of human sexual expression possibilities until when coupled. I’ve often had clients asked me what is out there to do sexually since they don’t know what they don’t know. Whilst I really don’t […]
Posted On: January 5, 2022
Trauma bonding is a psychological response to abuse. It occurs when the abused person forms an unhealthy bond with the person who abuses them. Abuse is never your fault. Neither is the development of a trauma bond. For anyone who may have developed a trauma bond, help is available. Many organizations provide emotional […]
Posted On: January 5, 2022
This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2021 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2021. This is because through my 12 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year. Each year, […]
Posted On: January 4, 2022
For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]
Posted On: January 3, 2022
A year has gone by again and so much has happened. I decided to issue my own Eros awards for note worthy news from 2021! 1. The Eros Coolz award (Very, very cool lah!) Sexual wellness boutique opens in department store On the second floor of the Isetan department store at Shaw House, one can order […]
Posted On: December 26, 2021
Some of you might know that I actually have an Asian vulva photo book in partnership with award-winning photographer Kelvin Lim. I thought I’d make a list of the books that celebrate our vulvas that you might like to check out. 1. A Celebration of Vulva Diversity – A book by The Vulva Gallery This […]
Posted On: December 24, 2021
I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018; 100 in 2019; 50 2020. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal of 150) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal of 150) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal of 150) 110 […]
Posted On: December 21, 2021
I was quoted in this piece on Most Common Sex Toy Injuries and how to avoid them on Mashable. Read it here. Don’t be afraid of sex toys or your sexuality. Get educated. Use products they were intended. Listen to your body. It’s not that complicated. 🙂 For more media coverage, do check out my […]
Posted On: December 18, 2021
I’ve had my Patreon page since March 2020. Recently I realised I’ve haven’t done much in publicising it, so I decided to make this post about it! In my Patreon, I release exclusive sharing and content that is not publicly available so do check it out! About the 3 Tiers of Membership 1. Starting at […]
Posted On: December 17, 2021
I started working with Disabled People’s Association since 2019 or so. In 2021, we did eight virtual sexuality education workshops – one week for parents of people with disabilities, the next for people with disabilities. The project is called DisOrdinary Love. Here are the edited recordings. Please reshare so that more people can benefit from […]
Posted On: December 16, 2021
I stumbled across crowd-sourced questions featured on The Independent and started making these reaction/ advice videos. Hope you find them useful! 1. His gf tests him with trivial arguments, insists on frequent dates and text bombards. What to do? Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question: “Boyfriend says […]
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