Interview on Sex and Spirit with James Stevenson

Interview on Sex and Spirit with James Stevenson

Posted On: June 10, 2017

This article appeared originally in The Huffington Post. I recorded these three short videos relating to sex and spirit following my one-hour interview with James Stevenson for my radio show Eros Evolution here. Listen to the show and also watch these three videos – I learned lots from him! 1. What is the link between […]

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The G-Spot

Posted On: February 15, 2011

There is a place within a woman which is so famous that it is referred to by a singular alphabetic term. I am asked frequently, usually by men, just where this is. Many women are confused about whether they have one. The fixation has a lot to do with the belief that its stimulation results […]

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Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Posted On: February 3, 2011

Many women have problems with sex at some stage in their life and it becomes more common as women get older.  Female sexual dysfunction refers to one or more of the following issues: loss of sexual desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm and pain during sex. 1. Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder The opposite end […]

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Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Posted On: December 28, 2010

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. During my training to be a sexologist, I was confused by the differences between PE, DE, and ED. They are, namely, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and erectile dysfunction or disorder, respectively. Later, I realised it was just as confusing for the men who have sexual concerns. Hopefully, […]

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Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Clitoral vs Vaginal Orgasm

Posted On: February 12, 2010

During intercourse, it is the outer third of the vagina that is most stimulated. Some women are able to orgasm through this vaginal penetration. That is, vaginal orgasm — without clitoral stimulation. However research has shown that (Shere Hite’s 1976 survey of 3000 women) only 30% of women can achieve orgasm through intercourse. The clitoris, […]

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Malaysia: Cosplay is Popular

Posted On: January 8, 2010

Cosplay is a hobby that allows you to transcend the world of reality to that of fantasy. In short, you dress up as a character, but it’s not just that. You will have to ‘become’ the character and mimic the character’s personality, gestures and even speaking mannerisms! It’s like a grown-up game of dress-up and […]

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Treatments for Premature Ejaculation

Posted On: January 7, 2010

Premature Ejaculation (PE) is a male sexual dysfunction characterised by ejaculation which usually occurs prior to or within one minute of vaginal penetration and an inability to delay it. It is also accompanied by negative personal consequences, like stress, frustration and the avoidance of sex. PE is a problem not for men alone, but for […]

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What is Naked Wedding?

Posted On: December 30, 2009

It’s not what you think. The new term refers to newlyweds without a house, car, diamond ring or grand wedding ceremony. Born under global financial crisis, it refers to a no frills wedding and has become popular because of the increasing house prices in 2009. However, the attitudes of the two genders are quite different. […]

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One in Three Men has Premature Ejaculation

Posted On: December 27, 2009

As many as one in three men in Singapore could be suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). PE, a devastating condition for a man, is defined as a lack of control on a man’s part during intercourse, resulting in ejaculation prior to or within one minute of penetration, said Associate Professor George Lee Eng Geap from […]

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What are Cougars?

Posted On: November 26, 2009

A woman over 40 who sexually pursues younger men, typically more than eight years her junior. The term is Canadian, appearing first in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate.com and has been used in TV series, advertising and film. In a survey of 4,500 British singles by online dating service Parship.com, it showed that […]

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Do you have sexomnia?

Posted On: September 11, 2009

Sexsomnia refers to a wide range of sleep related sexual behaviors that includes masturbation, fondling, sexual intercourse with climax, and sexual assault/rape. There are three possibilities why this happens: 1) Confusional arousals during which complex behaviors may occur when a sleeping person is suddenly aroused out of deep sleep. 2) Co-existing sleep disorders: other factors […]

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What Does it Mean to be Sex Positive?

Posted On: August 9, 2009

Sex positive is an adjective often used to describe people who are comfortable with their own sexuality and sexuality in general. To me, being sex positive is more than that: • Believes in a positive sexual relationship • Acknowledges that sex can be fun and pleasurable • Accept your right to be or not to […]

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