Testimonial – “You gave me the assurance and confidence that sex…”

Posted On: February 27, 2019

Testimonial that came in from a lady who has been attending my workshops in her desire to understand more about sex and sexuality, and to be able to consummate her marriage:
 

“My husband and I passed the basic stage of having sex with your help! You gave me the assurance and confidence that sex definitely takes practice and it’s not a magical get-it-right-the-first-time-and-every-time kind of a thing. Your tip on using the lubricant definitely helped on some days! Thank you for the reassurance that it’s ok to use one. The water based Squlid was good for me. So really happy that you held the women orgasm class at the sex shop cause I could buy from the shop instead of having to ship it 🙂
 
Also your advice to use a pillow to lift my hip up worked like a charm too! And after multiple tries we did manage to get the girl on top position figured out without breaking anything. It was a challenge though because we were both terrified of penis breakage haha.
 
Thank you so much! We’ll keep in mind your tips as we continue to trial and error. We’re planning to start a family and that will bring forth another set of challenges.”
 
Wow happy to see your site for love fest is up! 🙂 hope to pop by if there’s a chance!
 
In other news, I think the work stress in Singapore might really be the reason why couples don’t have kid or sex LOL. We haven’t have much progress on the sex or making baby department after the holidays cause my husband was saying stress is a libido killer for him X_X
 
Wishing you a healthy and prosperous in the piggy year!” – Anonymous Lady, 4 Feb 2019

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network.  She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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